Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us expe (29)
vmeshramGalle, Southern Sri Lanka4 Threads 30 PostsNever reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life. Agree?
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Why would I want a relationship with a bad person??? Thats an experience I will skip thanks 
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vmeshram: Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life. Agree?
Lets make a Deal!You hang around the Bad Ones,while I hang around the Good Ones!
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venusenvy: Why would I want a relationship with a bad person??? Thats an experience I will skip thanks
Hey how would you know the person until he cheats you that he loves you truly. I meant by this that one shud not regret and move on
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vmeshram: Hey how would you know the person until he cheats you that he loves you truly. I meant by this that one shud not regret and move on
Because we (hopefully) learn from past mistakes and learn not to choose bad partners. I should hope Im smart enough not to get involved with a bad person...This is nonsensical to me...
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venusenvy: Because we (hopefully) learn from past mistakes and learn not to choose bad partners. I should hope Im smart enough not to get involved with a bad person...This is nonsensical to me...
venu that is the biggest problem that people think they are smart and mature enough.
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vmeshram: Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life. Agree?
Well experienced mature people know that precisely one of the things to learn is discernment and that means learning to say NO when it´s warranted.
That means also accepting that sometimes people are going to say no to us too!!!
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EagleWoman: Well experienced mature people know that precisely one of the things to learn is discernment and that means learning to say NO when it´s warranted.
That means also accepting that sometimes people are going to say no to us too!!!
That means also accepting that sometimes people are going to say no to us too!!!
:) agree
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vmeshram: Hey how would you know the person until he cheats you that he loves you truly. I meant by this that one shud not regret and move on
i think sometimes the lesson is to walk away, call it rejection, call it a lesson, call it whatever you wish.. lesson already learned...
no sense always crashing in the same car...
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jono7: i think sometimes the lesson is to walk away, call it rejection, call it a lesson, call it whatever you wish.. lesson already learned...
no sense always crashing in the same car...
no sense always crashing in the same car...
Agreed!!! no do overs please!! LOL..... and as far as knowing before interacting I think that some of us learn to see certain signs,,,,what do you think Jono??
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looking for you NG..new say anything thread started
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Nikogas: Agreed!!! no do overs please!! LOL..... and as far as knowing before interacting I think that some of us learn to see certain signs,,,,what do you think Jono??
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niko-Bseeing signs....mmmmmmm....yes i do think we learn to see signs, but it's important not to project to create those signs me thinks.
i think we observe, expand, and become more aware of our own preferances though...and consequently avoid repeating situations that we didn't enjoy.
makes me wonder...what sign are you niko?
(i'm a sign of the times....
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Uhhh, going to put my two bobs worth in,
Red flags, and warning signs are important things to be on the alert for, especially for those who've been in bad relationships before.
It would be stupid to not reject someone who shows quite a few red flags/warning signs after having been in a bad relationship prior.
I know, was in a very first bad relationship (was 18 when I married him) and ignored all the red flags (big red flags) and all the warning signs, and then got into a brief relationship that also had the red flags and warning signs, but fortunately had enough sense second time round to cut my losses and run.
Experience is important, but so is wisdom - which can come from experience.
Now I'm not super picky - I couldn't care less if the toothpaste is rolled or squeezed, or if you pick your nose and eat it, etc... but if there are a number of warning signs or red flags - I am now the type of person who would say, "Well nice to know you Charlie Smith, but it ain't gonna work!"
If you don't reject someone (in a relationship sense) who is bad for you and is detrimental to your well-being, then that person will take you down with them like a drowning man.
Red flags, and warning signs are important things to be on the alert for, especially for those who've been in bad relationships before.
It would be stupid to not reject someone who shows quite a few red flags/warning signs after having been in a bad relationship prior.
I know, was in a very first bad relationship (was 18 when I married him) and ignored all the red flags (big red flags) and all the warning signs, and then got into a brief relationship that also had the red flags and warning signs, but fortunately had enough sense second time round to cut my losses and run.
Experience is important, but so is wisdom - which can come from experience.
Now I'm not super picky - I couldn't care less if the toothpaste is rolled or squeezed, or if you pick your nose and eat it, etc... but if there are a number of warning signs or red flags - I am now the type of person who would say, "Well nice to know you Charlie Smith, but it ain't gonna work!"
If you don't reject someone (in a relationship sense) who is bad for you and is detrimental to your well-being, then that person will take you down with them like a drowning man.
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In response to: Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life. Agree?
People are not necessarily bad but may have behaviours that are not so nice, and gradually rise to the surface, it is fair to say we need both in our lives as we don't always know if a person is going to hurt us after initially meeting them, therefore after they hurt us , we learn from it or we don't, that is personal choice, but either way, the whole situation has been an experience........
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vmeshram: Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life. Agree?
if I never rejected anyone I would have to be with over 1000 people, it's tiresome
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venusenvy: Because we (hopefully) learn from past mistakes and learn not to choose bad partners. I should hope Im smart enough not to get involved with a bad person...This is nonsensical to me...
I thought long and hard about this ....
and yep it's still long and hard.
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BB_snickers: I thought long and hard about this ....
and yep it's still long and hard.
and yep it's still long and hard.
Its good to know there are things you can count on in life
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jono7: niko-B
seeing signs....mmmmmmm....yes i do think we learn to see signs, but it's important not to project to create those signs me thinks.
i think we observe, expand, and become more aware of our own preferances though...and consequently avoid repeating situations that we didn't enjoy.
makes me wonder...what sign are you niko?
(i'm a sign of the times....)
seeing signs....mmmmmmm....yes i do think we learn to see signs, but it's important not to project to create those signs me thinks.
i think we observe, expand, and become more aware of our own preferances though...and consequently avoid repeating situations that we didn't enjoy.
makes me wonder...what sign are you niko?
(i'm a sign of the times....)
My sign reads...
tread softly
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vmeshram: Never reject anybody in your life, because good people give us happiness and bad people give us experience. Both are essential in life. Agree?
I do not agree. Life is a journey, and hopefully, we have learned some lessons along the way. One of the lessons I have learned is that positivity is a good thing. Inviting negative personalities into my life and creates turmoil and toxicity. Why make that same mistake over and over again? I don't "reject". I "select".
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rider4u: My sign reads...
tread softly
tread softly
(and carry a big stick?.....
)hiya rider
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