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Dec 3, 2011 3:18 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?
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Dec 3, 2011 3:22 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?



Because they want some one younger and fresher!
It's like buying tomatoes, you squeeze it a little bit and if it feel firm and tight you take it home with you. If it's all muchy, best case scenario is that you put it back, but more likely you discarded in the bin.
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Dec 3, 2011 3:25 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY, THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THINIKING LIKE THAT
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Dec 3, 2011 3:29 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
bblewis: MY SENTIMENTS EXACTLY, THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THINIKING LIKE THAT


The supermarket for old geezers are Asia and east Europe I'm afraid.
Western women want younger men, but for the sake of face saving they usually puts one or two years older for preferably man.
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Dec 3, 2011 3:32 PM CST WHY?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
bblewis: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?

Maybe cause we subconsciously know that we do not want to compromise
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Dec 3, 2011 3:33 PM CST WHY?
Mysticalli
MysticalliMysticalliTeresina, Piaui Brazil6 Threads 5 Polls 1,303 Posts
jovisst: Because they want some one younger and fresher!
It's like buying tomatoes, you squeeze it a little bit and if it feel firm and tight you take it home with you. If it's all muchy, best case scenario is that you put it back, but more likely you discarded in the bin.


scold

I don´t agree. What if the lady prefers someone older and wiser? dunno
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Dec 3, 2011 3:34 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
YOU ARE SO RIGHT
I HAVE NOTICED ON HERE THAT WOMEN WANT MEN THAT ARE VERY MUCH YOUNGER
SO, TELL ME WHO IS GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS, MEN OR WOMEN?
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Dec 3, 2011 3:35 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
Mysticalli: I don´t agree. What if the lady prefers someone older and wiser?


And why would that be says the suspicious Swede?
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Dec 3, 2011 3:36 PM CST WHY?
Aphrodites
AphroditesAphroditesKitchener, Ontario Canada10 Posts
It is simple.Most of the time you are asking for too much.
Considering what you are willing to give in return.
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Dec 3, 2011 3:38 PM CST WHY?
Lillyann21
Lillyann21Lillyann21Potterville, Michigan USA1 Posts
Well I can tell you that men my age want the younger women so I guess it works both ways.
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Dec 3, 2011 3:39 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
Aphrodites: It is simple.Most of the time you are asking for too much.
Considering what you are willing to give in return.


Ballony!
That's highly individual, what people are asking and giving, and has nothing to do with age.
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Dec 3, 2011 3:40 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
Lillyann21: Well I can tell you that men my age want the younger women so I guess it works both ways.


True!
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Dec 3, 2011 3:43 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
DONT MOST WOMEN REALISE, THAT AS WE GET OLDER ALL WE WANT TO DO IS GIVE
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Dec 3, 2011 3:44 PM CST WHY?
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
bblewis: YOU ARE SO RIGHT
I HAVE NOTICED ON HERE THAT WOMEN WANT MEN THAT ARE VERY MUCH YOUNGER
SO, TELL ME WHO IS GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS, MEN OR WOMEN?


I think both can be but I think its more than just a midlife crisis. As for people wanting someone younger; I suspect a younger person would be easier to control. After all; most if not all relationships are about control which is why I am not in one. I have no wish to control or be controlled. Also, as one poster says; we getting tired of the compromising. Everything seems to be a debate or arguement; or even blackmail so a person can get what they want out of you. I really hate when someone says you would do this if you loved me. My response was if you loved me; you wouldn't ask me to do this. Relationships are too demanding, too commanding, and too restricting for one to even enjoy life anymore.
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Dec 3, 2011 3:44 PM CST WHY?
bblewis: YOU ARE SO RIGHT
I HAVE NOTICED ON HERE THAT WOMEN WANT MEN THAT ARE VERY MUCH YOUNGER
SO, TELL ME WHO IS GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS, MEN OR WOMEN?


In a Couple of Years You will get thru that feeling and then You will find Patients from within...and Just not stress on it anymore, cheers

Yes it is a hard for a couple of years, anymore, I just walk alone, and Cast back about 99% as it isnt worth My time to set myself up for less than I desire, or just more Hurt...
So I walk with dignity the best I know it, and just keep Hope alive,
that the right one will show in time....dancing

When You show Desperacy, It runs off the few that are left! RIGHT?wink
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Dec 3, 2011 3:45 PM CST WHY?
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
bblewis: YOU ARE SO RIGHT
I HAVE NOTICED ON HERE THAT WOMEN WANT MEN THAT ARE VERY MUCH YOUNGER
SO, TELL ME WHO IS GOING THROUGH A MID LIFE CRISIS, MEN OR WOMEN?


please hit thr QUOTE button before you reply so we know what you are responding to and no CAPs, that's considered shouting
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Dec 3, 2011 3:46 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
In response to: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?

APH,,,, YOU HAVE TO REALISE ONE RHING, MEN MY AGE WILL BEND OVER BACKWARDS TO PLEASE A WOMAN. BUT HALF THE TIME THEY ARE NOT GIVEN THE CHANCE
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Dec 3, 2011 3:46 PM CST WHY?
bblewis
bblewisbblewissmiths, Smith's Parish Bermuda3 Threads 44 Posts
In response to: WE HAVE REACHED OUR GOLDEN YEARS , THEN WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND SOME ONE? EVEN THOUGH WE KNOW EXACTLY WHAT WE WANT IN A PARTNER ?

APH,,,, YOU HAVE TO REALISE ONE RHING, MEN MY AGE WILL BEND OVER BACKWARDS TO PLEASE A WOMAN. BUT HALF THE TIME THEY ARE NOT GIVEN THE CHANCE
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Dec 3, 2011 3:47 PM CST WHY?
jovisst
jovisstjovisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden84 Threads 22 Polls 709 Posts
single4ever: I think both can be but I think its more than just a midlife crisis. As for people wanting someone younger; I suspect a younger person would be easier to control. After all; most if not all relationships are about control which is why I am not in one. I have no wish to control or be controlled. Also, as one poster says; we getting tired of the compromising. Everything seems to be a debate or arguement; or even blackmail so a person can get what they want out of you. I really hate when someone says you would do this if you loved me. My response was if you loved me; you wouldn't ask me to do this. Relationships are too demanding, too commanding, and too restricting for one to even enjoy life anymore.


I bet you have a dog for puppie love. omg
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Dec 3, 2011 3:48 PM CST WHY?
single4ever
single4eversingle4everCalgary, Alberta Canada1,109 Posts
jovisst: I bet you have a dog for puppie love. omg


Nope; no pets in my house at all.
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