Spreading yourself thin... ( Archived) (59)

Nov 16, 2011 10:04 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Rocksmith: Very sad, but true i think scuba... nobody seems to want to work at it now days.

Maybe we have too much to choose from?


wave rock.. yeah, i think you're right. We do have too much to choose from. Imagine the days when there was no internet and you were more or less restricted to your town. shock
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Nov 16, 2011 10:06 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Kaybee50: This is simply the way it is now, or so it seems. I feel like a fish out of water at times because I find it difficult to open up to someone who is dating other women at the same time, and so things don't develop.


Touche! I don't know why, but I cannot take a guy serious who goes out on a bunch of other dates either. I concentrate on one at a time, not 5 at a time. To me, such a fellow immediately falls into the "friends" category, no chance of rehab laugh
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Nov 16, 2011 10:07 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Scubadiva: I cannot believe I'm even thinking about this, but lately I've heard this coming from a few corners: Men and women dating or entertaining multiple "relationship" so that they got someone to run to in case another doesn't work out.

I thought that nonsense stopped when we turned 20.

I can see the appeal in it, but come on... those are kids games that have nothing to do with being in a relationship or genuine feelings... or does it?

Thoughts?
A Relationship is Nothing but a Kids Game in the western countries doh
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Nov 16, 2011 10:08 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
ali110: A Relationship is Nothing but a Kids Game in the western countries


So why do you want to come here so much ? .....laugh wave
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Nov 16, 2011 10:08 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
fieldworking: I don't know why people would want to have multiple "relationships." I guess if they are just playing the field and aren't in a serious relationship with someone then it shouldn't be a problem. Once you tell one person that you want to be in a more serious relationship, then there shouldn't be going out on dates with other people.


Agree. (or should I just push that little thumbs up thing that's above your post box?)confused
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Nov 16, 2011 10:11 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
RDM59: So why do you want to come here so much ? .....
I dont want to Come there ,I am spending a Better life here with respect tongue

Hi R laugh wave
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Nov 16, 2011 10:16 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
ali110: I dont want to Come there ,I am spending a Better life here with respect

Hi R


That's the best news I've heard all day Ali.....thumbs up rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Nov 16, 2011 10:21 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
ali110: A Relationship is Nothing but a Kids Game in the western countries


Oh come on... way to generalize, Ali. There are plenty of men and women in the east who don't take relationships (or even their marriages) too seriously.
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Nov 16, 2011 10:27 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
horizonrizon
horizonrizonhorizonrizonAtlantis, Central Jutland Denmark19 Threads 2 Polls 171 Posts
Scubadiva: I cannot believe I'm even thinking about this, but lately I've heard this coming from a few corners: Men and women dating or entertaining multiple "relationship" so that they got someone to run to in case another doesn't work out.

I thought that nonsense stopped when we turned 20.

I can see the appeal in it, but come on... those are kids games that have nothing to do with being in a relationship or genuine feelings... or does it?

Thoughts?
Sign of the times ...I guess,we all think we are so special ...or so our friends tell us ...he / she is not good enough etc,etc ,,,yeah right ,,I am fantastic ...but just can't handle myself alone ....love is total nonsense,same as any drug ...but we all wanna fix !We all get turned onto our own emotions ....life of the modern Sahdi ...or blue/green scubadiver ...
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Nov 16, 2011 10:58 AM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
Now I feel *really* behind the times... doh



When I was actively looking, I would not send out more than one email at a time... then wait for a week for a reply before giving up sigh

What can I say... I'm a GUY... and *we* aren't allowed to play more than one bingo card at a time laugh
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Nov 16, 2011 1:36 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
horizonrizon
horizonrizonhorizonrizonAtlantis, Central Jutland Denmark19 Threads 2 Polls 171 Posts
Ur_Knight: Now I feel *really* behind the times...
When I was actively looking, I would not send out more than one email at a time... then wait for a week for a reply before giving up

What can I say... I'm a GUY... and *we* aren't allowed to play more than one bingo card at a time
life is a challenge ....choose your game ...what/whoever bites on the hook ...reel the fresh meat/Fish or otherwize in to your web of control ... women are all hole and mounds of natural desire ... what they think, and what they do ...just enlightens their personal desire to be alone.... women are the continuation of life ...men are not men without women .... and women are not women without men ...this is the word of life ...and life according to word...
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Nov 16, 2011 1:42 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
horizonrizon: life is a challenge ....choose your game ...what/whoever bites on the hook ...reel the fresh meat/Fish or otherwize in to your web of control ... women are all hole and mounds of natural desire ... what they think, and what they do ...just enlightens their personal desire to be alone.... women are the continuation of life ...men are not men without women .... and women are not women without men ...this is the word of life ...and life according to word...


I don't believe in the *catch and release* policy...

When I catch the perfect fish, it gets Mounted

wow rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 16, 2011 2:26 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ur_Knight: I don't believe in the *catch and release* policy...

When I catch the perfect fish, it gets Mounted


You devil you devil rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 16, 2011 2:29 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
venusenvy: You devil you


That would be me blushing

Hi gorgeous wave bouquet
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Nov 16, 2011 2:38 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Ur_Knight: That would be me

Hi gorgeous


I know it!! Hiya Handsome teddybear
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Nov 16, 2011 4:22 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Mysticalli
MysticalliMysticalliTeresina, Piaui Brazil6 Threads 5 Polls 1,303 Posts
I feel so old fashioned now... sigh
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Nov 16, 2011 4:29 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
alonerdo
alonerdoalonerdoHuixquilucan, Mexico State Mexico3 Threads 1 Polls 228 Posts
Mysticalli: I feel so old fashioned now...

comfort rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 16, 2011 5:39 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
Ur_Knight: I don't believe in the *catch and release* policy...

When I catch the perfect fish, it gets Mounted
wow giggle
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Nov 16, 2011 7:10 PM CST Spreading yourself thin...
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
I'm still a proponent of getting a dog. yawn
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