By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11! ( Archived) (93)

Dec 14, 2011 8:01 PM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
Any idea's. This is the background of the women who had an affair with my ex while working with him. The affair went on at the office.
Ha, he said he was doing overtime. I would say that is correct. He also got her pregnant twice, losing both. She was really after my life, they were going to get married, move into our house. But it didn't happen. I am over all the pain, hurt, anger. My ex and I can talk. In fact, I just adopted one of his cats. I found this new info out then.

Just trying to figure out why a 25 year old would have such a past?
I know that she was willing and the men were willing. But they were married and she was not.

She later admitted she has gone to counseling. When I was her age,
I was getting married. I have never wanted a married man. I have respect for the woman of the married man. I would not want someone going after my husband. But if he accepted the advances, it's both of their faults.

I can only think it is something psychological, plus wanting money, and being taken care of. Before my ex, she the mistress of a married man for 3 years and got pregnant. They broke up because he did not want his wife to know.

The Dobe
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Dec 14, 2011 8:21 PM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
Everyone has their kicks in life and some, both men and women get a kick out of getting someone else’s wife or husband.
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Dec 14, 2011 8:24 PM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3: Any idea's. This is the background of the women who had an affair with my ex while working with him. The affair went on at the office.
Ha, he said he was doing overtime. I would say that is correct. He also got her pregnant twice, losing both. She was really after my life, they were going to get married, move into our house. But it didn't happen. I am over all the pain, hurt, anger. My ex and I can talk. In fact, I just adopted one of his cats. I found this new info out then.

Just trying to figure out why a 25 year old would have such a past?
I know that she was willing and the men were willing. But they were married and she was not.

She later admitted she has gone to counseling. When I was her age,
I was getting married. I have never wanted a married man. I have respect for the woman of the married man. I would not want someone going after my husband. But if he accepted the advances, it's both of their faults.

I can only think it is something psychological, plus wanting money, and being taken care of. Before my ex, she the mistress of a married man for 3 years and got pregnant. They broke up because he did not want his wife to know.

The Dobe
Do you happen to have her number handy?
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Dec 14, 2011 10:08 PM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
A lot of women want the married life and do what ever they have to do to get it.
I work with a woman a few years older than I and this is how she feels.
Desperate women, will do desperate things to get what they want.
I've accumulated a little life of my own and desperation was never an issue.
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Dec 15, 2011 2:21 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
Onlyguy: Everyone has their kicks in life and some, both men and women get a kick out of getting someone else’s wife or husband.


Good viewpoint. I've never had it in me. I like my own guy.
But different strokes for different folks, thanks.
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Dec 15, 2011 2:23 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
ooby_dooby: Do you happen to have her number handy?


I'm going to ignore that.

The DOberman
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Dec 15, 2011 2:39 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
ooby_dooby: Do you happen to have her number handy?
rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 15, 2011 2:41 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
islandgirl62
islandgirl62islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia12 Threads 1,601 Posts
doberman3: Hi, Island Girl. Good term, cut up. Your man with another like mine was. Yes, it is odd that the first one was needy, but the other had everything. But, when someone gets an itch, it seems they get it scratched no matter who it hurts. No self control.

That is what I wanted also, to be wined, dined, and some holidays.

But when it isn't working out, you can do alot for yourself without a bad husband is how I think of it. Now, I think he sees what he did.
She didn't get my life in the end and I'm sure is with someone else.
I just couldn't live like that.

The Dobe


No neither got mine, but then neither got the ex .... and now he's back in aus. living in a one bedroom unit, not going to the girly clubs drinking beer at the pool, or playing golf on the weekend...
how terrible...doh grin
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Dec 15, 2011 2:44 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
islandgirl62: and you sound like a man who wants to wind women up and become the centre of attention....

pass buddy boy....


whatever I am , I am one thing none of you gals has ever met. and I hope you will

a very loyal manwine seriously
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Dec 15, 2011 2:46 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
islandgirl62: and you sound like a man who wants to wind women up and become the centre of attention....

pass buddy boy....


look, face it, the man falls into another bed, because the first bed lackssomething

besides, women cheat on their husbands toosnooty
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Dec 15, 2011 2:47 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
islandgirl62: and you sound like a man who wants to wind women up and become the centre of attention....

pass buddy boy....


I agree, pass.

The Dobe
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Dec 15, 2011 2:51 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
Boban1: I don`t think so...

