I was chatting to a woman yesterday (49)

Not so much my experience, rather life-long observation of human behaviour.
Between the ages of (roughly) 15 and 25 most women seem to go through a bad boy phase, during which time they keep company with the biggest scumbags and losers that they can find.
About age 25 some begin to realise that lad whom they once viewed as exciting and edgy has noting more to offer them than a minimum-wage job, or a welfare cheque and a Housing Commission flat, or perhaps an address at the trailer park. They begin to think that, just perhaps, this might not be something that they would enjoy for the rest of their lives.
Then they begin to show interest in a different sort of male.

wow u really knew how to have a great time ,did u attend the national front rally afterwords to round the night off

Er, no.
The National Front appeared in Australia briefly during the early 1980s and died after a couple of years.

I have been on Oasis site as well. They seem a weird bunch on there!!

Its funny really that a much greater percentage of females seem to turn to religion,I wonder why.

alot take comfort in it, alot have had illness and thats whats got them thru,personally i think if it helps u and u believe in it ,which ever religion ur...then go for it,yes there are people out there that impose there views on other people but normally if ur respectful and tell them "no" they will back off, what i find amusing is the people who are non religious that shout about that aswell and slag everyone elses off ,i myself am open to most things... what i believe in is respect for each person and there religion,and the big one no one seems to have is tolerance, over the past few months on here ive sat back and watched people who i quite liked and had met on here at meets show some pretty horrible traits which have put me right of them,which is why i havent been posting much.

A man says 'I think'.
A woman says 'I feel'.

Yeah there are a lot of strange people there, also on plenty of fish and a few here as well. Though not nearly as much action here to compare with. Maybe something to do with them being free sites

I've also met some really nice people on oasis. Given enough time you find them eventually

Oh my dear I know exactly what you are getting at,but remember some of these members are lonely and depressed.... often all they have for company at night is a bottle of alcohol to keep them company,and it brings out all the pent up frustrations.

My ex was not a pleasant drunk and at times it was hell,it got so bad that I stopped going out to parties and get togethers knowing what was to come..... he was abusive and sometimes violent, over the years I tried everything to stop him but nothing worked.

I think this is one of the reasons I have never drank alcohol as I find drunks on the whole unapproachable and I would hate to make a fool or nuisance of myself, happy drunks I dont mind at all as it shows their true nature.

The good thing is that when they are drunk you can find out what they are really like.So there is an upside.