The Best pick up lines ..... ( Archived) (22)

A ''pick-up'' line is a ill conceived strategy.

By employing a static approach one begins the interaction in a way that limits yourself right out of the gate. Its actually quite impersonal and guarded.

I agree with just being yourself. (like many others have said)

Being yourself and its implications in the scenario where one might be tempted to employ a ''pick-up'' line.. from my perspective goes something like this...

Getting the girl you *want* a specific girl requires dedication. This resonates the most as it conforms with their imperatives.

Long game as opposed to the pick-up impersonal guarded short game.

Once you try being yourself with someone you open yourself up for pain perhaps. That's just a sign you are being real when you feel you are risking a part of yourself.

That's the ante that is often required by some.

So, if you aren't willing to share a real part of you and instead you wish to hide behind a line that you did not conceive of, ask yourself: Do I really want her?