You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.
Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?
This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.
Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?
This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.
I don´t think rings prove anything these days. Here in Spain wedding rings are worn on the right hand as opposed to the left in the UK my country of birth, and I continue to wear a ring on my left hand just because I was married for a long time and feel naked without it. I also know married people who dislike wearing rings, so that´s not a red flag in my opinion.
The real signs I believe are if someone cannot see or contact you at certain times of the day, or holidays like Christmas when they become unavailable.
I have no experience of this as far as I know, but CS has taught me a lot!
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.
Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?
This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.
I would call the Records Department of the town he lives in to find out if there is a marriage license on file...or....if there is a divorce decree. You can also find out how much child support they are paying. Trust me, I've done it..
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.
Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?
This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.
If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached.
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached.
Possibly, but not in my experience. I´ve had relationships with men (in Spain) who do not fit your description as married or "attached" at all.
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached.
maybe/just maybe...if i rip off my clothes..then yours and throw them on the floor.....make mad pass, love to you with my muddy boots on,,,,,then into your toilet ,,,and piss all over your floor.........would that convince you......
don't think thats going to be a good test Libra . Could be why men are single
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attached.
trueheart1941: maybe/just maybe...if i rip off my clothes..then yours and throw them on the floor.....make mad pass, love to you with my muddy boots on,,,,,then into your toilet ,,,and piss all over your floor.........would that convince you......
YOU trueheart, make me every single day......This one.......will keep me awake all night!!!!
70Libra: If he's careful about folding his clothes as he's undressing, wipes his feet on the doormat, washes out his cup/mug, puts the toilet seat down... he's attacheddomesticated.
fieldworking: You'd think that if they are not wearing a wedding ring that this would mean that they are single. But I'm sure that there are reasons that someone wouldn't wear their ring. For example, they have a job where the ring could easily get lost.
Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?
This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unclear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.
Back when I was married, I was also in a rock band. I couldn't wear my ring during the shows because it kept "snagging" on the fret board and was a hinderance. Also, any electrician will tell you that it's unwise to wear wedding rings (or any metalic jewelry) while on the job, for safety reasons; as gold is one of the best conductors there are.
Point being, even if someone temporarily removes their wedding ring for whatever reason(s), there is still a "wear" mark on their finger from where their ring was. The skin tone may also be lighter as well in that area. A quick glance at a married persons finger may tell you in most cases, ring or not.
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Basically, I am interested in knowing how you would find out if someone is single before asking them out. Do you prefer to take the risk and ask them out? Do you ask them if they are seeing anyone?
This is just to get people talking. It isn't a personal thing...meaning that it has nothing to do with me. I'm just curious to know your preferences. If I have been unlear in what I have asked, please ask. Again, this is not about me...it's just a conversation starter.