am i doing something wrong! (10)

Apr 9, 2012 3:06 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
timothy45
timothy45timothy45lancashire, Lancashire, England UK13 Threads 44 Posts
im trying to be myself always but am wondering if im doing the right thing as ive been on this site a while now & havnt had much sucess in finding my dream lady. or is there something i,m not doing & should give it a go? or should i just accept that i may never find my ideal partner?
Apr 9, 2012 6:37 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
timothy45: im trying to be myself always but am wondering if im doing the right thing as ive been on this site a while now & havnt had much sucess in finding my dream lady. or is there something i,m not doing & should give it a go? or should i just accept that i may never find my ideal partner?


Yah. Whining is not a good thing.

Maybe fill your profile in a bit better and use one of the headshots as your main picture.

People have been here for ages and not had any luck, it's the way of Teh Internetz! Only use it as an avenue for finding a partner, and don't expect anything.
That way, disappointment is free grin
Apr 9, 2012 6:39 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
cynicalorange: Yah. Whining is not a good thing.

Maybe fill your profile in a bit better and use one of the headshots as your main picture.

People have been here for ages and not had any luck, it's the way of Teh Internetz! Only use it as an avenue for finding a partner, and don't expect anything.
That way, disappointment is free


What's the craic?
Apr 9, 2012 6:49 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
cynicalorange
cynicalorangecynicalorangeBristol or Dortmund, Somerset, England UK27 Threads 5 Polls 1,897 Posts
Phoenix: What's the craic?


That would be an Irish term for having a good time laugh


But, it's all good. Hope it's the same there.
Apr 9, 2012 8:30 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
Phoenix
PhoenixPhoenixBelfast....., Antrim Ireland274 Threads 65 Polls 6,948 Posts
cynicalorange: That would be an Irish term for having a good time But, it's all good. Hope it's the same there.


Things aren't too bad here. Crappy weather but it's to be expected on a bank holiday...But at least I've some of Tesco's finest (wine folks)...and loads of beer..
Apr 9, 2012 9:22 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
artistic7
artistic7artistic7edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK280 Posts
timothy45: im trying to be myself always but am wondering if im doing the right thing as ive been on this site a while now & havnt had much sucess in finding my dream lady. or is there something i,m not doing & should give it a go? or should i just accept that i may never find my ideal partner?
go in disguise thenlaugh
Apr 10, 2012 8:31 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
timothy45: im trying to be myself always but am wondering if im doing the right thing as ive been on this site a while now & havnt had much sucess in finding my dream lady. or is there something i,m not doing & should give it a go? or should i just accept that i may never find my ideal partner?


Hi there... we have the same problem on our Aus /NZ forum I think one of the reasons are that CS is such a great site that it has become more of a social get together more than a dating site sometimes.

I only go on the forums now to have a chat to everyone I have known for a while as I am now in a relationship... my partner isent worried as he knows that I can be trusted bless him.

I was on CS when I met him but didnt find him on here as I was on a couple of other dating sites which only cater for meeting someone.

Funny thing was the site I met him on is based in the UK but has branches in Aus , it is one of the best.

I have looked at your profile and your main pic is really great you are an attractive man ....but get rid of that pic in those daggy shorts standing beside a Car.grin

If you are seriously looking for a partner spread your net a bit wider as I did... what have you got to lose,have confidence in yourself start making contact and you wont be disappointed.
And Never Ever Give Up.
wave
Apr 10, 2012 10:43 AM CST am i doing something wrong!
timothy45
timothy45timothy45lancashire, Lancashire, England UK13 Threads 44 Posts
great advice martia, many thanks. x
Apr 10, 2012 3:09 PM CST am i doing something wrong!
Jantie
JantieJantieperth, Tayside, Scotland UK4 Threads 161 Posts
I agree with Martia ... well said ... and I would add that a photo of you smiling would make a big difference.
Good luck and don't get down about it
Apr 11, 2012 3:09 PM CST am i doing something wrong!
mk20uk
mk20ukmk20ukleeds, West Yorkshire, England UK13 Threads 720 Posts
timothy45: great advice martia, many thanks. x


Timothy, don't take anything personally if you don't get the response you want.

I'm not sure if this site is really a 'dating site' anyway. You may need to try other sites if you're solely relying on the internet I'm afraid!!

Keep on trying and hopefully, soon you'll meet the woman of your dreams!!!
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