carenzaOPnear the sea, South Holland Netherlands3,113 posts
thanks peeps, for all the answers given.
odd to see that a lot of people from around the world think alike on this subject: relationship thingies on the job are not wanted by employers.
For obvious reasons off course, but I still wonder why it is not wanted, if two people act very professional and keep their private lives apart.
I once had a relationship myself with a co worker, but when it ended it felt awkward indeed. we acted professionally off course but still, it felt wrong to talk to each other on professional basis. because we both were really finished talking to each other.
my employer said nothing about it but I knew everyone kept an eye. finally I left and got myself another job and decided never to get involved again...
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odd to see that a lot of people from around the world think alike on this subject:
relationship thingies on the job are not wanted by employers.
For obvious reasons off course, but I still wonder why it is not wanted, if two people act very professional and keep their private lives apart.
I once had a relationship myself with a co worker, but when it ended it felt awkward indeed. we acted professionally off course but still, it felt wrong to talk to each other on professional basis.
because we both were really finished talking to each other.
my employer said nothing about it but I knew everyone kept an eye.
finally I left and got myself another job and decided never to get involved again...