Why nice men are difficult to find? (369)
ejobesBatemans Bay, New South Wales Australia3 Threads 26 PostsI wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
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Same reasons nice girls are hard to find..........gender is not the issue.
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ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
Ya havta do a lot of weeding to get to the flower.This really tears at my heart, seeing, hearing reading about women not finding a good man. I'm sure there are good men out there just as I am sure there are good women out there as well.
One of the problems is the distance between us and the good ones. But that's just one of many.
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because we are not still satisfied with what we see in media and what we have in a real life...as for outfit, appearance,social status ...
we do not need each other and we are not ready to adjust to each other,
shortly, find second to tango will be more and more complicated because we have become more and more individualists
we do not need each other and we are not ready to adjust to each other,
shortly, find second to tango will be more and more complicated because we have become more and more individualists
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ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
Look at the truck load of nice guys here on CS!!
WHY???
Mean while the jerk is getting girls drunk at the bar, to go get her knocked up and then take off......
I can't begin to tell you how many stories I've heard being here for just about a week, from the girls who are now single moms that went with the jerk.
Not that you girls will admit the guy was the jerk.
But I assure you we guys know who the good guys are and who the jerks are, and we know VERY quickly too!!
I have not yet heard one single mom after talking about the break up and why, where I wasn't pretty damn sure she went with the jerk. And not even 1 story yet where I thought the guy just may have a good guy, not 1!!!
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I'm a nice guy. feel silly saying it myself, but it is true...I've been single {totally single} for a few years now, last person I loved or loved me was my ex wife. Meanwhile I have seen some guys that cheat on their wife,,,some that have a brand new girl before they even get the divorce papers signed,,,, for what ever reason it is just the way it is.
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arapaho: yes i have seen all that, many times,
the guy the women go for bragging how easy they are,
and you say prayers they don't ever meet your sister,
but they sure do get lots of women, i'm not sure if those guys still do, but they did,
the guy the women go for bragging how easy they are,
and you say prayers they don't ever meet your sister,
but they sure do get lots of women, i'm not sure if those guys still do, but they did,
Seems guys are guys no matter where on this rick we live. AMEN!!!The jerk never meets or sister "or daughter God forbid!"
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theromancepoet: Look at the truck load of nice guys here on CS!!
WHY???
Mean while the jerk is getting girls drunk at the bar, to go get her knocked up and then take off......
I can't begin to tell you how many stories I've heard being here for just about a week, from the girls who are now single moms that went with the jerk.
Not that you girls will admit the guy was the jerk.
But I assure you we guys know who the good guys are and who the jerks are, and we know VERY quickly too!!
I have not yet heard one single mom after talking about the break up and why, where I wasn't pretty damn sure she went with the jerk. And not even 1 story yet where I thought the guy just may have a good guy, not 1!!!
Funny as I recall reading a post from someone who claims to be a "good guy" who refrains from dating anyone who has kids from one of these jerks. Wherein did the choice of being responsible and taking care of kids result in someone being discounted from the dating pool because their partner walked away from their parental responsiblities?WHY???
Mean while the jerk is getting girls drunk at the bar, to go get her knocked up and then take off......
I can't begin to tell you how many stories I've heard being here for just about a week, from the girls who are now single moms that went with the jerk.
Not that you girls will admit the guy was the jerk.
But I assure you we guys know who the good guys are and who the jerks are, and we know VERY quickly too!!
I have not yet heard one single mom after talking about the break up and why, where I wasn't pretty damn sure she went with the jerk. And not even 1 story yet where I thought the guy just may have a good guy, not 1!!!
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ejobes: I wonder why it is so difficult to find a nice man that wants a real loving relationship...? I believe that " Every human being wants to be loved, something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. I am strongly convinced that marriage is designed to meet that need for deep intimacy and love." Yet... nice men are hard to find.. why??
Nice men aren't hard to find - its about learning from your mistakes, stop making excuses for others behaviours (or your own) and to keep trying. Stop hanging onto something that doesn't exist - move forward.
