It's not about the looks - the meaning ( Archived) (51)

Jan 31, 2012 5:48 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
We hear it, we say it and we see it everywhere, where dating is brought up, like on this site, or in other settings.

As far as I can take it - "It's not about the looks" doesn't refer to facial features, or body shape, but comparison. Without comparison, we'd all be pretty cool, without going into it.

If we shouldn't compare at any level which disobey every invented norm and standard.

Not theoretically, but actually - could anyone go through with it?
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Jan 31, 2012 6:07 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
olaix: We hear it, we say it and we see it everywhere, where dating is brought up, like on this site, or in other settings.

As far as I can take it - "It's not about the looks" doesn't refer to facial features, or body shape, but comparison. Without comparison, we'd all be pretty cool, without going into it.

If we shouldn't compare at any level which disobey every invented norm and standard.

Not theoretically, but actually - could anyone go through with it?


Yes i agree with you ,people should be allowed to live were ever they choose .

What does your word theoretically mean ?

handshake
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Jan 31, 2012 6:08 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
It should feel something like sitting on the wave of the deepest ocean under the stars in the night
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Jan 31, 2012 6:10 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
jonnt: Yes i agree with you ,people should be allowed to live were ever they choose .

What does your word theoretically mean ?


Hmm, to create a possible way of doing something. Not all theories have been worked out. Actually, that we're doing it, or going to.
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Jan 31, 2012 6:10 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Im a bit lost here ...confused
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Jan 31, 2012 6:11 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
olaix: It should feel something like sitting on the wave of the deepest ocean under the stars in the night


With a Spliff , sounds cool .

cheers
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Jan 31, 2012 6:13 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
Sunnydaze14
Sunnydaze14Sunnydaze14Dublin, Ireland105 Threads 3 Polls 2,870 Posts
Boban1: Im a bit lost here ...



You're not the only one, Boban dunno
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Jan 31, 2012 6:15 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Boban1: Im a bit lost here ...


Just chillin on this thread Boban .

Apparently were sitting on a wave , under the stars ,with a choice to live anywere , and free spliffs .{i think .}

cheers
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Jan 31, 2012 6:16 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
jonnt: Yes i agree with you ,people should be allowed to live were ever they choose .

What does your word theoretically mean ?


I do mean it in its broadest sense, cross looks, habits, values, virtues, I could possibly bring in gender and age in danger of being hypocritical if I left them out.

And wouldn't it be hypocritical to think that our looks does not matter, but we still measure and compare on almost every possible area that is "known" to us, and propagandist to say what we don't mean?
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Jan 31, 2012 6:18 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
jonnt: Just chillin on this thread Boban .

Apparently were sitting on a wave , under the stars ,with a choice to live anywere , and free spliffs .{i think .}

The compassion part is intriguing
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Jan 31, 2012 6:19 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Boban1: Im a bit lost here ...


It is a serious quesstion :p perhaps a little bit to serious laugh
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Jan 31, 2012 6:20 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
olaix: I do mean it in its broadest sense, cross looks, habits, values, virtues, I could possibly bring in gender and age in danger of being hypocritical if I left them out.

And wouldn't it be hypocritical to think that our looks does not matter, but we still measure and compare on almost every possible area that is "known" to us, and propagandist to say what we don't mean?


I kinda liked the 2nd line but not shore about the other 3 ?
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Jan 31, 2012 6:22 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
You already know the answer, huh?
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Jan 31, 2012 6:24 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
olaix: It is a serious quesstion :p perhaps a little bit to serious
too serios and academical for mecrying
I am still lost, if you mean "it's not about the looks" is wrong, yes, it's wrong to me, it IS about the looks as well as some other things
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Jan 31, 2012 6:25 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
olaix: You already know the answer, huh?


No , im still waiting for the next Wave to show me some direction .
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Jan 31, 2012 6:27 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
nevica: too serios and academical for me
I am still lost, if you mean "it's not about the looks" is wrong, yes, it's wrong to me, it IS about the looks as well as some other things


Come ride the waves with us here and find the answers

banana
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Jan 31, 2012 6:27 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
nevica: too serios and academical for me
I am still lost, if you mean "it's not about the looks" is wrong, yes, it's wrong to me, it IS about the looks as well as some other things


Well yeah, there's as if there is a certain impossibility to it.

It would basically mean - nothing matters.
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Jan 31, 2012 6:28 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
olaix: It is a serious quesstion :p perhaps a little bit to serious
Okay , lets start

olaix: We hear it, we say it and we see it everywhere, where dating is brought up, like on this site, or in other settings.

As far as I can take it - "It's not about the looks" doesn't refer to facial features, or body shape, but comparison. Without comparison, we'd all be pretty cool, without going into it.

If we shouldn't compare at any level which disobey every invented norm and standard.

Not theoretically, but actually - could anyone go through with it?
compassion as feelings or felling sorry for ... what exactly???
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Jan 31, 2012 6:30 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
Boban1: Okay , lets start

compassion as feelings or felling sorry for ... what exactly???


can you clarify a little bit?
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Jan 31, 2012 6:30 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
olaix: We hear it, we say it and we see it everywhere, where dating is brought up, like on this site, or in other settings.

As far as I can take it - "It's not about the looks" doesn't refer to facial features, or body shape, but comparison. Without comparison, we'd all be pretty cool, without going into it.

If we shouldn't compare at any level which disobey every invented norm and standard.

Not theoretically, but actually - could anyone go through with it?


Go through with what? Not compare? How can you switch that application off? laugh When everyone is cool, how do I chose? I would say 'yes' to each and every man then! laugh
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