i need advice on a girl problem (33)
countryboydjsumter, South Carolina USA1 Threads 8 Postsi went out to play pool last night and i saw a old friend i havent seen since highschool and i was madly inlove with her in highschool i was just to shy to tell her and i havent seen her in 4 years but soon as she walked in the door all those feelings came back and i know shes engaged to get married and im afraid to tell her how i feel about her cause im scared of rejection from her and i dnt want to get slapped or get in a fight with her man cause i will end up breaking him and then i will lose her friendship also so please people can i have some advice on what i should do cause i really dont know what to do about this im still very inlove with her and the feelings i have for her are real cause im sitting here almost in tears thinking about it i just really need some help here so people any kind of advice you can give me will help
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she is engaged.....common sence.....comes to mind......why ruin her life....because of .......HOW.....you feel......jmo.
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es shes engaged but i dnt think she loves him if she did why would she say the stuff she said about him tonight
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countryboydj: es shes engaged but i dnt think she loves him if she did why would she say the stuff she said about him tonight
What did she say??? was she drinking?? were you drinking??
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no i dnt drink and she dnt drink and she was saying stuff like the only reason she started dateing him to start with was to get back at her ex and that they have only been dateing a month and he allready proposed hes 26 she 19 he still lives with his mom and dad he dnt have a car or truck he drives around on a moped and the ring he gave her he didnt even buy it he found it at a car was on the ground by the carvacs
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countryboydj: i went out to play pool last night and i saw a old friend i havent seen since highschool and i was madly inlove with her in highschool i was just to shy to tell her and i havent seen her in 4 years but soon as she walked in the door all those feelings came back and i know shes engaged to get married and im afraid to tell her how i feel about her cause im scared of rejection from her and i dnt want to get slapped or get in a fight with her man cause i will end up breaking him and then i will lose her friendship also so please people can i have some advice on what i should do cause i really dont know what to do about this im still very inlove with her and the feelings i have for her are real cause im sitting here almost in tears thinking about it i just really need some help here so people any kind of advice you can give me will help
No Prob ,offer her to marry u Also Give her An option to be friends if she Rejects you ..Cheers 
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countryboydj: es shes engaged but i dnt think she loves him if she did why would she say the stuff she said about him tonight
Well not knowing what she "said about him" YOU don't have the right to mow another man's lawn. Just because you couldn't and haven't declared your love for this girl doesn't mean you should now. If you have to do something then I would write here a note and tell her that you care very much for her and wish her happiness but if her relationship with this man doesn't work out then please don't hesitate to contact you and leave it at that. Anything else would probably lose her friendship as has been mentioned already. I don't envy you my friend but you must act with honour or you won't like yourself for it and that relationship is your number one concern as you have to live with yourself for the rest of your life. Good luck
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thanks rider
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countryboydj: no i dnt drink and she dnt drink and she was saying stuff like the only reason she started dateing him to start with was to get back at her ex and that they have only been dateing a month and he allready proposed hes 26 she 19 he still lives with his mom and dad he dnt have a car or truck he drives around on a moped and the ring he gave her he didnt even buy it he found it at a car was on the ground by the carvacs
well, if she is serious and going to that length to get back at her ex or anyone then she sounds like a lot of trouble,,,but either way it just all sounds pretty messed up. I mean maybe you tell her your feelings and at least you get it off your chest...I think you will have to just search deep down and try to look outside those blinders, so good luck on this....I think you will need it.
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countryboydj: i went out to play pool last night and i saw a old friend i havent seen since highschool and i was madly inlove with her in highschool i was just to shy to tell her and i havent seen her in 4 years but soon as she walked in the door all those feelings came back and i know shes engaged to get married and im afraid to tell her how i feel about her cause im scared of rejection from her and i dnt want to get slapped or get in a fight with her man cause i will end up breaking him and then i will lose her friendship also so please people can i have some advice on what i should do cause i really dont know what to do about this im still very inlove with her and the feelings i have for her are real cause im sitting here almost in tears thinking about it i just really need some help here so people any kind of advice you can give me will help
\You don`t wanna lose her friendship???
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thanks niko ill call her tomarrow and see if she wants to get together so i can tell her in person
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no i dnt
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countryboydj: no i dnt
See thats a dangerous area ...lover/friend...
while you have deeper feelings for her, she see`s you as just a friend .
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thanks for the advice yall im gonna go think some more about it and give her a call when she wakes up
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tell her what in your heart
I miss that opportunity once and resented it
she will either decided the man she marrying is not for her
or he his and you will have peace in yours
what is meant to be will happen
communication his key in any situation
I miss that opportunity once and resented it
she will either decided the man she marrying is not for her
or he his and you will have peace in yours
what is meant to be will happen
communication his key in any situation
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Put a shirt on, and move on, find someone else.
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howdoyoudo: Put a shirt on, and move on, find someone else.
correct.......
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countryboydj: no i dnt drink and she dnt drink and she was saying stuff like the only reason she started dateing him to start with was to get back at her ex and that they have only been dateing a month and he allready proposed hes 26 she 19 he still lives with his mom and dad he dnt have a car or truck he drives around on a moped and the ring he gave her he didnt even buy it he found it at a car was on the ground by the carvacs
I'd say grow up, get a life and move on.
The fact that both of you hadn't been drinking, makes it even worse. It shows how immature you both are. God knows what both of you could do or say, had you been drinking.
And how about using some punctuation marks in your writing? It helps a lot to make us understand you better.
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countryboydj: no i dnt drink and she dnt drink and she was saying stuff like the only reason she started dateing him to start with was to get back at her ex and that they have only been dateing a month and he allready proposed hes 26 she 19 he still lives with his mom and dad he dnt have a car or truck he drives around on a moped and the ring he gave her he didnt even buy it he found it at a car was on the ground by the carvacs
Get yourself a bigger Moped than what he"s got ,that"ll teach him .
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countryboydj: i went out to play pool last night and i saw a old friend i havent seen since highschool and i was madly inlove with her in highschool i was just to shy to tell her and i havent seen her in 4 years but soon as she walked in the door all those feelings came back and i know shes engaged to get married and im afraid to tell her how i feel about her cause im scared of rejection from her and i dnt want to get slapped or get in a fight with her man cause i will end up breaking him and then i will lose her friendship also so please people can i have some advice on what i should do cause i really dont know what to do about this im still very inlove with her and the feelings i have for her are real cause im sitting here almost in tears thinking about it i just really need some help here so people any kind of advice you can give me will help
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