jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
B38Q39: Yo honestly, looks shouldn't even matter. Besides these women are false claimers. "Oh we want a nice guy, and this and that". I messaged a lot of women, and I got NO REPLY AT ALL! I hate false claimers!
Are you the only nice man in the world?
Do you think that women should have no say in whom they choose to be in contact with?
Perhaps saying things like your comment above, you don't come across as being all that nice. Therefore, are the false claims your own?
Is it rational to think that any nice man will be compatible with any woman seeking a nice man?
xxfrecklesxxOPBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain1,568 posts
solsticemoon: If they wrote a good email I might write back for a chat, but no, if there wasnt something that I found attractive about them then I wouldnt be meeting them... Realistically, if were going to end up in bed and if I dont find them attractive to me, then I just wouldnt want to go there!
But you know Frecks, we aint getting any younger so our choices are becoming more limited!!!
Ah.... you must of found me attractive then.... you've been in my bed...
In response to: I did a thread like this a couple of years ago, but seeing as there are so many new wembers since I did it... lets debate again....( and it follows on from the 'shallow' thread quite nicely)SO.... you get a mail/flower from a guy/women you dont find 'at all' attractive... and they live fairly close, so would you reply and meet them?
Personally, I would'nt, as I would not want them to get the wrong idea and think there is the chance that I wanted a relationship.....
Attractiveness and unattractiveness is completely on the inside of a person, as is chemistry an entirely internal concept, so until one has that revelation, as well as done a self-analysis as to their part of past failures, well the Unattractiveness wins out every time.
What other reason could there be for the millions of singles on here and other dating websites in their 40's and above, with the small exception who have lost their partner after sharing a glorious time together however short or long a time period that might of been?
Once ones internal becomes at ease and at peace with itself all the exterior importance will vanish, and the pigeonholing that creates will no longer hold one back from sheer joy in all areas of life.
Simple really, yet we fight it so, because society says we must. When did we give our power over to what others tell us is truly important, and gave it up it seems so easily??
Do you think that women should have no say in whom they choose to be in contact with?
Perhaps saying things like your comment above, you don't come across as being all that nice. Therefore, are the false claims your own?
Is it rational to think that any nice man will be compatible with any woman seeking a nice man?
Ok let me answer each question for you. 1) I never said I was the only nice man in the world. 2)I also never said women have no say in who they should choose. 3) If NO ONE EVER replies to any of your messages, then you also have the right to say what I said. If it sounds like I was coming off rough, well so be it. Besides people ignoring you is rude. 4) Last, but not least, well is it really rational to "judge the book by it's cover?"
B38Q39: Yo honestly, looks shouldn't even matter. Besides these women are false claimers. "Oh we want a nice guy, and this and that". I messaged a lot of women, and I got NO REPLY AT ALL! I hate false claimers!
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