Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again ( Archived) (49)

Dec 6, 2011 2:01 PM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
rider4u
rider4urider4uDunchurch, Ontario Canada8 Threads 1,361 Posts
So sorry for your loss Dobe...

As for the good and bad thing, the good ones haven't as much to work on this time around and the bad ones have so much work to do they will be here with us for a loooonnnng time to come. Your friend is in my thoughts and so are you, much peace to you hug
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Dec 6, 2011 2:13 PM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
I believe people don't die, they just live in anther universe..read about parallel universes
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Jan 11, 2012 12:35 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
lovelylass3
lovelylass3lovelylass3Auckland, New Zealand6 Threads 202 Posts
doberman3: We were in a close group of girlfriends. Mysteriously brought together. We laughed, talked about problems, etc. We were tight.
Now we have lost Coleete. People are not replaceable. She was such a good person. Her health had gotten bad, a kidney transplant was starting to not work. I am lucky I can see her face.
I lost another good girlfriend several years ago. She always had a smile on her face and supported her friends. We became very close. But she died of cancer.
It's hard to understand why the really good people die soon. Seems like the bad ones, keep on going.

Meeting with friends of our group, not the Stepford Wifes to be together today. Funeral coming up.

Any of you that believe in prayer or other, please think of my friend Colette. She was kind to everyone and had the best sense of humor.

L The Dobe
They say life is short, so contact a friend soon and tell them you love them. Time waits for no one.
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hug: It is always so sad to lose someone you love.. remember the good times and know you were lucky enough to share them ... As we say in New Zealand , Kia Kaha, which means stay strong sad flower
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Jan 11, 2012 1:04 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
lovelylass3: :
hug: It is always so sad to lose someone you love.. remember the good times and know you were lucky enough to share them ... As we say in New Zealand , Kia Kaha, which means stay strong


Thank you Lovely, that was nice. It's funny to read you wrote share the person. We all belonged in a small group and would share ourselves, have dinner, laugh...We were in a large community and the head of our group wanted to start a small group to show how unique a person can be plus be with others. We each joined and grew to care for each other.

I actually think it was a blessing she is gone. She had 2 kidney transplants and had started to have a problem with the second one.
But we were blessed to have the time we had with her.

She was very unique, she did not share her trials with all the group about trying to stay healthy. But a few of the group knew.
We all went to the service and got to see her urn. It was beautiful.
I think it helped her family to see our group since Colette had talked about us.

The Dobe
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Jan 11, 2012 1:08 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
marss: no thanks to me?guess i boogered the topic up...will not happen again miss l....my apologies...


Marss, I'm so sorry, you did nothing wrong, I missed your note. I appreciate what you wrote. Don't apology!

The Dobe
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Jan 11, 2012 1:18 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
lovelylass3
lovelylass3lovelylass3Auckland, New Zealand6 Threads 202 Posts
doberman3: Thank you Lovely, that was nice. It's funny to read you wrote share the person. We all belonged in a small group and would share ourselves, have dinner, laugh...We were in a large community and the head of our group wanted to start a small group to show how unique a person can be plus be with others. We each joined and grew to care for each other.

I actually think it was a blessing she is gone. She had 2 kidney transplants and had started to have a problem with the second one.
But we were blessed to have the time we had with her.

She was very unique, she did not share her trials with all the group about trying to stay healthy. But a few of the group knew.
We all went to the service and got to see her urn. It was beautiful.
I think it helped her family to see our group since Colette had talked about us.

The Dobe

It is a tough way to start off the New Year losing someone you care for but already you are seeing the blessings, I am trying to follow my own advice as well i.e forum post "life is unfair."
I am sure seeing your group together at the service was a huge help to her family ,just knowing she had touched the lives of you all would have been lovely for them...take care my friendteddybear
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Jan 11, 2012 2:41 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
Tovarasha
TovarashaTovarashaNorth Hollywood, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 219 Posts
sad flower I am sorry for your loss Dobe. teddybear
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Jan 11, 2012 6:03 PM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
Hey Dobe. I can understand what you are going through. I lost two of my dearest friends one on Dec 6 and the other on Dec 24. I feel the same that I can't believe I won't see them again. I got some friends together over New year's Eve and pulled out a photo album with their pictures in it. We had some good laughs and it helped ease the hurt. teddybear
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Jan 13, 2012 1:07 AM CST Lost a good girlfriend last night - can't believe I will never see her again
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
single4ever: Hey Dobe. I can understand what you are going through. I lost two of my dearest friends one on Dec 6 and the other on Dec 24. I feel the same that I can't believe I won't see them again. I got some friends together over New year's Eve and pulled out a photo album with their pictures in it. We had some good laughs and it helped ease the hurt.


Hi Single, it's just a shock. We had a lunch with our group and it helped so much. Then we did get together on New Year's. So it will be soon, we will all have to get together again. Someone remembered her getting up one time and was dancing. It cracked me up. I love it when that feeling comes over you and you just do it regardless of others around. I think most people think, boy, I wish I was with that group.

The Dobe
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