Ive realised its good to check all the comments blogs to find out about people who contact you . Here you see them for what they are some awful thick Irish paddies here with no respect for women . Other nationalities of course . If a man is making nasty comments about any woman you'd be very foolish to meet him unless your the same type making vicious derogatory remarks about people . Most of us have met complete azzholes and yes we feel angry hurt wanting revenge but I say to myself rise above this crap be the bigger better best person you can be .
Thanks for the warning a good reminder. Yes you can get lucky but the risk is always there.tougher for women but a warning still for the men as well .abuse can come from either sex male or female.too many but cases and toxic people about. Stay safe all.
Always meet someone away from address you live in and if he wanted to be put up somewhere I would have just said a hotel or bnb and told him that was the best thing and then met him for a coffee and that way theres people around and exit so you can go home without feeling uncomfortable that there's a stranger in your house and if they are wanting more then that suggestion then you tell them sorry but that's the best I can suggested. His email name change would have been enough for alarm bells. I was chatting to someone and she had another name and was rather forceful in asking for a photo although she never sent one. She also hid her number. Never take a person you do not know into your home address or allow them to be forceful. Also never name names as it might backfire on you cause they may have several aliases. Unlike myself some people like to play games and lie online which is a poor reflection on people like myself who are honest but get burnt by those trolls.
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