are there any other's out there that would love to have more children but can't due to physical (medical ) reasons.. and are worried that might make their chance to find "the one" not as great?
i agree with you on that one.. but what if a woman couldnt have biological children and the guy she is with wants a biological child.. affording to have A.I. is not possible or to have a surrogate mother.. but he def. wants a biological child..
or say a man who already had children and was fixed, met a woman without kids who wanted a biological child and wouldnt settle for anything less
i'd be happy to adopt kids , my love is not for my blood children alone.. i have plenty for other children without families.. i guess that is why i usually try to find a man who already has children who would maybe one day want to adopt
Kids are great, I have two,most know, but as for wanting more, I think I may be done?? I'm 25 and if one day I had another, I would be older then 25 most defiantely and I would think I was maybe too old??? Not sure, but as far as kids that need a roof over there head? Sure, no hungry little mouth will be turned away form ol' mach!
i'd like to have at least one more.. but i can't anymore.. but i'd like to know that my not being able to have children would keep a man from wanting to be with me..
yup know what you're talking about all the guys I meet either don't have kids and want them don't want to date me cause I have kids, I have three kids I care for all by myself and I don't want anymore well I'll keep looking
catwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA6,683 posts
This is a great thread TT.
I am not at an age where it would even be considered safe to try to have another baby. ( whether I could or not )
I try to be specific in my profile about this issue and it still gets overlooked. While I would accept my partners children and enjoy spending time with them and being a part of their lives, I do not wish to have any new ones.
This issue should be discussed by both parties before the relationship gets developed further. I would hope that if a man finds out soon enough that the woman can not have children and this is an issue, it should be handled early in the relationship.
on my profile it says i dont want more but accept thiers.. however in my about me it states that they didnt have a cant have more option and that while i'd be happy to have my partners children in my life.. i cant have any more myself.. (something to that affect)
I am still able to have children. The man I want a future with may not be able to. I've got enough children and enough love not to make that an issue. Besides, I have PLENTY of children filling the nest and regardless of is he did or didn't want more...my plate is full anyway. If he doesn't "want" you because of it...than honey you shouldn't want him either!
I've never had children. I'm getting to the point where I wonder if I ever will. I like to think I'm a hell of an uncle. I'm living with a good friend of mine that just finalised his divorce last week. He has 3 kids, I've known since they were born, Ice cream man, all the brats run to Randy lol.
Give you my three, they are driving me nuts today!!! Problem is you would bring them back in an hour, lol. Why do kid's pick on their younger siblings?
I love my hell-yun's wouldn't trade for nothing. My youngest keeps yelling in ASL, American Sign Language. The other two keeps picking on each other and the youngest. HURRY BEDTIME!!!!LOL
Adoption parents are badly needed, I would go with that, sometimes you just can't have the other(bio). Or there are all kinds of ways to to medically try to have bio's born babies, Some don't have the need for the serrogate mother. Tied tubes can be undone, and there is all kinds of new science on the subject.
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