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olaix: So there is another concept of dating, relationship and marriage that we haven't discussed so far for what I know, so why not.
Through the 90s, the first decade of the 21st century, and still, I've noticed men from Europe, including Scandinavia and my own country, going outside the border to find a woman - some because they simply cannot get a good woman in their own region, others because they don't want a woman from our region.
The initial stage of a relationship like this is far from political correct, but I can imagine this as a "secure-bet" in finding a pleasing, loyal woman who you can marry and live happily ever after with.
I'm thinking about south east Asia, Africa and south America, but other areas are available too - it is possible, as long as you are financial eligible in accordance to your country's laws, to visit these regions and find a stunningly beautiful girl, goal oriented and dutiful (in all areas of the relationship as well as the shared vision of life), and perhaps more importantly, loyal to the man, in a way I haven't really seen in women from my own culture.
How the guy look or how he behave, which would be the determining factor if/who he hook up with normally, have far less to say.
In some regions, men still dominate, the women aren't allowed to work because then she might be independent, she need to ask to go out etc, there is usually low or worse economical conditions, which makes men from Europe extremely attractive for them, we are good to the women (ok, not all), we want them to be independent, she can go and do whatever she pleases, and she gets to live in a place without the corruption or social disadvantages, the list is really long.
So how about it? If you knew she would be a 10, she would be any age you like (keep it legal please), she is focused on taking care of all her husbands needs, she is able/willing to put in a real effort, Example: in some parts of the world, school isn't free, and its a privilege to go to school - so if they get to join, they basically have the characteristics of a super student x10, then if you invest in her doctor study etc, you are on.
Its certainly a thought which would simplify the process of starting a high quality relationship/ marriage etc.
That's been going on since the yearly 1800's, perhaps even earlier.Though I'm not sure if it's a sure bet of an everlasting relationship, depending on many things. Through the 90s, the first decade of the 21st century, and still, I've noticed men from Europe, including Scandinavia and my own country, going outside the border to find a woman - some because they simply cannot get a good woman in their own region, others because they don't want a woman from our region.
The initial stage of a relationship like this is far from political correct, but I can imagine this as a "secure-bet" in finding a pleasing, loyal woman who you can marry and live happily ever after with.
I'm thinking about south east Asia, Africa and south America, but other areas are available too - it is possible, as long as you are financial eligible in accordance to your country's laws, to visit these regions and find a stunningly beautiful girl, goal oriented and dutiful (in all areas of the relationship as well as the shared vision of life), and perhaps more importantly, loyal to the man, in a way I haven't really seen in women from my own culture.
How the guy look or how he behave, which would be the determining factor if/who he hook up with normally, have far less to say.
In some regions, men still dominate, the women aren't allowed to work because then she might be independent, she need to ask to go out etc, there is usually low or worse economical conditions, which makes men from Europe extremely attractive for them, we are good to the women (ok, not all), we want them to be independent, she can go and do whatever she pleases, and she gets to live in a place without the corruption or social disadvantages, the list is really long.
So how about it? If you knew she would be a 10, she would be any age you like (keep it legal please), she is focused on taking care of all her husbands needs, she is able/willing to put in a real effort, Example: in some parts of the world, school isn't free, and its a privilege to go to school - so if they get to join, they basically have the characteristics of a super student x10, then if you invest in her doctor study etc, you are on.
Its certainly a thought which would simplify the process of starting a high quality relationship/ marriage etc.
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thanks for modern times.
even western women get their man from abroad these days.
we have a saying in the netherlands..
what you get from afar, tastes sweet.
haven't tried it myself yet, but it's worth a try someday.
even western women get their man from abroad these days.
we have a saying in the netherlands..
what you get from afar, tastes sweet.
haven't tried it myself yet, but it's worth a try someday.
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here's a trailer for a Serbian documentary,about brothers from some godforsaken village,desperate to get married but no girl is willing to live with them,so the plan is to go over the mountains to Albania to get wives.
i'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
i'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
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bhirdie: here's a trailer for a Serbian documentary,about brothers from some godforsaken village,desperate to get married but no girl is willing to live with them,so the plan is to go over the mountains to Albania to get wives.
i'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
i'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
There's always 'apply'
Where they are is beautiful. The place just needs a women's touch and a complete makeover, it would do wonders and maybe make it back into what it ounce was..
