beware this man (142)

Jan 10, 2012 7:56 AM CST beware this man
pearl56
pearl56pearl56dublin, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 33 Posts
hi all happy new year to you even if it is a belated one right so here is my story
i have been on and off contacted by a guy from here then we started e mailing to e mail addresses almost a year ago
well needless to say it went to phone and texts
he gave the usual story blah blah blah anyway as much as i know we arent supposed to give out names please connecting singles staff let this one go as it is a warning to anyone who comes into contact with this man
he told me his name was darren byrne but his e mail says darren tormey
he said he was a chef here in dublin
well he e mailed me to aske me if i could put him up for a couple of days as he was stuck until his new place was ready so i said yes ok you can sleep on the sofa
he was ok with that and duly arrived
well when he got here i was told he was bi polar buy himself no less
i said look disability is no problem to me im not that shallow to judge someone im a friend and you need help well he spent all the next two days texting non stop
then i had 70 euro in a box on my dresser and he saw i had put it there
also in my room i had a new mobile phone in a box well i was in and out and about the house not watching as i didnt think i needed to
next morning i heard him wake up at half six as he said he had had to go to hospital for observation anyway i heard the front door close and he left with out saying a word i thought it strange and went to check and saw his bags gone as well so i at once checked my money and it was gone so was the phone
i texted him and got abuse back
also he had shocked me the night before by telling me as we were watching the programme about missing women in ireland that he had been questioned over the murder of the young girl ronnead in bray area i think is where she was killed he said first time he was questioned for two hours and second time for fourteen
i do not trust this man and as there was only the two of us in the house there is no doubt in my mind he stole my money and the phone
if he contacts anyone dont reply i have contacted the guards and made a case
sorry if i am mentioning a name here as i know we arent supposed to but this has been a bad lesson to me in helping anyone and frankly im done with dating or meeting anyone off the internet im here for forums now only and debates please be careful i learned a big lesson here
Jan 10, 2012 8:01 AM CST beware this man
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland211 Threads 10 Polls 8,718 Posts
Hopefully along with his email address and phone number you were able to give the Gardai other information such as clubs he is a member of or where he likes to frequent, photographs etc and they will be able to arrest him.
Best of luck,, Stan..
Jan 10, 2012 8:13 AM CST beware this man
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland214 Threads 3 Polls 7,686 Posts
HI

I'm sorry to hear that something as crappy as this has happened to you and I hope that he is got and your money and phone returned.
I will warn you that you will likely get told off for putting up names and details and possibly even get banned. Others have done it like yourself to warn others but opened themselves up to scorn and abuse. Some justified and some not.

Hope you will be around to post on the forums and enjoy the laughs now and again.
Jan 10, 2012 8:17 AM CST beware this man
pearl56
pearl56pearl56dublin, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 33 Posts
thanks for that reply but i am hoping people will take note and not be offended that i thought out of safety for others on here as there are lots of really nice people on here and men like this give cs a bad bad bad name
Jan 10, 2012 8:18 AM CST beware this man
pearl56: hi all happy new year to you even if it is a belated one right so here is my story
i have been on and off contacted by a guy from here then we started e mailing to e mail addresses almost a year ago
well needless to say it went to phone and texts
he gave the usual story blah blah blah anyway as much as i know we arent supposed to give out names please connecting singles staff let this one go as it is a warning to anyone who comes into contact with this man
he told me his name was darren byrne but his e mail says darren tormey
he said he was a chef here in dublin
well he e mailed me to aske me if i could put him up for a couple of days as he was stuck until his new place was ready so i said yes ok you can sleep on the sofa
he was ok with that and duly arrived
well when he got here i was told he was bi polar buy himself no less
i said look disability is no problem to me im not that shallow to judge someone im a friend and you need help well he spent all the next two days texting non stop
then i had 70 euro in a box on my dresser and he saw i had put it there
also in my room i had a new mobile phone in a box well i was in and out and about the house not watching as i didnt think i needed to
next morning i heard him wake up at half six as he said he had had to go to hospital for observation anyway i heard the front door close and he left with out saying a word i thought it strange and went to check and saw his bags gone as well so i at once checked my money and it was gone so was the phone
i texted him and got abuse back
also he had shocked me the night before by telling me as we were watching the programme about missing women in ireland that he had been questioned over the murder of the young girl ronnead in bray area i think is where she was killed he said first time he was questioned for two hours and second time for fourteen
i do not trust this man and as there was only the two of us in the house there is no doubt in my mind he stole my money and the phone
if he contacts anyone dont reply i have contacted the guards and made a case
sorry if i am mentioning a name here as i know we arent supposed to but this has been a bad lesson to me in helping anyone and frankly im done with dating or meeting anyone off the internet im here for forums now only and debates please be careful i learned a big lesson here


