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spnglish: Hey everyone,
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
Find something to do to keep your mind occupied and off of him. That's the best start.
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spnglish: Hey everyone,
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
Or you could just come to TN and I'll help ya forget him.
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spnglish: Hey everyone,
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
You're still thinking about him because you don't have a new lover to think about. Keep yourself busy with friends.....do things that require you to be with people. I broke up with someone seven years ago. He will always be in my head as a memory ONLY. Don't expect to completely forget about him. You will put him on the back burner when someone new comes into your life. Good luck to you.
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spnglish: Hey everyone,
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
Talk to us lot.
We're much nicer.
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spnglish: Hey everyone,
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
get busy with friends, other activities, spend time on cs, whatever you choose....you won't notice the time so much being busy, coz it does take time. i wish you well. been there. (and it did take some time, but it got easier and easier, and i most definitely made the right decision when i left) i also used the time to work on myself...so i wouldn't find myself repeating the same situation with someone else. jmho.
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Everyone is different how they deal with situations..lentgh of time together makes it hard...but seen from some other posts you received some excellent advice..
Time heals all wounds...dont rush into anything and just keep busy enough to deal with situation..
Loss is loss there is a grieving period and for all it is different
Time heals all wounds...dont rush into anything and just keep busy enough to deal with situation..
Loss is loss there is a grieving period and for all it is different
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Keep reminding yourself about the bad things that and why you two split up. Make sure that you have friends to talk to. Try not to talk to him unless you have to due to legal stuff or whatever.
Put a photo of me up on your wall and talk to it.
Put a photo of me up on your wall and talk to it.
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Hi J ! 
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spnglish: Hey everyone,
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
What’s the magic potion? The answer really is quite simple and when you soon realize this for yourself you’ll be on your way. Hint… You alone have full control of the WHEN to self administer a full dose of honesty about your own allowance for involvement in what you describe as bad and destructive.Well how will I know when I’ve achieved the degree of honesty required you may ask? You’ll know by the “taste” (won’t be like eating lobster tail) and most likely tears will follow then that’s when the process shall commence.Why not start today? I guarantee it will work for you as well as it has for me.
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spnglish: Hey everyone,
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..
... k me..I am the expert...
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Jeeepers: Keep reminding yourself about the bad things that and why you two split up. Make sure that you have friends to talk to. Try not to talk to him unless you have to due to legal stuff or whatever.
Put a photo of me up on your wall and talk to it.
Lol - are you giving out signed copies? Put a photo of me up on your wall and talk to it.
Seriously though to answer the question Jeeepers is on the right track of reminding yourself of why you broke up. There are just some people who get into our heads who are bad for us - I think it maybe because partly they reach some inner core with us, BUT its looking at the entire relationship and realizing if its good for us or not.
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I was in a really bad relationship but managed to get out, know I did what was right. The issue I am having, is that I still (6 months later) cannot get this man out of my heart and head. I know it is a process and takes time, but any advice out there would be appreciated.
Thanks..