Any idea's. This is the background of the women who had an affair with my ex while working with him. The affair went on at the office. Ha, he said he was doing overtime. I would say that is correct. He also got her pregnant twice, losing both. She was really after my life, they were going to get married, move into our house. But it didn't happen. I am over all the pain, hurt, anger. My ex and I can talk. In fact, I just adopted one of his cats. I found this new info out then.
Just trying to figure out why a 25 year old would have such a past? I know that she was willing and the men were willing. But they were married and she was not.
She later admitted she has gone to counseling. When I was her age, I was getting married. I have never wanted a married man. I have respect for the woman of the married man. I would not want someone going after my husband. But if he accepted the advances, it's both of their faults.
I can only think it is something psychological, plus wanting money, and being taken care of. Before my ex, she the mistress of a married man for 3 years and got pregnant. They broke up because he did not want his wife to know.
doberman3: Any idea's. This is the background of the women who had an affair with my ex while working with him. The affair went on at the office. Ha, he said he was doing overtime. I would say that is correct. He also got her pregnant twice, losing both. She was really after my life, they were going to get married, move into our house. But it didn't happen. I am over all the pain, hurt, anger. My ex and I can talk. In fact, I just adopted one of his cats. I found this new info out then.
Just trying to figure out why a 25 year old would have such a past? I know that she was willing and the men were willing. But they were married and she was not.
She later admitted she has gone to counseling. When I was her age, I was getting married. I have never wanted a married man. I have respect for the woman of the married man. I would not want someone going after my husband. But if he accepted the advances, it's both of their faults.
I can only think it is something psychological, plus wanting money, and being taken care of. Before my ex, she the mistress of a married man for 3 years and got pregnant. They broke up because he did not want his wife to know.
A lot of women want the married life and do what ever they have to do to get it. I work with a woman a few years older than I and this is how she feels. Desperate women, will do desperate things to get what they want. I've accumulated a little life of my own and desperation was never an issue.
islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia1,601 posts
doberman3: Hi, Island Girl. Good term, cut up. Your man with another like mine was. Yes, it is odd that the first one was needy, but the other had everything. But, when someone gets an itch, it seems they get it scratched no matter who it hurts. No self control.
That is what I wanted also, to be wined, dined, and some holidays.
But when it isn't working out, you can do alot for yourself without a bad husband is how I think of it. Now, I think he sees what he did. She didn't get my life in the end and I'm sure is with someone else. I just couldn't live like that.
The Dobe
No neither got mine, but then neither got the ex .... and now he's back in aus. living in a one bedroom unit, not going to the girly clubs drinking beer at the pool, or playing golf on the weekend... how terrible...
islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia1,601 posts
cloud747: whatever I am , I am one thing none of you gals has ever met. and I hope you will
a very loyal man seriously
Cloud I have met many men over my life, and do you know I have only met one man who cheated and that was my ex.... and I don't have a problem laying the blame solely at his feet, as majority of men are honest and decent guys looking for the same thing that majority of women are looking for... honesty, companionship, friendship, love... someone to hold and cuddle, someone to share laughter and tears, the ups and downs .. the good and the bad.....
cloud747: look, face it, the man falls into another bed, because the first bed lackssomething
besides, women cheat on their husbands too
The first bed was not lacking except for the husband. I guess I should have called 911.
True, women cheat on men. I would say here, alot of men seem to forget how to keep the love alive. But men get their wives pregnant, but how much do they help around the house with chores and cooking. The wife is working also. Seems like the guy has it made but not many women will go for that. There are such old fashioned ways as getting the wife flowers, taking her on a date, keeping the bed warm. But is he isn't doing his part, maybe the other women is doing the wife a favor. The wife can just get a divorce then from the S.O.B.
The Dobe
People do what they want to do. That about sums it up.
Contractors are not allowed to have affairs. As for him not getting fired, I think it could have been possible. He said at the time, ha, I'm not going to get fired. The good old boys network is very much alive still.
I'm lucky he did not get fired. I would have lost 1/2 of his paycheck when he retired, it's 50/50 here in Virginia. So he get's part of my retirement also. We were also married 25 years, the same age as she was and my niece, he was 49. The whole affair was in such good taste.
The first bed was not lacking except for the husband. I guess I should have called 911.
True, women cheat on men. I would say here, alot of men seem to forget how to keep the love alive. But men get their wives pregnant, but how much do they help around the house with chores and cooking. The wife is working also. Seems like the guy has it made but not many women will go for that. There are such old fashioned ways as getting the wife flowers, taking her on a date, keeping the bed warm. But is he isn't doing his part, maybe the other women is doing the wife a favor. The wife can just get a divorce then from the S.O.B.
The Dobe
look, I am not for a seconf approving of ehay t F..ing man did to you. I am just saying, ..don't look at the experience with anger. learn from it. remember we have come to this planet to learn. very honestly I feel you, naked mud , and some other ladies are holding anger inside of you. DON't. you only hurt yorself.. move on, and live life to the fullest. That man had a jewel, but he was not a gemologist. he didn't understand you. let it go
doberman3: The first bed was not lacking except for the husband. I guess I should have called 911.
True, women cheat on men. I would say here, alot of men seem to forget how to keep the love alive. But men get their wives pregnant, but how much do they help around the house with chores and cooking. The wife is working also. Seems like the guy has it made but not many women will go for that. There are such old fashioned ways as getting the wife flowers, taking her on a date, keeping the bed warm. But is he isn't doing his part, maybe the other women is doing the wife a favor. The wife can just get a divorce then from the S.O.B.
The Dobe
People do what they want to do. That about sums it up.
The only thing I know is about me, is ONE is Enough!Lol
Thanks Larry, ha, at the end, she made a fatal mistake. She demanded of him to pick her or me. That is not what you demand of a man. He said, me. He was tired of 2 women being pissed. I think he also was thinking, it would look better to get out of the affair.
I really wanted him to move out and get out of my hair. Enough was enough.
The Dobe The best day of my life was when we went our own way for the separation. That situation is not healthy.
Depends,how strong is the thrill and the will,to taste the forbidden fruit,in both genders.Married couples with principles and moral values,will reject such a thrill outright.-
Boban1: I don`t think so...
Its the trill of tasting forbidden fruit ...IMHO...
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Ha, he said he was doing overtime. I would say that is correct. He also got her pregnant twice, losing both. She was really after my life, they were going to get married, move into our house. But it didn't happen. I am over all the pain, hurt, anger. My ex and I can talk. In fact, I just adopted one of his cats. I found this new info out then.
Just trying to figure out why a 25 year old would have such a past?
I know that she was willing and the men were willing. But they were married and she was not.
She later admitted she has gone to counseling. When I was her age,
I was getting married. I have never wanted a married man. I have respect for the woman of the married man. I would not want someone going after my husband. But if he accepted the advances, it's both of their faults.
I can only think it is something psychological, plus wanting money, and being taken care of. Before my ex, she the mistress of a married man for 3 years and got pregnant. They broke up because he did not want his wife to know.
The Dobe