wanting more kids, but not able to have any ( Archived) (31)

Oct 28, 2006 10:50 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
are there any other's out there that would love to have more children but can't due to physical (medical ) reasons.. and are worried that might make their chance to find "the one" not as great?
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Oct 28, 2006 10:53 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
mach25
mach25mach25Somewhere, USA93 Threads 841 Posts
adopt?dunno
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Oct 28, 2006 10:55 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
My reasons are not medical, but still physical....

The other half is physically absent!
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Oct 28, 2006 10:56 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
i agree with you on that one.. but what if a woman couldnt have biological children and the guy she is with wants a biological child.. affording to have A.I. is not possible or to have a surrogate mother.. but he def. wants a biological child..



or say a man who already had children and was fixed, met a woman without kids who wanted a biological child and wouldnt settle for anything less
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Oct 28, 2006 10:57 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
chance2485
chance2485chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA123 Threads 1,365 Posts
tt,

yes,sweety! I love children...and wish I had all the ones there
parents didn't want...but,impossible...love the ones who need you..


sweety your a great mom....and a friend...Your heart speaks of love
put this in Gods hands...it already there...I love you,chance
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Oct 28, 2006 11:00 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
i'd be happy to adopt kids , my love is not for my blood children alone.. i have plenty for other children without families.. i guess that is why i usually try to find a man who already has children who would maybe one day want to adopt
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Oct 28, 2006 11:03 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
mach25
mach25mach25Somewhere, USA93 Threads 841 Posts
my boys would like ya, the oldest said you were pretty!laugh little mach4!rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 28, 2006 11:05 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
i'm sure i'd like them too paul
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Oct 28, 2006 11:11 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
mach25
mach25mach25Somewhere, USA93 Threads 841 Posts
Kids are great, I have two,most know, but as for wanting more, I think I may be done?? I'm 25 and if one day I had another, I would be older then 25 most defiantely and I would think I was maybe too old??? Not sure, but as far as kids that need a roof over there head? Sure, no hungry little mouth will be turned away form ol' mach!
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Oct 28, 2006 11:12 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
i'd like to have at least one more.. but i can't anymore.. but i'd like to know that my not being able to have children would keep a man from wanting to be with me..
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Oct 28, 2006 11:14 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
Then he's not the right man, obviously.
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Oct 28, 2006 11:16 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
mach25
mach25mach25Somewhere, USA93 Threads 841 Posts
thumbs up
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Oct 28, 2006 11:18 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
*wouldn't keep a man from wanting to be with me
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Oct 28, 2006 11:20 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
ariesgirl003
ariesgirl003ariesgirl003Bangin, New Jersey USA32 Threads 3,038 Posts
yup know what you're talking about all the guys I meet either don't have kids and want them don't want to date me cause I have kids, I have three kids I care for all by myself and I don't want anymore well I'll keep lookingmoping
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Oct 28, 2006 11:33 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
This is a great thread TT.

I am not at an age where it would even be considered safe to try to have another baby. ( whether I could or not )


I try to be specific in my profile about this issue and it still gets overlooked. While I would accept my partners children and enjoy spending time with them and being a part of their lives, I do not wish to have any new ones.



This issue should be discussed by both parties before the relationship gets developed further. I would hope that if a man finds out soon enough that the woman can not have children and this is an issue, it should be handled early in the relationship.
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Oct 28, 2006 11:34 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
thanks for ur input cat..


on my profile it says i dont want more but accept thiers.. however in my about me it states that they didnt have a cant have more option and that while i'd be happy to have my partners children in my life.. i cant have any more myself.. (something to that affect)
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Oct 28, 2006 11:44 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
blancalatina
blancalatinablancalatinawinston-salem, USA42 Threads 3,315 Posts
I am still able to have children. The man I want a future with may not be able to. I've got enough children and enough love not to make that an issue. Besides, I have PLENTY of children filling the nest and regardless of is he did or didn't want more...my plate is full anyway. If he doesn't "want" you because of it...than honey you shouldn't want him either!
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Oct 28, 2006 11:58 AM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
I've never had children. I'm getting to the point where I wonder if I ever will. I like to think I'm a hell of an uncle. I'm living with a good friend of mine that just finalised his divorce last week. He has 3 kids, I've known since they were born, Ice cream man, all the brats run to Randy lol.
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Oct 28, 2006 12:06 PM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
Should I say borrowing a room from, lol, untill I figure out what to do next.
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Oct 28, 2006 12:16 PM CST wanting more kids, but not able to have any
Leatherman66
Leatherman66Leatherman66Lima, Ohio USA32 Threads 615 Posts
Give you my three, they are driving me nuts today!!! Problem is you would bring them back in an hour, lol. Why do kid's pick on their younger siblings?

I love my hell-yun's wouldn't trade for nothing. My youngest keeps yelling in ASL, American Sign Language. The other two keeps picking on each other and the youngest. HURRY BEDTIME!!!!LOL

Adoption parents are badly needed, I would go with that, sometimes you just can't have the other(bio). Or there are all kinds of ways to
to medically try to have bio's born babies, Some don't have the need for the serrogate mother. Tied tubes can be undone, and there is all kinds of new science on the subject.
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