Ways to find out if someone is single ( Archived) (15)

Nov 10, 2011 4:21 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
fieldworking
fieldworkingfieldworkingHenderson, Nevada USA13 Threads 9 Polls 186 Posts
You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.

Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?

This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.
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Nov 10, 2011 4:40 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
mustbnutz
mustbnutzmustbnutzKingman, Arizona USA33 Threads 5 Polls 3,730 Posts
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.

Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?

This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.




That is the key.........
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Nov 10, 2011 5:20 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
I don´t think rings prove anything these days. Here in Spain wedding rings are worn on the right hand as opposed to the left in the UK my country of birth, and I continue to wear a ring on my left hand just because I was married for a long time and feel naked without it. I also know married people who dislike wearing rings, so that´s not a red flag in my opinion.

The real signs I believe are if someone cannot see or contact you at certain times of the day, or holidays like Christmas when they become unavailable.

I have no experience of this as far as I know, but CS has taught me a lot!
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Nov 10, 2011 5:25 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.

Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?

This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.


I would call the Records Department of the town he lives in to find out if there is a marriage license on file...or....if there is a divorce decree. You can also find out how much child support they are paying. Trust me, I've done it..
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Nov 10, 2011 5:28 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.

Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?

This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.

If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached. laugh
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Nov 10, 2011 5:34 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached.


Possibly, but not in my experience. I´ve had relationships with men (in Spain) who do not fit your description as married or "attached" at all.
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Nov 10, 2011 5:38 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached.
maybe/just maybe...if i rip off my clothes..then yours and throw them on the floor.....make mad pass, love to you with my muddy boots on,,,,,then into your toilet ,,,and piss all over your floor.........would that convince you......dunno dunno rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 10, 2011 5:50 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
don't think thats going to be a good test Libra . Could be why men are single
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached.
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Nov 10, 2011 5:53 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
silentspring
silentspringsilentspringFjälkinge, Skane Sweden6 Threads 515 Posts
trueheart1941: maybe/just maybe...if i rip off my clothes..then yours and throw them on the floor.....make mad pass, love to you with my muddy boots on,,,,,then into your toilet ,,,and piss all over your floor.........would that convince you......



YOU trueheart, make me rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing every single day......This one.......will keep me awake all night!!!!
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Nov 10, 2011 5:59 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
silentspring: YOU trueheart, make me every single day......This one.......will keep me awake all night!!!!
hi......S/S....grin disgusting...is,nt it........giggle giggle
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Nov 10, 2011 7:00 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
ways to find out someone is single...

how about just asking them?
and if after a while, you don't trust them, why are you with them anyways?
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Nov 10, 2011 7:00 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached domesticated.


Guilty as charged... but single nonetheless

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Nov 10, 2011 8:19 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.

Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?

This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unclear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.
Back when I was married, I was also in a rock band. I couldn't wear my ring during the shows because it kept "snagging" on the fret board and was a hinderance.
Also, any electrician will tell you that it's unwise to wear wedding rings (or any metalic jewelry) while on the job, for safety reasons; as gold is one of the best conductors there are.

Point being, even if someone temporarily removes their wedding ring for whatever reason(s), there is still a "wear" mark on their finger from where their ring was. The skin tone may also be lighter as well in that area.
A quick glance at a married persons finger may tell you in most cases, ring or not.

That's just another example in the midst. grin
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Nov 10, 2011 10:11 PM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
One way is to just come out and ask them.

Another way is to ask yourself over to see his home and see what he says.

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Nov 11, 2011 7:20 AM CST Ways to find out if someone is single
silentspring
silentspringsilentspringFjälkinge, Skane Sweden6 Threads 515 Posts
trueheart1941: hi......S/S.... disgusting...is,nt it........



Jaa...very disgusting, yet very convincing, first date and first day out of the cave.............it's a beginning after all. yay yay
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