Mermaidon: I respect your opinion, but generalizing isn't right right. Not ALL men are the same just like not ALL women are the same. Just gotta do what feels right for you. There is no "secret to attracting a man" just like there are no "secret to attracting a woman". Depends on the man and depends on the woman, we're all different (even though we're all the same...)
I have corrected myself. One lady said she thought I meant, acting a little hard to get. Meaning neither men nor women want to be around someone that is just gushing over you, it's kind of repelling, especially at first or last, ha. I did say men like the chase, I stand corrected if some men don't. Maybe I am commenting on what works for me. Also a dab of nice perfume doesn't hurt at least from the men I have dated. In fact they loved the smell. I agree, we all are different. There are some men I met that I wanted to run from the instant I met. Others were fine. This is just a thread to get ideas on what people think. It has been eye opening to me.
As for being yourself, I am myself. I do flirt with men, and kid with them. That is my personality. Just like I give my women friends a hard time. I can get one girl friend to laugh so hard her stomach hurts.
doberman3: I have corrected myself. One lady said she thought I meant, acting a little hard to get. Meaning neither men nor women want to be around someone that is just gushing over you, it's kind of repelling, especially at first or last, ha. I did say men like the chase, I stand corrected if some men don't. Maybe I am commenting on what works for me. Also a dab of nice perfume doesn't hurt at least from the men I have dated. In fact they loved the smell. I agree, we all are different. There are some men I met that I wanted to run from the instant I met. Others were fine. This is just a thread to get ideas on what people think. It has been eye opening to me.
As for being yourself, I am myself. I do flirt with men, and kid with them. That is my personality. Just like I give my women friends a hard time. I can get one girl friend to laugh so hard her stomach hurts.
Hmmm....if I am attracted to a man, he knows it. It is a very rare thing for me to feel that certain "attraction". My days of playing cat and mouse are over.
I can only speak for myself, but if a guy makes me chase him, he will lose me. My time and efforts are better spent on other activities.
Psst...I wear "Pink Warm and Cozy" by Victoria Secret.
i agree no chasing, no games. i just received bondgirl 007 for xmas lets see how it works
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the secret of attracting me, a man,
just show up and take an interest,