Not a good idea dropping names like that..you could get yourself into a lot of trouble...from what I've read its entirely your own fault for letting a stranger into your house like that...I've a few stories about psychotic women but I dont want to bore people
Jan 10, 2012 8:18 AM CST beware this man
pearl56
pearl56pearl56dublin, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 33 Posts
hi stanley yes i did give the gurard all that info but it is scary that he is out here and actually doing this to good people desia
Jan 10, 2012 8:23 AM CST beware this man
stanley8m
stanley8mstanley8mkildare, Kildare Ireland211 Threads 10 Polls 8,718 Posts
Hardcore25: Not a good idea dropping names like that..you could get yourself into a lot of trouble...from what I've read its entirely your own fault for letting a stranger into your house like that...I've a few stories about psychotic women but I dont want to bore people


Ah, Do tell. I love a good psychotic woman yarn.
Jan 10, 2012 8:23 AM CST beware this man
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland94 Threads 8 Polls 6,214 Posts
pearl56: hi all happy new year to you even if it is a belated one right so here is my story
i have been on and off contacted by a guy from here then we started e mailing to e mail addresses almost a year ago
well needless to say it went to phone and texts
he gave the usual story blah blah blah anyway as much as i know we arent supposed to give out names please connecting singles staff let this one go as it is a warning to anyone who comes into contact with this man
he told me his name was darren byrne but his e mail says darren tormey
he said he was a chef here in dublin
well he e mailed me to aske me if i could put him up for a couple of days as he was stuck until his new place was ready so i said yes ok you can sleep on the sofa
he was ok with that and duly arrived
well when he got here i was told he was bi polar buy himself no less
i said look disability is no problem to me im not that shallow to judge someone im a friend and you need help well he spent all the next two days texting non stop
then i had 70 euro in a box on my dresser and he saw i had put it there
also in my room i had a new mobile phone in a box well i was in and out and about the house not watching as i didnt think i needed to
next morning i heard him wake up at half six as he said he had had to go to hospital for observation anyway i heard the front door close and he left with out saying a word i thought it strange and went to check and saw his bags gone as well so i at once checked my money and it was gone so was the phone
i texted him and got abuse back
also he had shocked me the night before by telling me as we were watching the programme about missing women in ireland that he had been questioned over the murder of the young girl ronnead in bray area i think is where she was killed he said first time he was questioned for two hours and second time for fourteen
i do not trust this man and as there was only the two of us in the house there is no doubt in my mind he stole my money and the phone
if he contacts anyone dont reply i have contacted the guards and made a case
sorry if i am mentioning a name here as i know we arent supposed to but this has been a bad lesson to me in helping anyone and frankly im done with dating or meeting anyone off the internet im here for forums now only and debates please be careful i learned a big lesson here
raonaid murray do you mean, that was in glenageary, an incredible story i must say, and of your own making
Jan 10, 2012 8:33 AM CST beware this man
I think the fact you stupidly let this weirdo into your house kind of goes out the window in this case, i think anyone on a dating site should read this persons story and learn from it....there's a hell of a lot of nutters out there and i'd say most of them prey on sites like these because they are full of stupid naive lonely women....i hope he gets caught and i'm glad you're ok....have you got kids??
Jan 10, 2012 8:36 AM CST beware this man
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland94 Threads 8 Polls 6,214 Posts
mcattack: I think the fact you stupidly let this weirdo into your house kind of goes out the window in this case, i think anyone on a dating site should read this persons story and learn from it....there's a hell of a lot of nutters out there and i'd say most of them prey on sites like these because they are full of stupid naive lonely women....i hope he gets caught and i'm glad you're ok....have you got kids??
there everywhere though not just on sites, like in fairness if someone is giving you two different names then you don't let them in your house, that is presuming this stroy is even true, it could just as easily be a woman scorned, we have seen that before here too
Jan 10, 2012 8:37 AM CST beware this man
Denise14
Denise14Denise14Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland1 Threads 53 Posts
I know a guy locally who is on dating sites, his profile looks great, he seems like a lovely man

