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Dec 27, 2011 11:54 PM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
arapaho
arapahoarapahobrisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 678 Posts
the secret of attracting men ??
the secret of attracting me, a man,
frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated
just show up and take an interest,
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Dec 28, 2011 8:20 AM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
arapaho: the secret of attracting men ??
the secret of attracting me, a man,

just show up and take an interest,


not much of a secret

but the simplicity is nicehug
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Dec 28, 2011 11:18 AM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
Mermaidon: I respect your opinion, but generalizing isn't right right. Not ALL men are the same just like not ALL women are the same.
Just gotta do what feels right for you.
There is no "secret to attracting a man" just like there are no "secret to attracting a woman". Depends on the man and depends on the woman, we're all different (even though we're all the same...)


I have corrected myself. One lady said she thought I meant, acting a little hard to get. Meaning neither men nor women want to be around someone that is just gushing over you, it's kind of repelling, especially at first or last, ha.
I did say men like the chase, I stand corrected if some men don't.
Maybe I am commenting on what works for me. Also a dab of nice perfume doesn't hurt at least from the men I have dated. In fact they loved the smell.
I agree, we all are different. There are some men I met that I wanted to run from the instant I met. Others were fine.
This is just a thread to get ideas on what people think. It has been eye opening to me.

As for being yourself, I am myself. I do flirt with men, and kid with them. That is my personality. Just like I give my women friends a hard time. I can get one girl friend to laugh so hard her stomach hurts.

The Dobe
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Dec 28, 2011 12:08 PM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
Mermaidon
MermaidonMermaidonBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium26 Threads 4 Polls 1,116 Posts
doberman3: I have corrected myself. One lady said she thought I meant, acting a little hard to get. Meaning neither men nor women want to be around someone that is just gushing over you, it's kind of repelling, especially at first or last, ha.
I did say men like the chase, I stand corrected if some men don't.
Maybe I am commenting on what works for me. Also a dab of nice perfume doesn't hurt at least from the men I have dated. In fact they loved the smell.
I agree, we all are different. There are some men I met that I wanted to run from the instant I met. Others were fine.
This is just a thread to get ideas on what people think. It has been eye opening to me.

As for being yourself, I am myself. I do flirt with men, and kid with them. That is my personality. Just like I give my women friends a hard time. I can get one girl friend to laugh so hard her stomach hurts.

The Dobe


wine tip hat
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Jan 1, 2012 5:14 PM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
RR313
RR313RR313Brooklyn, New York USA53 Posts
Hmmm....if I am attracted to a man, he knows it. It is a very rare thing for me to feel that certain "attraction". My days of playing cat and mouse are over.

I can only speak for myself, but if a guy makes me chase him, he will lose me. My time and efforts are better spent on other activities.

Psst...I wear "Pink Warm and Cozy" by Victoria Secret.

applause i agree no chasing, no games. i just received bondgirl 007 for xmas lets see how it worksrolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 1, 2012 6:09 PM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
I personally don't chase as I've found that never works for me, but if I'm interested I'll let him know.

I think a healthy moderation of interest is good to start - I'm leery of those who suddenly are your new best friend as its somewhat overwhelming.
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Jan 1, 2012 10:53 PM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
marss: godzilla is suppose to be a female babe...
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Mar 5, 2012 9:50 PM CST The Secret to Attracting a Man
Kargyle227
Kargyle227Kargyle227Home of the B-2, Missouri USA17 Threads 4 Polls 480 Posts
For Some...
wow
It's just a matter of walking outside...
And grin SMILING grin
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