anyone believe in the internet dating? pl give me a hug. (20)
Your story is sad smiletolife, but...
probably more common than any of us wish to recognize.
You are young and pretty... someone is out there trying to find you.
Until he does, post in the forums so he will know you better, and you will be more visible to him.
And here's a hug for you
Best of Luck with your search
probably more common than any of us wish to recognize.
You are young and pretty... someone is out there trying to find you.
Until he does, post in the forums so he will know you better, and you will be more visible to him.
And here's a hug for you
Best of Luck with your search
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Internet dating is hard enough when the person is a few hours away, let alone in a distant country.
Try not to take it so seriously, many people say things and are romantic online because it's easy and they have nothing to lose.
Just be light-hearted, have some fun and concentrate on men that you can meet without weeks, months or years of chat and emails .. the feelings that can grow are often false and misplaced, they'll never replace someone you can actually touch, smell and taste.
Try not to take it so seriously, many people say things and are romantic online because it's easy and they have nothing to lose.
Just be light-hearted, have some fun and concentrate on men that you can meet without weeks, months or years of chat and emails .. the feelings that can grow are often false and misplaced, they'll never replace someone you can actually touch, smell and taste.
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smiletolife: I am new here. In my heart, I believe distance is not a problem. however, from my experience, 6 month of internet dating seems doesn't work. He is in the US, gave me so much sweet words during the past 6 months. However, he disappered for one month, now he is there, but hesitate to contact me. For him, he wants a woman who is already in the US and is a working professional. However, i am here, with 2 kids.
the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
hi there my advice would be for you to look closer to home, don't solely focus on meeting someone for a relationship.Focus on looking for a solid friendship and then build on that, while enjoying the journey. You can't rely on other people to make you happy, they can add to your happiness and someone special will one day, just don't let it become your main priority,at the expense of missing out on the other good things in your life.the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
Best of luck and hope you find what you are looking for
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More hugs please ask, if you need more I shall ask my whole neighbor to hug you too for your comfort.
I am sure he confuses what he wants in life. On one hand he prefers to have close romantic relationship, on the other hand he likes you otherwise he won't spend time to write emails. Better to release him. I believe in your heart there is a part which says you deserve the best!!!!!
Internet dating sometimes works. Many members found their love lives here. Please don't close your chance because only one man. There are lots of us: single, with kids, without kids, single father, single mother, even in pair.
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he doesn't really want you,hurts as hell,i know, but you must accept it and move on. he used you as a beautiful intermezzo,somebody to feed his ego while he waits for something more appropriate.
stop all contacts with him,what good for you is a man who thinks of your children as a burden?
use this experience for your own benefit. did you feel good about yourself,beautiful and strong, when he was sweet talking you? well,stick to that feeling,it will stay with you after the pain is gone.
be proud of yourself,you were strong enough to offer real love and a full family,and he still comes to an empty home every day.
a big HUG for you :)
stop all contacts with him,what good for you is a man who thinks of your children as a burden?
use this experience for your own benefit. did you feel good about yourself,beautiful and strong, when he was sweet talking you? well,stick to that feeling,it will stay with you after the pain is gone.
be proud of yourself,you were strong enough to offer real love and a full family,and he still comes to an empty home every day.
a big HUG for you :)
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Dear friends, thanks for all your reply. your words are honest and sincerely. I know i should move on. Forget all the things about him.
Yes, I will move on. I am sure in this world, there is a good man for me. I don't want a man who don't want me or my kids.
Thanks for your hugs. I must be patient, waiting for my man. Concentrate on my work and kids. Kids need a happy mother, i will be a happy mother even I have no man.
For love, we are dreaming all our lives. Hope all the good man and good woman found what they want, leading a happy life with kids.
Good luck to all my friends here and myself!
Yes, I will move on. I am sure in this world, there is a good man for me. I don't want a man who don't want me or my kids.
Thanks for your hugs. I must be patient, waiting for my man. Concentrate on my work and kids. Kids need a happy mother, i will be a happy mother even I have no man.
For love, we are dreaming all our lives. Hope all the good man and good woman found what they want, leading a happy life with kids.
Good luck to all my friends here and myself!
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That's sad , he doesn't want you possibly keep you as a back up incase his relationship with other woman doesn't work. Move your life dear hope you gonna find someone who trully love you
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good luck for the next dating
and he is not the only one in this world, ...
LIFE is the first gift,
LOVE is the second and,
UNDERSTANDING is the third
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HUGS XX
ps Hi Sis
ps Hi Sis
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all I want to say, has been sad..
big big hug for you......
big big hug for you......
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smiletolife: I am new here. In my heart, I believe distance is not a problem. however, from my experience, 6 month of internet dating seems doesn't work. He is in the US, gave me so much sweet words during the past 6 months. However, he disappered for one month, now he is there, but hesitate to contact me. For him, he wants a woman who is already in the US and is a working professional. However, i am here, with 2 kids.
the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
you come as a package - you and your kids. if anyone declares their love for only you but does not accept your kids, they are not real, drop them, move on, someone better will come.
my hugs to you
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The thing with internet dating is everything seems perfect to begin with. People can present themselves in the best possible way, become their fantasy self. Men and women can masquerade as someone better looking, younger and wealthier than they are in real life. Everything can be presented through rose tinted glasses.
The cold hard reality for most is their life sucks. They may be incarcerated in a loveless marriage and seeking comfort from an internet lover. Possibly they can sneak away and live the fantasy real time for a few days. But it becomes impossible to continue.
