Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt? ( Archived) (36)

Dec 14, 2011 1:35 AM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
doberman3: Men do the same thing, go out with a woman who is bad and complain.

The Dobe



you see? this is an example. we are talking abot women here, and he throws the problem at men. men do the same thing. well lady , this thread is about women. not men
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Dec 14, 2011 5:24 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
cloud747: the way some women act here and show how mech they hate men in general, shows they blame the universe. they fail to address their own mistakes


I disagree with what you say. Maybe some women do here, but the most don't. Do you think the men in CS would let women dish them all the time? Would not they leave?

I do not think you respect women here, or CS. Ever since you have come on, you like to stir things up.

The Doberman
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Dec 14, 2011 5:30 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
doberman3: I disagree with what you say. Maybe some women do here, but the most don't. Do you think the men in CS would let women dish them all the time? Would not they leave?

I do not think you respect women here, or CS. Ever since you have come on, you like to stir things up.

The Doberman


well why don't YOU estate your opinion?
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Dec 14, 2011 7:46 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
doberman3: The Doberman again.....


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Dec 14, 2011 7:48 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past.
Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt?
It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence.
(ps be nice to me its my birthday)


Because all men are bad! Just some are honest about it. tongue laugh
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Dec 14, 2011 8:05 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
joyaepace: Because all men are bad! Just some are honest about it.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing So true, plus, a little bad or a lotta bad is good lips

The Dobe
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Dec 14, 2011 8:06 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
TonyIsAChampion: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past.
Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt?
It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence.
(ps be nice to me its my birthday)


I gave one ex boyfriend several "second chances" over a lengthy period of several years. He was just unbelievable. When I realised - fairly soon into the relationship - that he was not a keeper - I did date other men while I was with him because HE did not want a commitment. By the time he wanted a commitment I was like "you MUST be kidding???" Not sure why I stuck with him for as long as I did - I think I just wasn't ready for anything serious and I knew he was not really boyfriend material so it worked for that reason - also he gave me insights into how some guys can be deceptive - so I now know what to look for....one thing I gained I suppose

so tho I never planned on staying with him the expereince taught me what I DON"T want....that may explain a little of your question
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Dec 14, 2011 8:06 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
TheRedSquirrel86: Hello,

Sounds like Freud, but it's just(un)common sense.

For all this talk of emotions and feelings and all that noise, the laws of attraction dictate that Women like a Man who could, not necessarily would, but could beat and gouge his rivals and any Man who threatens her.

Jump talking in general terms here, as some women are indeed men on the inside.


I would say a woman want a man whom she can respect, not necessarily who threatens her. Although some probably quite like rough power. And whatever women say, we like a man who is of higher rank than we. If he is not, we will make his life miserable! laugh Sorry, but we all have that ancient part of brain that dictates us whom to mate with. uh oh laugh
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Dec 14, 2011 8:09 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
In response to: Ladies be honest with your answers please. If you read some of the profiles the majority of women classify honesty as a major attribute, which can only mean that they have had a bad experience in the past.
Is it possible that you really want a bad man? One who will treat you like dirt?
It seems to me that the really bad guys get the best girls and us nice guys are left sitting on the fence.
(ps be nice to me its my birthday)


if a man threatens me he will be filling out a report with the nice police officers.....just sayin'
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Feb 20, 2012 12:10 AM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
Some Women have a record of liking bad guys.

My first husband was a bad guy. I have 2 half-sisters who g0t involved with bad guys. One has been married 3 times, each of them bad.

I finally saw my pattern, and I go the opposite way. I am not attracted to them anymore. I want to laugh when I see their moves, they act like actors.

Even this is about women liking bad guys, come on, good men like bad women also. They too, have to break the cycle or will always be unhappy.
The Dobe
I say, let the bad guys and bad girls torment each other.

The Dobe
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Feb 20, 2012 12:15 AM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
We all live with the cards we are dealt with, your bad may be my good.
HBD bad boy!
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Feb 20, 2012 3:58 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
Kargyle227
Kargyle227Kargyle227Home of the B-2, Missouri USA17 Threads 4 Polls 480 Posts
~ Thank-You, Dr. Eagle~...!!!
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Feb 20, 2012 4:09 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Kargyle227: ~ Thank-You, Dr. Eagle~...!!!
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Feb 20, 2012 4:14 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
anilag
anilaganilagStaten Island, New York USA12 Threads 412 Posts
morgan5: Often you only really get to know a person with time, at the start of a relationship we're all generally on our best behaviour so by the the time you realize your with a bad guy your already involved.

Happy Birthday


Same reason we go for bad food,and then complaine when it hurst...
Often bad looks good.... LOL
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Feb 20, 2012 4:18 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
edyweny
edywenyedywenyparis, Ile-de-France France1 Posts
the woman dos not know if the man is a bad man that is gooing to hurt her so is not her fort
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Feb 21, 2012 10:54 PM CST Why do some women go for bad men (I said some) and then complain when they get hurt?
Kargyle227
Kargyle227Kargyle227Home of the B-2, Missouri USA17 Threads 4 Polls 480 Posts
Why .. Indeed....??!!
Like the Fleetwood Mac Album.....

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