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olaix: So there is another concept of dating, relationship and marriage that we haven't discussed so far for what I know, so why not.
Through the 90s, the first decade of the 21st century, and still, I've noticed men from Europe, including Scandinavia and my own country, going outside the border to find a woman - some because they simply cannot get a good woman in their own region, others because they don't want a woman from our region.
The initial stage of a relationship like this is far from political correct, but I can imagine this as a "secure-bet" in finding a pleasing, loyal woman who you can marry and live happily ever after with.
I'm thinking about south east Asia, Africa and south America, but other areas are available too - it is possible, as long as you are financial eligible in accordance to your country's laws, to visit these regions and find a stunningly beautiful girl, goal oriented and dutiful (in all areas of the relationship as well as the shared vision of life), and perhaps more importantly, loyal to the man, in a way I haven't really seen in women from my own culture.
How the guy look or how he behave, which would be the determining factor if/who he hook up with normally, have far less to say.
In some regions, men still dominate, the women aren't allowed to work because then she might be independent, she need to ask to go out etc, there is usually low or worse economical conditions, which makes men from Europe extremely attractive for them, we are good to the women (ok, not all), we want them to be independent, she can go and do whatever she pleases, and she gets to live in a place without the corruption or social disadvantages, the list is really long.
So how about it? If you knew she would be a 10, she would be any age you like (keep it legal please), she is focused on taking care of all her husbands needs, she is able/willing to put in a real effort, Example: in some parts of the world, school isn't free, and its a privilege to go to school - so if they get to join, they basically have the characteristics of a super student x10, then if you invest in her doctor study etc, you are on.
Its certainly a thought which would simplify the process of starting a high quality relationship/ marriage etc.
Through the 90s, the first decade of the 21st century, and still, I've noticed men from Europe, including Scandinavia and my own country, going outside the border to find a woman - some because they simply cannot get a good woman in their own region, others because they don't want a woman from our region.
The initial stage of a relationship like this is far from political correct, but I can imagine this as a "secure-bet" in finding a pleasing, loyal woman who you can marry and live happily ever after with.
I'm thinking about south east Asia, Africa and south America, but other areas are available too - it is possible, as long as you are financial eligible in accordance to your country's laws, to visit these regions and find a stunningly beautiful girl, goal oriented and dutiful (in all areas of the relationship as well as the shared vision of life), and perhaps more importantly, loyal to the man, in a way I haven't really seen in women from my own culture.
How the guy look or how he behave, which would be the determining factor if/who he hook up with normally, have far less to say.
In some regions, men still dominate, the women aren't allowed to work because then she might be independent, she need to ask to go out etc, there is usually low or worse economical conditions, which makes men from Europe extremely attractive for them, we are good to the women (ok, not all), we want them to be independent, she can go and do whatever she pleases, and she gets to live in a place without the corruption or social disadvantages, the list is really long.
So how about it? If you knew she would be a 10, she would be any age you like (keep it legal please), she is focused on taking care of all her husbands needs, she is able/willing to put in a real effort, Example: in some parts of the world, school isn't free, and its a privilege to go to school - so if they get to join, they basically have the characteristics of a super student x10, then if you invest in her doctor study etc, you are on.
Its certainly a thought which would simplify the process of starting a high quality relationship/ marriage etc.
I say keep it simple... and use chloroform
what was the chestion about again???
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Boban1: I say keep it simple... and use chloroform
what was the chestion about again???
what was the chestion about again???
Boban for president
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YouMeUs: There are some sites that are devoted to 'mail order bride' for Russian women that are very strict and do excessive screenings to make sure no Russian is a scammer. They also offer resources for passports and green cards as well as legalities per country.
Though I'm not too sure about wanting to go that route, if one cannot interact with the 'bride to be' before ordering. You wouldn't know what you would get, other than a pretty face in a picture.
