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Dec 9, 2011 8:33 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
any advice to have a happy and successful marriage will be appreciatedcheers
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Dec 9, 2011 8:41 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
mnowsa: any advice to have a happy and successful marriage will be appreciated
congratulations!!cheering
I hope it isn't an arranged marriage and you both are in love.
My advice, enjoy every single moment of it while the feelings are still fresh, it's a great, probably the best time of your life.
a relationship will work as long as you both want it work, even after the period of intense feelings is over.
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Dec 9, 2011 8:42 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
Never take the other for granted.
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Dec 9, 2011 8:44 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
mnowsa: any advice to have a happy and successful marriage will be appreciated


Hi mnosa wave

You're kind of asking for random advice here.

Its difficult to say anything without knowing what the problem is, or even if there is a problem.

bouquet
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Dec 9, 2011 9:03 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
nevica: congratulations!!
I hope it isn't an arranged marriage and you both are in love.
My advice, enjoy every single moment of it while the feelings are still fresh, it's a great, probably the best time of your life.
a relationship will work as long as you both want it work, even after the period of intense feelings is over.


it is an arranged marriage. And i don't know if we are in love, but she always makes feel wanted and desirable..and also if i don't see her smiley face, i rush to make her smilecheers
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Dec 9, 2011 9:06 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
jac379: Hi mnosa

You're kind of asking for random advice here.

Its difficult to say anything without knowing what the problem is, or even if there is a problem.


Actually, there is no problem (thanks to Allah almighty)...i just thought that i would like to listen to people about how to make our relationship even more dynamic and enjoyablehug
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Dec 9, 2011 9:13 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
mnowsa: it is an arranged marriage. And i don't know if we are in love, but she always makes feel wanted and desirable..and also if i don't see her smiley face, i rush to make her smile
You ask advice in a single site where most people are divorced!!! and also see marriage from a western point of view.

As probably everyone already knows it here I have seen a lot of documentaries, among others how people live in the world and it seems to me that arranged marriages may work just fine, sometimes even better than love/infatuation marriages which last statistically in west only 6 years.
Arranged marriages may turn into love and that may last entire life, I have seen it happening in those documentaries.
You have that stability that the "love marriage" don't have, when people in west stopp loving each other they often divorce, while your marriage is a project to live together, so in that case make each other's life as pleasant as possible as long as possible. it seems to me that you have a good start already.
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Dec 9, 2011 9:17 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Posts
nevica: You ask advice in a single site where most people are divorced!!! and also see marriage from a western point of view.

As probably everyone already knows it here I have seen a lot of documentaries, among others how people live in the world and it seems to me that arranged marriages may work just fine, sometimes even better than love/infatuation marriages which last statistically in west only 6 years.
Arranged marriages may turn into love and that may last entire life, I have seen it happening in those documentaries.
You have that stability that the "love marriage" don't have, when people in west stopp loving each other they often divorce, while your marriage is a project to live together, so in that case make each other's life as pleasant as possible as long as possible. it seems to me that you have a good start already.


wow...you have it so eloquently, nevica! I understand i am asking this question in a single site where most people are divorced. I guess i want to learn about those things that lead to divorce so that i can exactly and absolutely avoid doing those thingshug
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Dec 9, 2011 9:30 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
mnowsa: wow...you have it so eloquently, nevica! I understand i am asking this question in a single site where most people are divorced. I guess i want to learn about those things that lead to divorce so that i can exactly and absolutely avoid doing those things
Dude you are asking folks from other cultures to provide answers. And some of the folks answering have never been married.
Good luck with contributing answers that work for you.
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Dec 9, 2011 9:33 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
mnowsa: any advice to have a happy and successful marriage will be appreciated

Don`t beat her more than twice a week...





INCOMING ....hole
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Dec 9, 2011 9:51 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
Honor her and she will honor you.
Respect her and she will respect you.
Her body will provide you a family, honor it.
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Dec 9, 2011 10:00 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
mnowsa: any advice to have a happy and successful marriage will be appreciated
Allow your honeymoon to continue through the duration of your marriage.
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Dec 16, 2011 12:39 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
mnowsa: any advice to have a happy and successful marriage will be appreciated


Good communication and compromise.

(From an expert grin )


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Dec 16, 2011 12:53 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
julylah
julylahjulylahTACLOBAN, Eastern Visayas Philippines10 Posts
Feel what your heart say's towards her....
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Dec 16, 2011 1:21 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
Mermaidon
MermaidonMermaidonBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium26 Threads 4 Polls 1,116 Posts
mnowsa: any advice to have a happy and successful marriage will be appreciated


Yeah... You just have to SHUT THE HELL UP and everything will be okay rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 16, 2011 1:24 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
mnowsa: it is an arranged marriage. And i don't know if we are in love, but she always makes feel wanted and desirable..and also if i don't see her smiley face, i rush to make her smile


That sounds great. All of that already. I'd say you are getting there.
You could not feel anything. Give it time and treasure her.

The DObe
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Dec 16, 2011 1:25 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Honor her and she will honor you.
Respect her and she will respect you.
Her body will provide you a family, honor it.


Very Nice!

Very Good Advice!tip hat thumbs up
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Dec 16, 2011 1:28 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
Mermaidon: Yeah... You just have to SHUT THE HELL UP and everything will be okay


OH,

doh


I almost forgot that one!professor rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing hole
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Dec 16, 2011 1:41 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
Mermaidon
MermaidonMermaidonBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium26 Threads 4 Polls 1,116 Posts
HotrodLarrys: This is quite an EDUCATING Thread!


I just love to help grin
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Dec 16, 2011 1:58 AM CST A married man is in need of advice...
Mermaidon: I just love to help



But its the Women we have to please!uh oh uh oh shock snooty








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