Whats the Story (36)

Mar 4, 2012 10:33 PM CST Whats the Story
Simmo1
Simmo1Simmo1Melbourne, Victoria Australia5 Threads 24 Posts
Why is it that women on dating sites want the Brad Pitt/George Clooney type of guys? Dont they understand that they are on a dating site, and if they could get the perfect guy, he wouldn't be on a dating site, some other women would have him.
Why are ladies so rude that they dont respond to flowers, winks, or msg's?
I was taught to be polite, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks.
MANNERS seems to be in everyone's profile somewhere, but it seems they are very rarely used.
I guess this is more of a rant than a blog.
I would be interested to see what the ladies say.
I have many questions to put forward, but will stop here and see what the response will be.
Simmo.
Mar 4, 2012 10:39 PM CST Whats the Story
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
This is going to be an interesting threadpopcorn popcorn
Mar 4, 2012 10:42 PM CST Whats the Story
Faithe
FaitheFaithePortland, Victoria Australia5 Threads 4,169 Posts
tonyxf: This is going to be an interesting thread

Move over babe and we can watch the show together, l'll bring some popcorn popcorn laugh
Mar 4, 2012 11:41 PM CST Whats the Story
cswelcome


popcorn
Mar 4, 2012 11:49 PM CST Whats the Story
cruiser68
cruiser68cruiser68Red Cliffs, Victoria Australia9 Threads 704 Posts
very mad very mad Well put Simmo,
It seems like us males do most of the ice breaking approach work, over and over again, with never a yay or nay in reply, exceptions must be made for the forum ladies who are very well mannered ..... wheeehhhhhwwww.... just got out of that one by the skin of my teeth,,,,,,,laugh laugh laugh But I do know where your coming from, its like it costs them an arm and a leg to show some manners and reply....J.M.O.
Mar 5, 2012 12:12 AM CST Whats the Story
seadragon
seadragonseadragonPerth, Western Australia Australia41 Posts
Hi Simmo wave ,

i can only speak for myself, as far as i am concerned i try always
to send back at least a flower, sometimes a short mail.

Even to Spammers, as they are human beings, too wink

In other forums / polls i voted for Brad Pitt or George Clooney
(what's wrong with some eyecandy ?) but in my case, i also posted that i do not have a problem with someone who is wearing sunglasses on their profile pic as
"i am prepared to kiss thefrog" because i am not judging a book by it's cover.


But maybe i have plenty of time to send flowers back because it's not so busy in my mailbox anyway.laugh
Mar 5, 2012 12:26 AM CST Whats the Story
lovelylass3
lovelylass3lovelylass3Auckland, New Zealand6 Threads 202 Posts
Simmo1: Why is it that women on dating sites want the Brad Pitt/George Clooney type of guys? Dont they understand that they are on a dating site, and if they could get the perfect guy, he wouldn't be on a dating site, some other women would have him.
Why are ladies so rude that they dont respond to flowers, winks, or msg's?
I was taught to be polite, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks.
MANNERS seems to be in everyone's profile somewhere, but it seems they are very rarely used.
I guess this is more of a rant than a blog.
I would be interested to see what the ladies say.
I have many questions to put forward, but will stop here and see what the response will be.
Simmo.


Hi Simmo can only speak for myself..but if I found a George Clooney or a Brad Pitt in the age group I am interested in, it would be nothing short of a miraclerolling on the floor laughing
On a more serious note, It only takes a minute to acknowledge a compliment..maybe you are winking or sending flowers to the wrong sort of ladies,, i,e the Angelina Jolies etc of this world... just wondering ...
What ever the reason , keep looking and hopefully you will soon meet a nice lady with great manners..teddybear
Mar 5, 2012 1:11 AM CST Whats the Story
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
Simmo1: Why is it that women on dating sites want the Brad Pitt/George Clooney type of guys? Dont they understand that they are on a dating site, and if they could get the perfect guy, he wouldn't be on a dating site, some other women would have him.
Why are ladies so rude that they dont respond to flowers, winks, or msg's?
I was taught to be polite, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks.
MANNERS seems to be in everyone's profile somewhere, but it seems they are very rarely used.
I guess this is more of a rant than a blog.
I would be interested to see what the ladies say.
I have many questions to put forward, but will stop here and see what the response will be.
Simmo.


Im doing something about it by getting even.