And you're right. There are some who will do it just to get out of their country and to yours and after being married for 3 years, divorce you and receive alimony since they will be entitled to it.
Though I'm not too sure about wanting to go that route, if one cannot interact with the 'bride to be' before ordering. You wouldn't know what you would get, other than a pretty face in a picture.
And you're right. There are some who will do it just to get out of their country and to yours and after being married for 3 years, divorce you and receive alimony since they will be entitled to it.
Well, the immigration office rarely allow a plain mail order - the guys from here who do this, uses the sites to get in touch with women, and if they find one they agree with, they usually vacate together a couple of times before they get married - which is another requirement.
Thinking a bit further, finding a girl from one of these places, would make it easier to move to her place when retirement age comes.
Who wouldn't live in a sunny, warm place with exotic animals, vegetation/ nature, food and all that. I've been to some of these places, and I could live like a king for on a average salary due to the economical differences between my country and theirs.
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bhirdie: here's a trailer for a Serbian documentary,about brothers from some godforsaken village,desperate to get married but no girl is willing to live with them,so the plan is to go over the mountains to Albania to get wives.
i'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
i'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
"Desperate Times Call for Desperate Measures"...
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Softslowhonest:
Time to go to Africa or Asia then boys
Time to go to Africa or Asia then boys
you go first...
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olaix: Well, the immigration office rarely allow a plain mail order - the guys from here who do this, uses the sites to get in touch with women, and if they find one they agree with, they usually vacate together a couple of times before they get married - which is another requirement.
Thinking a bit further, finding a girl from one of these places, would make it easier to move to her place when retirement age comes.
Who wouldn't live in a sunny, warm place with exotic animals, vegetation/ nature, food and all that. I've been to some of these places, and I could live like a king for on a average salary due to the economical differences between my country and theirs.
Have you calculated what the initial total costs could be just to get to the marriage stage? Some sites charge an additional fee for their services and then having to travel to meet up with your potential a few times, as well as all the red tape involved just to get married and relocate. Not to mention the costs of transporting her possessions (if any.) And if it doesn't work out with her through meetings, back to square one in finding another and repeating the process.Thinking a bit further, finding a girl from one of these places, would make it easier to move to her place when retirement age comes.
Who wouldn't live in a sunny, warm place with exotic animals, vegetation/ nature, food and all that. I've been to some of these places, and I could live like a king for on a average salary due to the economical differences between my country and theirs.
I am clueless to the actual costs, but I believe it could be in the upper thousands. And there's no guarantee it being a sound investment.
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bhirdie: here's a trailer for a Serbian documentary,about brothers from some godforsaken village,desperate to get married but no girl is willing to live with them,so the plan is to go over the mountains to Albania to get wives.
i'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
The city i live in may have more men,then however a village or town without women i would move so fast, i would never look back. I feel so sorry for those poor men not even a women to look at so sadi'm still not sure whether to laugh or cry while watching it. probably both.
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YouMeUs: Have you calculated what the initial total costs could be just to get to the marriage stage? Some sites charge an additional fee for their services and then having to travel to meet up with your potential a few times, as well as all the red tape involved just to get married and relocate. Not to mention the costs of transporting her possessions (if any.) And if it doesn't work out with her through meetings, back to square one in finding another and repeating the process.
I am clueless to the actual costs, but I believe it could be in the upper thousands. And there's no guarantee it being a sound investment.
I am clueless to the actual costs, but I believe it could be in the upper thousands. And there's no guarantee it being a sound investment.
Well, I'm not sure about the cost to be honest, I just wanted to bring it up. Maybe someone can provide.
I don't really think its that expensive though, if you are working with a average salary, you should be able to do it (not sure how far the salary in other countries reaches though).
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I've mentioned this before, but there is a man in my village who married and Asian woman. I mean woman, not a girl. I imagine they are close in age, if not the same age as well as close in looks.
They give every appearance of being extremely content with each other.
Their front room is on the street so you can see in a little way. When she moved in, not a thing of his was moved, just her pictures and trinkets added. They have very different styles and as far as interior design goes, it looks incongruous.