Quite likely your guy really did love you. Most people can tell if someone loves them or not. There is some reason he is conflicted and my guess is he is trying to spare your feelings about the reality he has hidden from you. You will never know what that reality is without frank and open discussion.
I think you need to accept he has moved on.
Take comfort in the words of Dr Zeus;
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened"
The cold hard reality for most is their life sucks. They may be incarcerated in a loveless marriage and seeking comfort from an internet lover. Possibly they can sneak away and live the fantasy real time for a few days. But it becomes impossible to continue.
Quite likely your guy really did love you. Most people can tell if someone loves them or not. There is some reason he is conflicted and my guess is he is trying to spare your feelings about the reality he has hidden from you. You will never know what that reality is without frank and open discussion.
I think you need to accept he has moved on.
Take comfort in the words of Dr Zeus;
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened"
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NotNed: The thing with internet dating is everything seems perfect to begin with. People can present themselves in the best possible way, become their fantasy self. Men and women can masquerade as someone better looking, younger and wealthier than they are in real life. Everything can be presented through rose tinted glasses.
The cold hard reality for most is their life sucks. They may be incarcerated in a loveless marriage and seeking comfort from an internet lover. Possibly they can sneak away and live the fantasy real time for a few days. But it becomes impossible to continue.
Quite likely your guy really did love you. Most people can tell if someone loves them or not. There is some reason he is conflicted and my guess is he is trying to spare your feelings about the reality he has hidden from you. You will never know what that reality is without frank and open discussion.
I think you need to accept he has moved on.
Take comfort in the words of Dr Zeus;
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened"
The cold hard reality for most is their life sucks. They may be incarcerated in a loveless marriage and seeking comfort from an internet lover. Possibly they can sneak away and live the fantasy real time for a few days. But it becomes impossible to continue.
Quite likely your guy really did love you. Most people can tell if someone loves them or not. There is some reason he is conflicted and my guess is he is trying to spare your feelings about the reality he has hidden from you. You will never know what that reality is without frank and open discussion.
I think you need to accept he has moved on.
Take comfort in the words of Dr Zeus;
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened"
I think NaughtyNed said it best....people on the internet are sitting comfortably behind their computer, but when that comfort zone may be interrupted then they panic and don't want to be their little world to be compromised!!
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Well of course we believe in it else we wouldn´t be here. Lots have become cynical over time and portray differently, and some are just out to play games, but the fundamental search of human beings for their dream partner goes on.
Relationship difficulties occur online or in real life........the two people involved have to be walking the same line.
Relationship difficulties occur online or in real life........the two people involved have to be walking the same line.
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smiletolife: I am new here. In my heart, I believe distance is not a problem. however, from my experience, 6 month of internet dating seems doesn't work. He is in the US, gave me so much sweet words during the past 6 months. However, he disappered for one month, now he is there, but hesitate to contact me. For him, he wants a woman who is already in the US and is a working professional. However, i am here, with 2 kids.
the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
here's your hugnow go KICK HIM TO THE CURB and find a real man who isn't into games
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to many woman on here play mind games on here,i've had my share of heartbreak out here,go local and meet face 2 face,many here live to damn far away,and even then,they will never commit.
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smiletolife: I am new here. In my heart, I believe distance is not a problem. however, from my experience, 6 month of internet dating seems doesn't work. He is in the US, gave me so much sweet words during the past 6 months. However, he disappered for one month, now he is there, but hesitate to contact me. For him, he wants a woman who is already in the US and is a working professional. However, i am here, with 2 kids.
the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.
He has the problem not you... be true and kind to yourself... let go...
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the last 6 month, we chatted everyday, emails, calls. We seems really connect. However, when it comes to real life, he becomes hesitated. He visited me once. When it is my turn to visit him, he asked me to stop.
then now, we seems like friend. He gave me excuses. He enjoys my attention but feel stressful to give me committment. I told him: I want a real date. could you tell me you want me to wait for you or let me date with other man and only treat you as a friend? He never answered my question. When I felt so desperated, and wrote emails to him, he sometimes gave me a short call. Just say hello.
He want a local woman! He ever told me. When he has no girlfriend. He found me from the internet. He was attracted by me through the internet and gave me fake and sweet words. However, internet date is not real. He finally found that I want a serious realtionship. He doesn't want to get married to a woman who has two kids and from other country. But until now, Why he wasted his time and my time and still want to hold me? half a year already. He only explained that by now ,he doesn't know our future, so he keep quiet. he is afraid that he will offer me everything.
Then, we are lovers or friends? If we are lovers, during the past 1.5 month, I received his 4 short emails. no chatting, no calls. But he said we are lovers.
He is afraid of marriage. and also consider my two kids as burden. He take money seriously. I understand him and only ask a real date: give up me or give me a real date, even it is an internet dating. Pl let me feel somebody love me.
other people said he is a player. He ever lighted up my dark days in the past. However, this man hesitated to give me a serious realtionship. He makes use of me to kill the time.
I have to say: he is a man with a lot of good values. He knows what is right and what is wrong. but when it comes to his own life, he seems not responsible, not serious for me like what he said.
I almost lost interest in internet dating. However, I come here, hope to try again. Hope I am good luck and find a man who is really want to settle down and willing to love me and accept my two kids.
Dear, pl give me a hug.