Its the trill of tasting forbidden fruit ...IMHO...


yes, like horse riding on monday morning when you are supposed to be at the officegrin
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Dec 15, 2011 2:51 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
islandgirl62
islandgirl62islandgirl62somewhere in, Queensland Australia12 Threads 1,601 Posts
cloud747: whatever I am , I am one thing none of you gals has ever met. and I hope you will

a very loyal man seriously


Cloud I have met many men over my life, and do you know I have only met one man who cheated and that was my ex.... and I don't have a problem laying the blame solely at his feet, as majority of men are honest and decent guys looking for the same thing that majority of women are looking for... honesty, companionship, friendship, love...
someone to hold and cuddle, someone to share laughter and tears, the ups and downs .. the good and the bad..... handshake teddybear
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Dec 15, 2011 2:56 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
cloud747: look, face it, the man falls into another bed, because the first bed lackssomething

besides, women cheat on their husbands too


The first bed was not lacking except for the husband. I guess I should have called 911.

True, women cheat on men. I would say here, alot of men seem to forget how to keep the love alive. But men get their wives pregnant, but how much do they help around the house with chores and cooking. The wife is working also. Seems like the guy has it made but not many women will go for that. There are such old fashioned ways as getting the wife flowers, taking her on a date, keeping the bed warm. But is he isn't doing his part, maybe the other women is doing the wife a favor. The wife can just get a divorce then from the S.O.B.

The Dobe

People do what they want to do.
That about sums it up.

The Dobe
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Dec 15, 2011 3:01 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
cloud747: and he was not fired?


Contractors are not allowed to have affairs. As for him not getting fired, I think it could have been possible. He said at the time,
ha, I'm not going to get fired. The good old boys network is very much alive still.

I'm lucky he did not get fired. I would have lost 1/2 of his paycheck when he retired, it's 50/50 here in Virginia. So he get's part of my retirement also. We were also married 25 years, the same age as she was and my niece, he was 49. The whole affair was in such good taste.

The Dobe
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Dec 15, 2011 3:02 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
I dont have the answer Dobe,

The only thing I know is about me, is ONE is Enough!Lollaugh



laugh grin
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Dec 15, 2011 3:03 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
The first bed was not lacking except for the husband. I guess I should have called 911.

True, women cheat on men. I would say here, alot of men seem to forget how to keep the love alive. But men get their wives pregnant, but how much do they help around the house with chores and cooking. The wife is working also. Seems like the guy has it made but not many women will go for that. There are such old fashioned ways as getting the wife flowers, taking her on a date, keeping the bed warm. But is he isn't doing his part, maybe the other women is doing the wife a favor. The wife can just get a divorce then from the S.O.B.

The Dobe

look, I am not for a seconf approving of ehay t F..ing man did to you.
I am just saying, ..don't look at the experience with anger. learn from it.
remember we have come to this planet to learn.
very honestly I feel you, naked mud , and some other ladies are holding anger inside of you.
DON't.
you only hurt yorself..
move on, and live life to the fullest.
That man had a jewel, but he was not a gemologist. he didn't understand you.
let it go

bouquet
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Dec 15, 2011 3:04 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
doberman3: The first bed was not lacking except for the husband. I guess I should have called 911.

True, women cheat on men. I would say here, alot of men seem to forget how to keep the love alive. But men get their wives pregnant, but how much do they help around the house with chores and cooking. The wife is working also. Seems like the guy has it made but not many women will go for that. There are such old fashioned ways as getting the wife flowers, taking her on a date, keeping the bed warm. But is he isn't doing his part, maybe the other women is doing the wife a favor. The wife can just get a divorce then from the S.O.B.

The Dobe

People do what they want to do.
That about sums it up.

The Dobe

Are we supposed to help around that???shock
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Dec 15, 2011 3:06 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
doberman3
doberman3doberman3Clarksville, Tennessee USA25 Threads 1 Polls 1,838 Posts
HotrodLarrys: I dont have the answer Dobe,

The only thing I know is about me, is ONE is Enough!Lol


Thanks Larry, ha, at the end, she made a fatal mistake. She demanded of him to pick her or me. frustrated That is not what you demand of a man. He said, me. He was tired of 2 women being pissed. I think he also was thinking, it would look better to get out of the affair.

I really wanted him to move out and get out of my hair. Enough was enough.

The Dobe
The best day of my life was when we went our own way for the separation. That situation is not healthy.
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Dec 15, 2011 3:08 AM CST By the age of 25, Why would a single woman go after one Married Men at a time? Total 11!
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Depends,how strong is the thrill and the will,to taste the forbidden fruit,in both genders.Married couples with principles and moral values,will reject such a thrill outright.-
Boban1: I don`t think so...

Its the trill of tasting forbidden fruit ...IMHO...
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