It does however, look like a perfect intergration of two people and their acceptance of each other, their pleasure to live side by side.
They give every appearance of being extremely content with each other.
Their front room is on the street so you can see in a little way. When she moved in, not a thing of his was moved, just her pictures and trinkets added. They have very different styles and as far as interior design goes, it looks incongruous.
It does however, look like a perfect intergration of two people and their acceptance of each other, their pleasure to live side by side.
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I've seen the same thing, although I also do know about women who wanted a divorce on the same day as their citizenship has been secured
It all depends on the persons involved of course.
It all depends on the persons involved of course.
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YouMeUs: I'd say that the CS women simply know better than to want someone bitterly distasteful.
This isn't really aimed at anyone, especially the girls on the forum, even if some possibly dislike the subject - some women are looking for tall, blonde, intelligent guys - what can I do about that?
Everyone is walking their own road, and should do - without others on a different path really have anything to say about it, even less trying to "convince" anyone otherwise.
That said, about everything we do/don't do has its advantages and disadvantages, and once one is clear about what fits better - then go for it
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Softslowhonest: Olaix..you no likey my thoughts on mail order above ?
hmm, maybe if you put your angles differently, it would be easier to read :p
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olaix: This isn't really aimed at anyone, especially the girls on the forum, even if some possibly dislike the subject - some women are looking for tall, blonde, intelligent guys - what can I do about that?
Everyone is walking their own road, and should do - without others on a different path really have anything to say about it, even less trying to "convince" anyone otherwise.
That said, about everything we do/don't do has its advantages and disadvantages, and once one is clear about what fits better - then go for it
I know, and yours is an interesting thread and that's why I've posted. Though my previous post was aimed at one who does tend to vent anger towards women here...or tries to anger them in the process. Doing as such doesn't make it any easier for those of us who are wanting a connection--which leads back to the topic (apologies for going off, BTW) with having other options available.Everyone is walking their own road, and should do - without others on a different path really have anything to say about it, even less trying to "convince" anyone otherwise.
That said, about everything we do/don't do has its advantages and disadvantages, and once one is clear about what fits better - then go for it
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YouMeUs: I know, and yours is an interesting thread and that's why I've posted. Though my previous post was aimed at one who does tend to vent anger towards women here...or tries to anger them in the process. Doing as such doesn't make it any easier for those of us who are wanting a connection--which leads back to the topic (apologies for going off, BTW) with having other options available.
Yeah, brilliant. Speaking of which, cooperating with each other, even here on the forum, cross genders, would appear to be a win win situation.
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Through the 90s, the first decade of the 21st century, and still, I've noticed men from Europe, including Scandinavia and my own country, going outside the border to find a woman - some because they simply cannot get a good woman in their own region, others because they don't want a woman from our region.
The initial stage of a relationship like this is far from political correct, but I can imagine this as a "secure-bet" in finding a pleasing, loyal woman who you can marry and live happily ever after with.
I'm thinking about south east Asia, Africa and south America, but other areas are available too - it is possible, as long as you are financial eligible in accordance to your country's laws, to visit these regions and find a stunningly beautiful girl, goal oriented and dutiful (in all areas of the relationship as well as the shared vision of life), and perhaps more importantly, loyal to the man, in a way I haven't really seen in women from my own culture.
How the guy look or how he behave, which would be the determining factor if/who he hook up with normally, have far less to say.
In some regions, men still dominate, the women aren't allowed to work because then she might be independent, she need to ask to go out etc, there is usually low or worse economical conditions, which makes men from Europe extremely attractive for them, we are good to the women (ok, not all), we want them to be independent, she can go and do whatever she pleases, and she gets to live in a place without the corruption or social disadvantages, the list is really long.
So how about it? If you knew she would be a 10, she would be any age you like (keep it legal please), she is focused on taking care of all her husbands needs, she is able/willing to put in a real effort, Example: in some parts of the world, school isn't free, and its a privilege to go to school - so if they get to join, they basically have the characteristics of a super student x10, then if you invest in her doctor study etc, you are on.
Its certainly a thought which would simplify the process of starting a high quality relationship/ marriage etc.