It's not about the looks - the meaning ( Archived) (51)

Jan 31, 2012 10:08 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
pointy
pointypointybirmingham, West Midlands, England UK60 Threads 1 Polls 751 Posts
no sure what u mean!


but,beauty and look,i mean physical attraction it matter,its brain swich to fall in love, instinctively.
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Jan 31, 2012 10:13 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
pointy
pointypointybirmingham, West Midlands, England UK60 Threads 1 Polls 751 Posts
olaix: Well, it is interesting to see the lines :)




i summerise the quotes ,take the pointy in your quastion,but the concept still there
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Jan 31, 2012 10:20 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
pointy
pointypointybirmingham, West Midlands, England UK60 Threads 1 Polls 751 Posts
i think your not happy to c whether beauty and look it matter in love,i repeat it does! although i like natural one, but it is very difficult
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Jan 31, 2012 10:22 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
pointy: i summerise the quotes ,take the pointy in your quastion,but the concept still there


Wont it always be?
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Jan 31, 2012 10:30 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
pointy
pointypointybirmingham, West Midlands, England UK60 Threads 1 Polls 751 Posts
olaix: Wont it always be?



what u mean?
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Jan 31, 2012 10:41 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
pointy: i think your not happy to c whether beauty and look it matter in love,i repeat it does! although i like natural one, but it is very difficult


Well, it is partly the point. Looks doesn't matter in true love, natural love is really difficult, we are physically attracted by which we experience as preferences - another part of the point is, that it IS the meaning of this plague of a phrase, which everyone seems to use, but noone seems to get.
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Jan 31, 2012 10:45 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
pointy
pointypointybirmingham, West Midlands, England UK60 Threads 1 Polls 751 Posts
sorry for misunderstood,this is simple quastion but it seems u want to complicate thing,talking natural love, the way u want is, i think u should wait expert to finnish it, me i have to go to sleep sorry!
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Jan 31, 2012 10:46 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
pointy: what u mean?
concept? or?
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Feb 1, 2012 10:10 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
pointy
pointypointybirmingham, West Midlands, England UK60 Threads 1 Polls 751 Posts
on sec day i decided to finnish ,the last party of your answer which is troubling many people to know,and i know your quastion nearly come to the data base that can lead to reveal so many secret,and could lead u also to many solution of many subjects.but i dont want to go there,the biggest solution to your quastion ,natural love is the love that come from hearty!a child can have it,a person u love most in familly like your mother,its possible you to love in your hearty,and also to your sweetyhearty ,u can also love in your hearty,we call deep love,angel love,or secret love.hearty it preserve the biggest secret of human than a brain,two very impotant organ in human that never stop working and both contain human file and exchange those file when u sleep.its long story but aparty from artificial love,physical love which is bout comparison .the thirdy which is the one u suching for nature love with its base in hearty.hearty can do magic or smart "comparison ,sec it can linck u and thirdy it can use special energy or alarty u to love someone unimarginably.that is we call profund love also.thanks cheers
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Feb 2, 2012 6:11 PM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
olaix
olaixolaixValhalla, Nordland Norway52 Threads 6 Polls 1,119 Posts
I think you are misunderstanding the question

anyways

To not judge, which morphed into this phrase, and several other in the field of social virtues, is the true meaning of this phrase. But still we judge! We may be aware of ourselves when we judge people due to their skin color, gender or phyiscal shapes, but on a deeper level, still we judge! If we still are aware of ourselves, we see how we judge based on nationality, political or religious orientation, perhaps with condemnation, but still we judge! If we're still aware, are we aware of how the social orientation makes us into superjudges? How we appear, what we know, how we feel, what we do. And how looking for a partner makes us into super hero type «I am the law» kind of judge.

We may be, because its damn hard to be totally free of it, and not likely, these people appear extremely rare. But at least knowing what it is, stops one from throwing it in peoples face to compel conformity, on top of a blurred sense of moral or virtue, at a level everyone is surprisingly capable :)
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Feb 3, 2012 12:17 AM CST It's not about the looks - the meaning
pointy
pointypointybirmingham, West Midlands, England UK60 Threads 1 Polls 751 Posts
olaix: I think you are misunderstanding the question

anyways

To not judge, which morphed into this phrase, and several other in the field of social virtues, is the true meaning of this phrase. But still we judge! We may be aware of ourselves when we judge people due to their skin color, gender or phyiscal shapes, but on a deeper level, still we judge! If we still are aware of ourselves, we see how we judge based on nationality, political or religious orientation, perhaps with condemnation, but still we judge! If we're still aware, are we aware of how the social orientation makes us into superjudges? How we appear, what we know, how we feel, what we do. And how looking for a partner makes us into super hero type «I am the law» kind of judge.

We may be, because its damn hard to be totally free of it, and not likely, these people appear extremely rare. But at least knowing what it is, stops one from throwing it in peoples face to compel conformity, on top of a blurred sense of moral or virtue, at a level everyone is surprisingly capable :)







well done ! cheers
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