but I know he has a criminal record for abduction and s*xual assault, and spent time behind bars for this.

I just feel that any potential dates are putting themselves in danger, but dont know what to do about it? or let them find out for themselves?

I would certainly prefer to know before I got involved with someone like this
Jan 10, 2012 8:39 AM CST beware this man
Denise14
Denise14Denise14Letterkenny, Donegal Ireland1 Threads 53 Posts
btw, he is not on CS site, to my knowledge
Jan 10, 2012 8:39 AM CST beware this man
This thread is Highly irresponsibleprofessor
Jan 10, 2012 8:44 AM CST beware this man
Straightdown
StraightdownStraightdownDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 451 Posts
Hardcore25: This thread is Highly irresponsible



Why?
Jan 10, 2012 8:45 AM CST beware this man
Straightdown: Why?


because
Jan 10, 2012 8:46 AM CST beware this man
Straightdown
StraightdownStraightdownDublin, Ireland4 Threads 1 Polls 451 Posts
Hardcore25: because



Because why? The woman had a bad experience with a weido thief who uses the site...why should she not warn others???
Jan 10, 2012 8:48 AM CST beware this man
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland163 Threads 9 Polls 16,920 Posts
Hardcore25: This thread is Highly irresponsible


I agree handshake

OP the problem with stating something like this on the internet is its only your side of the story and this could be anything from a woman scorned to a load of balloney. This is why the rules are there, to protect people from nutters writing what they want about who they want.

If you have been 'had' you are doing the right thng in contacting the police and letting them deal with it. handshake
Jan 10, 2012 8:48 AM CST beware this man
Straightdown: Because why? The woman had a bad experience with a weido thief who uses the site...why should she not warn others???


shes dropping names...serious allegations at that...not only accusing someone of being a thief but a murderer no less...
Jan 10, 2012 8:49 AM CST beware this man
jimbo79: there everywhere though not just on sites, like in fairness if someone is giving you two different names then you don't let them in your house, that is presuming this stroy is even true, it could just as easily be a woman scorned, we have seen that before here too


Yeah but it's so much easier for somebody to portray themselves as somebody else on the internet than face to face, some women on here have invited me around to their house for a ride, i could be a f*ck serial rapist or just proper freak, is it worth that chance just for a rodgerin?? (jimbo i know your answer to that haha) but seriously you don't let people you meet of the net with a bogey name into your housedoh especially if you're a woman!!

To be honest i couldn't care less if it's true or not, i just hope people learn from this....
Jan 10, 2012 8:51 AM CST beware this man
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland163 Threads 9 Polls 16,920 Posts
Straightdown: Because why? The woman had a bad experience with a weido thief who uses the site...why should she not warn others???


How do you know she has had a bad experience ? Plenty of lies written here daily and you of all people, who has been here this long, should know that anyone could write anything they want on here for whatever reason they want to hurt individuals who may n fact be completely innocent. The problem is we don't know.
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