Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
Often you only really get to know a person with time, at the start of a relationship we're all generally on our best behaviour so by the the time you realize your with a bad guy your already involved.
morgan5: Often you only really get to know a person with time, at the start of a relationship we're all generally on our best behaviour so by the the time you realize your with a bad guy your already involved.
Dec 5, 2011 6:42 AM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
TheRedSquirrel86Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK45 Posts
TheRedSquirrel86Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK45 posts
Bad people play to their own rules, which is perceived as independence, which is then perceived as strength. A Woman's need for security brings her to danger, because strength and real Men thrive in danger. It's a fine line between a nice guy and a wimp, and women, being as intuitive as they are, are well aware of this.
A sure-fire way of not doing well with women is to attempt to emulate what a Woman "says" she wants in a Man. Women do not, as much as they claim, actually want to be obeyed. What they do want is to battle your will to prove your own indepedence, and let you earn the right to be her Man by being a Man.
TheRedSquirrel86: Bad people play to their own rules, which is perceived as independence, which is then perceived as strength. A Woman's need for security brings her to danger, because strength and real Men thrive in danger. It's a fine line between a nice guy and a wimp, and women, being as intuitive as they are, are well aware of this.
A sure-fire way of not doing well with women is to attempt to emulate what a Woman "says" she wants in a Man. Women do not, as much as they claim, actually want to be obeyed. What they do want is to battle your will to prove your own indepedence, and let you earn the right to be her Man by being a Man.
Hey TRedS was it freud or pavlov who first said this? ....................
Dec 5, 2011 8:20 AM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
TheRedSquirrel86Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK45 Posts
TheRedSquirrel86Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK45 posts
galrads: Hey TRedS was it freud or pavlov who first said this? ....................
Hello,
Sounds like Freud, but it's just(un)common sense.
For all this talk of emotions and feelings and all that noise, the laws of attraction dictate that Women like a Man who could, not necessarily would, but could beat and gouge his rivals and any Man who threatens her.
Jump talking in general terms here, as some women are indeed men on the inside.
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
First...happy birthday. Now to your question. Maybe these women think thay can change the men. Maybe the women don't know what it's like to be with a guy that would actually treat them with respect. Maybe they grew up around these "bad boy" types and think that if men don't act like this (bad boy) then they aren't real men. Personally, I'd rather be with a guy that will treat me right. If a guy wants a women that he can walk all over and treat like a doormat, then all I can say is "Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya."
Just because a women states shes looking for honesty doesnt mean shes had a bad experience in her past...It means she wants honesty in a mate...isnt that a trait you would also hope for?
Dec 12, 2011 5:50 AM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
MzGoldielocksGoldsboro, North Carolina USA43 Posts
MzGoldielocksGoldsboro, North Carolina USA43 posts
there are different reasons but one common reason is most of them do not show their true colors or intentions until the woman is hooked sort of speak...... some of these people have really sharpen their skills of illusion and they can smell vulnerability a mile away
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
For the most part of the month women wants wimps to control in the home but when they ovulate they seek danger outside the home. The more masculin and dangerous the better for a brief affair. And those guys makes horrible husbands. Schimps are behaving the same. LOL.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
Because bad men dont show their true colours for a while so its not easy to spot, but with time they let their guard slip.....
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
well they look at the outside rather than the inside and later ddo not accept making mistake
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
well they look at the outside rather than the inside and later ddo not accept making mistake
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past. Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt? It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence. (ps be nice to me its my birthday)
Are you trying to tell the good guys to become bad?
fieldworking: First...happy birthday. Now to your question. Maybe these women think thay can change the men. Maybe the women don't know what it's like to be with a guy that would actually treat them with respect. Maybe they grew up around these "bad boy" types and think that if men don't act like this (bad boy) then they aren't real men. Personally, I'd rather be with a guy that will treat me right. If a guy wants a women that he can walk all over and treat like a doormat, then all I can say is "Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya."
by choosing the wrong man , women not only ruin their own lives but those of the poor children that are produced after oe night of lust. and then they blame it on the universe. NOOOOO ladies. you are responsible..for anything that the child grows to be.
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Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt?
It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence.
(ps be nice to me its my birthday)