YouMeUs: Sometimes a guy with a good heart and wanting a good woman can be down on themselves wondering about all the 'Ken' dolls, when maybe they should be seeking ways to adjust their mind-set to a more positive one for themselves.
It's natural for most people to be visually attracted to a smiling 'Ken' or 'Barbie', but once we get a closer look and feel we often find out how 'hollow' some can be.
And then sometimes a good hearted man or woman are passed up until someone gives them a closer look. It is then that the personality is given a chance to shine, to be seen. A positive personality may very well be the real 'Ken' and 'Barbie' in all of us. So is yours positive or negative? If it's the latter, perhaps you should ask yourself "Why?"
also perfectly possible that good looking people like us can ALSO be good on the inside
I kinda get tired of this assumption that if ur attractive physically that u are lacking something on the inside - not necesarily true at all
theromancepoet: I think, and maybe I'm wrong, but as a couple can't be intimate all the time. What many women want is that intelligent guy. The guy that stimulates them, challenges them, and makes geat engaging conversations. The guy who can take them to levels the other guys never do. They also want the guy who they feel safe with. The guy they know is going to be there to pretect them and thier children. To that also they want the steadfast guy, who is a true one woman kind of guy. They also want and need to trust and have respect for the guy they with. Liars and cheaters are NOT what most women want, they trust or respect them.
ummmmmmmmmm slow down - u were getting right at intimate all the time...
felixis99: also perfectly possible that good looking people like us can ALSO be good on the inside
I kinda get tired of this assumption that if ur attractive physically that u are lacking something on the inside - not necesarily true at all
I did say SOME, ma'am. You may have overlooked that? I don't color the world with a single crayon.
And I have seen very attractive looking people in my life to not assume, but to state a fact that SOME were indeed lacking in the personality department. Same applies to SOME not so attractive looking people. And I have also seen SOME very attractive looking people who's personalities were greater than their outward, physical appearances. But the point I was trying to make in my post is to rid the negativities and find the positive attitudes. In doing so we can have better personalities that can also be very attractive.
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It's natural for most people to be visually attracted to a smiling 'Ken' or 'Barbie', but once we get a closer look and feel we often find out how 'hollow' some can be.
And then sometimes a good hearted man or woman are passed up until someone gives them a closer look. It is then that the personality is given a chance to shine, to be seen. A positive personality may very well be the real 'Ken' and 'Barbie' in all of us.
So is yours positive or negative? If it's the latter, perhaps you should ask yourself "Why?"
also perfectly possible that good looking people like us can ALSO be good on the inside
I kinda get tired of this assumption that if ur attractive physically that u are lacking something on the inside - not necesarily true at all