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Mar 27, 2012 3:23 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
mikew2479
mikew2479mikew2479st julians, Majjistral Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
Is an intimate encounter really acceptable and what are rules behind this type of dating..

Hey there I'm curious what Women and Men feel about, those who look for or find someone who wants an intimate encounter.... What are the dating guidelines mainly for men seeking women...

Is this just too pervy? or Is it acceptable to look for women or men just for sex?
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Mar 27, 2012 3:25 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
mikew2479
mikew2479mikew2479st julians, Majjistral Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
Posted rules twice in the title just noticed :) whoops.
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Mar 27, 2012 3:27 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
mikew2479
mikew2479mikew2479st julians, Majjistral Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
It was meant to be Dating rules and etiquette about intimate encounters. Women and Men
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Mar 27, 2012 3:27 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia207 Threads 7 Polls 29,864 Posts
When you`re hungry ,you can order a complete gourmand meal or just grab a sandwich ...grin
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Mar 27, 2012 3:28 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
mikew2479
mikew2479mikew2479st julians, Majjistral Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
:D thanks for getting the ball rolling :D
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Mar 27, 2012 3:42 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
stringman
stringmanstringmanwallaceburg, Ontario Canada838 Threads 1 Polls 9,159 Posts


laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 4:01 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain28 Threads 2 Polls 7,291 Posts
mikew2479: Is an intimate encounter really acceptable and what are rules behind this type of dating..

Hey there I'm curious what Women and Men feel about, those who look for or find someone who wants an intimate encounter.... What are the dating guidelines mainly for men seeking women...

Is this just too pervy? or Is it acceptable to look for women or men just for sex?


So what´s the point in living in a country where you can do want you want and choose how to live your life with/without a partner if you need rules to set the parameters for you? confused
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Mar 27, 2012 4:23 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK33 Threads 12,156 Posts
mikew2479: Is an intimate encounter really acceptable and what are rules behind this type of dating..

Hey there I'm curious what Women and Men feel about, those who look for or find someone who wants an intimate encounter.... What are the dating guidelines mainly for men seeking women...

Is this just too pervy? or Is it acceptable to look for women or men just for sex?
...If you find someone like this.....consider this....you may not be the first..or the last.....i would steer away.......just look for someone who wants to be treated in the correct manner....and not just for a one night stand.......thats the differance ...between ...love...and lust....jmo...
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Mar 27, 2012 4:45 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
mikew2479
mikew2479mikew2479st julians, Majjistral Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
Yep I understand I think I was really trying to figure out what women think about it.. I've been in a relationship for 12 years which ended and I Dating has changed biiiiiig time.... Sex and the city changed things :D

Maybe i'm a bit of a rule guy to :S

But It seems to me that most women think intimate encounters are just Pervy .. basically one night stands.... Where as alot of guys seem to be doing it..

I was checking basically to see if men and women have different ideas about the whole thing, .. and just wanted opinions from both sides as it...

And btw on the Rowan atkinson dating thing I think i need that I need to catch up .
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Mar 27, 2012 6:26 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
rivame
rivamerivamemelbourne, Victoria Australia63 Threads 3 Polls 6,299 Posts
I think it depends on the two people involved...and being honest about the expectations. If its just a one night stand you want it should be made plain and clear. Seems a lot of people are happy to have friends with benefits nowadays dunno
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Mar 27, 2012 7:27 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada32 Threads 30,684 Posts
Theres RULES????? WTF theres rules??? doh
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Mar 27, 2012 7:36 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,910 Posts
mikew2479: Yep I understand I think I was really trying to figure out what women think about it.. I've been in a relationship for 12 years which ended and I Dating has changed biiiiiig time.... Sex and the city changed things :D

Maybe i'm a bit of a rule guy to :S

But It seems to me that most women think intimate encounters are just Pervy .. basically one night stands.... Where as alot of guys seem to be doing it..

I was checking basically to see if men and women have different ideas about the whole thing, .. and just wanted opinions from both sides as it...

And btw on the Rowan atkinson dating thing I think i need that I need to catch up .


If there are a lot of men doing it, who are they doing it with? The same woman, or each other? uh oh laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 7:39 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada32 Threads 30,684 Posts
kidatheart: If there are a lot of men doing it, who are they doing it with? The same woman, or each other?


hmmm daydream
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Mar 27, 2012 7:40 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey56 Threads 4,384 Posts
venusenvy: Theres RULES????? WTF theres rules???


rules are meant to be broken lips
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Mar 27, 2012 7:42 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada32 Threads 30,684 Posts
lushguy4you: rules are meant to be broken


Thank goodness eh Lushy...Im sure Ive broken more than a few by now wine
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Mar 27, 2012 11:16 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
mikew2479: Is an intimate encounter really acceptable and what are rules behind this type of dating..

Hey there I'm curious what Women and Men feel about, those who look for or find someone who wants an intimate encounter.... What are the dating guidelines mainly for men seeking women...

Is this just too pervy? or Is it acceptable to look for women or men just for sex?


to me it is pervy - especailly on here when it's perfect strangers - in 4 yrs on the net I find most of the consistent californiacators are involved in some way in the sex trade or porn....

sex without attachment is just...yuck....weird (in addition to being not the most psychologically or physically healthy move u can make) just my .02 - cuz u asked...hug
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Mar 27, 2012 11:21 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
lushguy4you: rules are meant to be broken
I don;t really think there are rules among consenting adults in the real sense of "rules"

I think you have to go with what works for you & your partner - if you know you are dating someone more traditional or less traditional - ask them - what their expectations are

that's important whether or not you go in for the casual stuff

which I don;t(do casual)

AND I do not go in for guys who are into casual (that usually surprises them as they apparently aren't used to being turned down...)laugh
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Mar 27, 2012 11:29 PM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
rivame: I think it depends on the two people involved...and being honest about the expectations. If its just a one night stand you want it should be made plain and clear. Seems a lot of people are happy to have friends with benefits nowadays


I agree with what you are saying about men doing it....and as for with what women?.....TBH I think some guys dupe women into encounters not being honest about their intentions. (this does not say ALL men - SOME men) That is one reason why I wait now....I've been mislead once or twice about "intentions" and that's once or twice too many

apparently there are still women who believe "ya baby I'll still love you in the morning...." un-huh.....roll eyes
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Mar 28, 2012 8:50 AM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
mikew2479
mikew2479mikew2479st julians, Majjistral Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 101 Posts
hmmmm what I meant about rules is this..

Personally I didnt really have any .... I just started to get confused because it seems though noone says anything there are loads of rules..

And its usually the people saying there are no rules who impose them :P

yep thats for you :P

And the reason I'm trying to find out is because i'm single and everythings f*cking new :S

Like for instance... Murder there are rules round that don't kill ( that's an example..

I'm just trying to see what people feel about it..

For instance a lot of women say hey i'm looking for friends! I mean really ??????

Your on a dating site looking for friends? Searching men between a specific age and with a certain look for a friend??? I'm just curious perhaps I'm completely ignorant :S And don't get it but ahhhhhhhg f*ck it..

Perhaps I need to chill abit but it seems you can't just have a intimate encounter cause in society people still look down on it... as pervy...

Isn't it cool just to have sex?
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Mar 28, 2012 9:02 AM CST Dating rules and rules about intimate encounters. Women and Men
what ever floats ur boat! but for me sex without feeling for sumone dont work!cheers
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