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I know this site is for singles only... but before i used to be single too :)
I met my present gf when we were both in other relationships. but fate brought us together and after some months sweating it out, we ended our relationships and we took off together.
Well, i've been going out with this girl for about a year and 2 months and i love her to bits! I even feel butterflies every time i'm off to meet her. i've been invited in their house and all of that family stuff so i'm ok with her family and she's ok with mine.
However, recently, i'm realizing that shehas a tendency to lie about some things... small things mind you, but still lies. i know we didn;t start the relationship on the right foot by cheating on our previous partners but i just let everything go and gave this relationship my full as i was convinced this is the one for me.
an example of a lie was... i would like to meet her friends, which she normally meets from time to time. her friends know about me and all that. apparently, they invited her to go out together with their partners.. my gf never told me anything, and i got to know that she's inventing excuses to her friends that she cannot meet them. when i got to know, she was all excuses like... there was never an invitation, they wanted her alone (not with partners) it's been cancelled, etc...
I really gave my all in this relationship and would like me and her to be real open on all things, an impression she gave me from long time ago... and i trusted her with my eyes closed. however, i'm not sure how to take this little mishap and some other minor ones before this... which she doesn';t know i know about.
I love this person a lot!... and am willing to let it pass and forget it completely just not to ruin our relationship. but in the future, will it come back to haunt me just cos i didn;t take any action right now?
And for all you wiseguys who will say "move on", you know how difficult it is to just move on after working so much for something, and then letting it slip away for something which might be nothing at all.