What does it say about people would don't reply .........?? (44)

Oct 30, 2011 8:46 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Having just posted a Poll entitled ....
'' Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ? ''......
( very revealing answers !! )

- Question ?
what are you experiences of not getting replies to messages.....
and what does it make you think of ' them ' and ' yourself ' ?
Oct 30, 2011 9:51 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
iamamm: Having just posted a Poll entitled ....
'' Do you want / expect / or hope for an answer....from people you have messaged ? ''......
( very revealing answers !! )

- Question ?
what are you experiences of not getting replies to messages.....
and what does it make you think of ' them ' and ' yourself ' ?


I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).

So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.

I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?
Oct 30, 2011 10:35 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).

So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.

I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?


Hi Tulefel

Well I didn't quite expect that sort of answer !
I am wondering exactly what ' previous thread ' you are talking about ?
( Are you talking about the Poll ? )

Look...I just drive a car...I don't know how to service the flipping thing...similarly I am on this site ( but seldom use Forums / polls ) and thus have no idea what you are talking about ....
please feel free to enlighten me ?

Rather than reply with a criticism based on a presumption !!
So let's deal with the content of your last paragraph, once we both know what we are talking about.......okay ?

If anyone messages me on the normal site...I always reply !!
even if it's a bloody scammer !!

Andy : ))
Oct 30, 2011 1:30 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).

So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.

I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?


Let us occupied this thread!!!

flex flex flex
Oct 30, 2011 2:20 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
Futark
FutarkFutarkSliema, Majjistral Malta35 Posts
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).

So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.

I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?



on the other hand it is quite boring to see people start a thread only to reply with emoticons to every single thing said in it....
Oct 30, 2011 2:36 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Futark: on the other hand it is quite boring to see people start a thread only to reply with emoticons to every single thing said in it....


uh oh
Oct 30, 2011 2:42 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
Futark
FutarkFutarkSliema, Majjistral Malta35 Posts
oh the irony in getting a emote reply to that ...
Oct 30, 2011 2:47 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
It says that the recipient is not interested.

You should know by now, because you´ve been a member for some time, that the women in particular often have a hard time when they do respond saying they are not interested. It´s just not worth the effort, however polite one normally is.

As I said in your earlier thread, I do not message men unless they are forum friends, so I can´t say I´ve experienced what you are referring to here.
Oct 30, 2011 3:20 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Tulefel: I’ve checked your previous thread on the same subject, and noticed that you didn’t bother to react in any way, though people cared to post (and the number of participants was rather high for this slow place).

So it looks like that you are one who doesn’t reply.

I don’t want to enforce any rules here, it’s not that unusual that the “hosts” or a thread leave it on its own, but I’ve got a question: how does your non-response coincide with your idea of good manners or politeness? What do you experience by not replying to messages addressed to you?


PLEASE SEE MY COMMENTS ADDED TO THE POLL.....
Oct 30, 2011 4:09 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
lifeisadream: Let us occupied this thread!!!


Too late today, and tomorrow will be a loooooooooong day for me.

Some other time.

wave
Oct 30, 2011 4:10 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
Tulefel
TulefelTulefelGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden24 Threads 1 Polls 2,848 Posts
Futark: on the other hand it is quite boring to see people start a thread only to reply with emoticons to every single thing said in it....


grin grin grin
Oct 30, 2011 5:30 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Tulefel: Too late today, and tomorrow will be a loooooooooong day for me.

Some other time.


hug

wave
Oct 31, 2011 3:46 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
lifeisadream: Let us occupied this thread!!!


Hi.........thanks for the emotes
but do you have any comment about the thread itself ?

Andy
Oct 31, 2011 3:48 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Futark: on the other hand it is quite boring to see people start a thread only to reply with emoticons to every single thing said in it....


Could not agree more........sorry about the lateness of my reply !

Andy
Oct 31, 2011 3:49 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Ditto .......my first reply !
Oct 31, 2011 4:02 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
JAN_is: It says that the recipient is not interested.

You should know by now, because you´ve been a member for some time, that the women in particular often have a hard time when they do respond saying they are not interested. It´s just not worth the effort, however polite one normally is.

As I said in your earlier thread, I do not message men unless they are forum friends, so I can´t say I´ve experienced what you are referring to here.


Hi Jan
In which case why would they vote you a 10 ?
why would they view your profile ?
Of course many are not going to be interested, I have no illusions ...
and agree women may have a hard time, but not sure it's any less hard for men ?
( many examples can be supplied, lol )
As for not worth the effort , that's a pity....would have thought most ' lifers ' on here could handle themselves ?
Maybe I am ever the optimist ?
Regarding your not messaging...unless forum friends...jeeez..wonder how many other women on here only do the same ?
Maybe it should be renamed ' ConnectingForums ' ?
Seriously , I know a few that make it clear they are only here for the forums...
but it's the others I am talking about...who I have to assume are not like you ?
Oct 31, 2011 4:04 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
Tulefel: Too late today, and tomorrow will be a loooooooooong day for me.

Some other time.


NO rush......no rush at all ......in fact don't hurry ...maybe next year ?
Oct 31, 2011 10:33 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
iamamm: Hi.........thanks for the emotes
but do you have any comment about the thread itself ?

Andy


If there is not reply that is obvious that they are not interested.
Oct 31, 2011 10:40 AM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Futark: oh the irony in getting a emote reply to that ...


Just going along with the thread grin

Nothing personal.

coffee
Oct 31, 2011 1:09 PM CST What does it say about people would don't reply .........??
iamamm
iamammiamammBaza, 18800, Granada Province, Andalusia Spain16 Threads 2 Polls 417 Posts
lifeisadream: Just going along with the thread

Nothing personal.


Don't worry......I didn't take it personally
it takes a lot more than that to annoy me wine
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