Minimum requirement is to look like Michele Pfeiffer or Im not interested.
laugh
Mar 5, 2012 1:19 AM CST Whats the Story
cruiser68
cruiser68cruiser68Red Cliffs, Victoria Australia9 Threads 704 Posts
Your supposed to be sitting on the sidelines eating popcorn,,,, Mr Roped, Chained and spoken for...... NO REPLY, IS NO MANNERS.......
Mar 5, 2012 1:23 AM CST Whats the Story
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
cruiser68: Your supposed to be sitting on the sidelines eating popcorn,,,, Mr Roped, Chained and spoken for...... NO REPLY, IS NO MANNERS.......
Thanks cruiser, this popcorn getting tastier.
Mar 5, 2012 1:24 AM CST Whats the Story
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
Simmo1: Why is it that women on dating sites want the Brad Pitt/George Clooney type of guys? Dont they understand that they are on a dating site, and if they could get the perfect guy, he wouldn't be on a dating site, some other women would have him.
Why are ladies so rude that they dont respond to flowers, winks, or msg's?
I was taught to be polite, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks.
MANNERS seems to be in everyone's profile somewhere, but it seems they are very rarely used.
I guess this is more of a rant than a blog.
I would be interested to see what the ladies say.
I have many questions to put forward, but will stop here and see what the response will be.
Simmo.


From my experience you can say the same about some men as well, I have sent flowers and messages and been ignored as well, so it isnt just females.

There are time I will not return flowers etc, usually when they are so far out of my seeking range, and ones that I have already said tanks but no thanks. Scammers get ignored as well as why should I waste my time?

I think it is just part of todays living, it is sad to say, but manners can be hard to find
Mar 5, 2012 1:25 AM CST Whats the Story
"I would be interested to see what the ladies say."!

still waiting
Mar 5, 2012 2:02 AM CST Whats the Story
Faithe
FaitheFaithePortland, Victoria Australia5 Threads 4,169 Posts
tonyxf: Thanks cruiser, this popcorn getting tastier.


isnt it just, heres some more popcorn popcorn thier that should keep us going all night laugh want any beverage delivery with it or would you prefer a coffee rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 5, 2012 2:07 AM CST Whats the Story
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
Faithe: isnt it just, heres some more thier that should keep us going all night want any with it or would you prefer a
make that a short black darlinwink
Mar 5, 2012 2:09 AM CST Whats the Story
Faithe
FaitheFaithePortland, Victoria Australia5 Threads 4,169 Posts
tonyxf: make that a short black darlin


Short black it is with freshly baked date loaf lips
Mar 5, 2012 2:44 AM CST Whats the Story
Simmo1: Why is it that women on dating sites want the Brad Pitt/George Clooney type of guys? Dont they understand that they are on a dating site, and if they could get the perfect guy, he wouldn't be on a dating site, some other women would have him.
Why are ladies so rude that they dont respond to flowers, winks, or msg's?
I was taught to be polite, even if it was to say thanks but no thanks.
MANNERS seems to be in everyone's profile somewhere, but it seems they are very rarely used.
I guess this is more of a rant than a blog.
I would be interested to see what the ladies say.
I have many questions to put forward, but will stop here and see what the response will be.
Simmo.


Simmo I agree with your views about politeness and it's probably no excuse, but I'm sure that many women on here are inundated with mail and flowers and don't feel inclined to respond to everyone?

Also, as others have said before, even when a woman does respond, 9 times out of ten the guy doesn't continue with the contact.

And that's fine if they are simply sending a flower, which is lovely, but if they ask questions, you respond and they don't, what's with that?

So it works both ways and really, if you contact someone and they aren't attracted to you, I'm not sure they are obliged to reply, period.

wine
Mar 5, 2012 2:48 AM CST Whats the Story
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
serene56: Simmo I agree with your views about politeness and it's probably no excuse, but I'm sure that many women on here are inundated with mail and flowers and don't feel inclined to respond to everyone?

Also, as others have said before, even when a woman does respond, 9 times out of ten the guy doesn't continue with the contact.

And that's fine if they are simply sending a flower, which is lovely, but if they ask questions, you respond and they don't, what's with that?

So it works both ways and really, if you contact someone and they aren't attracted to you, I'm not sure they are obliged to reply, period.
thumbs up Right. Next topic?
Mar 5, 2012 3:11 AM CST Whats the Story
tonyxf: Right. Next topic?



Yup, I'm ready boxing
Mar 5, 2012 3:13 AM CST Whats the Story
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
serene56: Yup, I'm ready
How come I never get any emails or flowers? not even a knock back!crying
Mar 5, 2012 3:16 AM CST Whats the Story
tonyxf: How come I never get any emails or flowers? not even a knock back!



Cos you're spoken for flower

And I bet there's no knock backs when that lil lady's around wink
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