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langleygirl: Nice men aren't hard to find - its about learning from your mistakes, stop making excuses for others behaviours (or your own) and to keep trying.
Stop hanging onto something that doesn't exist - move forward.
Stop hanging onto something that doesn't exist - move forward.
EXACTLY!!!!!
The good guy IS going to move forward. he damn sure isn't going to get used and abused by the woman with the screwed up past and head!!!!!
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jac379: How about you wake up, see the light and realise that we're women?
Lol how come you always say what I wish I had
HNY!!
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Lol I don't think it's a matter of which gender should try harder but...
Nice guys that tried to get with what they thought was a good girl got screwed over and are more reluctant and shy/cautious to who they go for next. I'm sure girls did the same.
I think both genders if they want to find that special someone needs to put all their effort in getting to know a wide variety of people and not think you can find the love of your life in one hour but hey you might be lucky and find him/her in 5 minutes.
Lol maybe I don't make a lot of sense but it makes sense to me
Nice guys that tried to get with what they thought was a good girl got screwed over and are more reluctant and shy/cautious to who they go for next. I'm sure girls did the same.
I think both genders if they want to find that special someone needs to put all their effort in getting to know a wide variety of people and not think you can find the love of your life in one hour but hey you might be lucky and find him/her in 5 minutes.
Lol maybe I don't make a lot of sense but it makes sense to me
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serene56: Lol how come you always say what I wish I had HNY!!
Ha ha! I thought the same about your comment.
Perhaps its a case of united, we can challenge more aspects of gender inequality, inhumanity and promote change for the better?
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I am beginning to think that i am the only man who hasnt been treated bad by a woman,reading some of the threads that appear on here.
Okay,it hasnt always worked out,but by dealing with the correct way,we have parted company in a civil,polite way.
Okay,it hasnt always worked out,but by dealing with the correct way,we have parted company in a civil,polite way.
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jac379: Ha ha! I thought the same about your comment.
Perhaps its a case of united, we can challenge more aspects of gender inequality, inhumanity and promote change for the better?
Perhaps its a case of united, we can challenge more aspects of gender inequality, inhumanity and promote change for the better?
OMG I'm sooo there, sign me up
And tomorrow, we'll take over the world!! Muhahahaha
Now what the hell am I going to wear
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Wear a skirt!!!!!! OMG yes !!! 
I've been mistreated by a two girls... But got over it and trying to find somebody.
Although I'm really shy in real life lol which sucks.
I've been mistreated by a two girls... But got over it and trying to find somebody.
Although I'm really shy in real life lol which sucks.
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time4fun4u: I am beginning to think that i am the only man who hasnt been treated bad by a woman,reading some of the threads that appear on here.
Okay,it hasnt always worked out,but by dealing with the correct way,we have parted company in a civil,polite way.
Okay,it hasnt always worked out,but by dealing with the correct way,we have parted company in a civil,polite way.
There's some evil women out there ya know
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langleygirl: Funny as I recall reading a post from someone who claims to be a "good guy" who refrains from dating anyone who has kids from one of these jerks. Wherein did the choice of being responsible and taking care of kids result in someone being discounted from the dating pool because their partner walked away from their parental responsiblities?
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serene56: OMG I'm sooo there, sign me up And tomorrow, we'll take over the world!! Muhahahaha Now what the hell am I going to wear
Some people just get it sooo wrong.
I'm thinking this years black for world domination is going to be pewter to echo a mediaeval armour theme. We don't want a repeat of last years brown shirt fiasco.
No bouclé for heavy women over a size mius zero point 8, either. We don't want to make a scene.
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Aswina: because we are not still satisfied with what we see in media and what we have in a real life...as for outfit, appearance,social status ...
we do not need each other and we are not ready to adjust to each other,
shortly, find second to tango will be more and more complicated because we have become more and more individualists
we do not need each other and we are not ready to adjust to each other,
shortly, find second to tango will be more and more complicated because we have become more and more individualists
I think you're completely right.
Our society is dying, along with the relations between people and specifically between men and women.
Western society is now completely bankrupt, financially, morally, politically...
Time to face those facts and act accordingly...
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