Why people (men) don't want to have kids? (87)
Godessme: Looking through profiles of men of different age (mostly from 30 to 45) I have noticed that many write that don't want to have children.
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
I'd discuss, JMO. If a couple hit it off, i think it only fair that the one who wants kids should have kids. I know if i met someone who wanted children and i didn't, i would, i think it is just selfish not to unless there were reason that you couldn't have more. It is also a kind of bonding thing. If they don't want anymore, well i'd be looking elsewhere.Maybe some men think it will interfere in their life, it"s human nature to breed.
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Godessme: Looking through profiles of men of different age (mostly from 30 to 45) I have noticed that many write that don't want to have children.
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
I would say its freedom of choice...
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boomboom_uk: I would say its freedom of choice...
I agree and many women choose not to have children also
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serene56: I agree and many women choose not to have children also
thats true serene I have a couple of girlfriends who wish to remain childless..their choice ..their life..
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I don't know what they are thinking but I would be happy to be a father. I don't make it a deal breaker so to speak,,,maybe some men don't think they could handle it or maybe they don't like kids..just hard to say.
You are very beautiful and if you want to have a child then I hope you find the right one...lol...I already peaked and know you are looking for a guy lot taller than I am. If it is not one thing it is another,,,lol
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You are very beautiful and if you want to have a child then I hope you find the right one...lol...I already peaked and know you are looking for a guy lot taller than I am. If it is not one thing it is another,,,lol
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yes... always something wrong. lol
But it would be comic situation, if girl is 10 cm taller than man, right?
Anyway thanks for your comment and good luck!
But it would be comic situation, if girl is 10 cm taller than man, right?
Anyway thanks for your comment and good luck!
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Godessme: Looking through profiles of men of different age (mostly from 30 to 45) I have noticed that many write that don't want to have children.
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
Im a bit too old to go through the whole process from the beginning...
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FirasLion: I would love to have children,simply i never had.There is some reasons why(men/women)from age 33 and above don't want children,.....
1- They already have and know how difficult to be a single parent,so they don't need more.
2- They can't get(make)children because of some sickness,i know a lot of women here.
1- They already have and know how difficult to be a single parent,so they don't need more.
2- They can't get(make)children because of some sickness,i know a lot of women here.
I wrote that I don't mean healthy problems or people, who already have kids. I asked about childless men (or women- ok!), who can, but doesn't want to have kids.
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so most guys come up SHORT???
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Godessme: yes... always something wrong. lol
But it would be comic situation, if girl is 10 cm taller than man, right?
Anyway thanks for your comment and good luck!
But it would be comic situation, if girl is 10 cm taller than man, right?
Anyway thanks for your comment and good luck!
well, it never bothered me, I have went out with women taller than me, 10 centmeters,,,4 inches...hmmm add some heels!! LOL. 18 centimeters even, but surely there is a special out there for you...me too I hope!!
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Godessme: Looking through profiles of men of different age (mostly from 30 to 45) I have noticed that many write that don't want to have children.
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?
Men at my age are at the point where having children although viable are looking at the future of when the child would be old enough to really enjoy being with us doing things we may not be able...
My brother had son at the age of 46...now his son is 10 and due to serious unforseen health problems cannot do much with him...you want to be able to play and bond with your children..
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Godessme: not at all. I mean only profile's info, not concrete chat or person. But if he writes "No" in profile, is there a sense to start discussion?
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Biological tic tac not as cruel to us :)
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Godessme: So... you think after 50 y.o. will be the right time to start thinking about kids?
You are TOOOO self-confident then, I suppose. :-)))
You are TOOOO self-confident then, I suppose. :-)))
I've heard about a man who became a father at 90.
Maybe, just maybe he is righteously self confident
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morgan5: I might like to know why, what its his choice and certainly would think about trying to pressure him into it,
It is a sound advice
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I could not in all good conscience bestow a possible replica of me upon this world..JMHO....
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Godessme: So... you think after 50 y.o. will be the right time to start thinking about kids?
You are TOOOO self-confident then, I suppose. :-)))
You are TOOOO self-confident then, I suppose. :-)))
Why? :p If I didn't have the problems you project I'd have...
Not that I'd personally plan to wait til I'm 50, but who knows, maybe by that time I'm still without
but I could, if I'd wanted to.I think the small trolls are functional even if I pass 70
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boomboom_uk: I would say its freedom of choice...
in usa,child support is very high/jail time,etc.glad,im in that 50s area,love kids,but i can send them home w/ my kids lol,sugared up n loud toys playback lol j/k.------ This thread is Archived ------
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It is possible to understand, when the man already has children from the previous marriages or if to the man younger than 25 y.o. or older than 50. But when childless men at their best age don't want to have their own children (I don't mean health problem in this case), what is it - egoism or practicality?
And what women who have a desire to have own child in 30, 35, or even in 40 years must do in this situation? To refuse this man or to discuss this question?