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My starting line is 'i've never dated before'. Does this make me a loser?
From my school days up until now, I've always been so occupied with studying and work, that I haven't had time to meet anyone. I have lots of friends but they are mostly male friends. We go out a lot because I force them all to go with me. When we are out I don't have the courage to go up to a girl and 'out of the blue' talk to them. I just feel so embarresed to do this. I guess my career as a Structural Engineer doesn't help as well as it is a male dominated type of job. I hear work relationships is a no no!
I talk/meet with my friends a lot and one day they are happily in love, the next week they are single, then the next week, they have met another person! I just don't get how quickly people, in general, chop and change partners so quickly and yet, I can't seem to meet anyone. People say appearences don't matter but subconsciously, I think it is the driving force! I'm definately not the prettiest of people and I totally understand why I am still single from the appearence point of view.
I'm 25 now, still single, never dated and I just wanted to know some of your opinions. Good or bad comments all welcomed!
Thanks,
Sil