mistergoodnight: I am seriously considering going east for an asian woman for realationship and marriage ,have any people here any advice on doing so?
Um it depends on who will u fall in love with. In Thailand, be careful since those girls could be boys lol. And yeah women in this area may consider u to help out their families if u marry the poor one. With them, marry a foreigner guy is something to show off more than love. Be wise
even though our ways are different, I really respect the eastern value placed on family. I think they can put many westerners to shame on that topic. I have met many Thai and find them pretty much like anyone else...but for the greater value placed on family - it is admirable
but there is a great difference between taking good care of ones family members - a mutual responsibility for all - and being taken advantage of which is wrong and doesn't have to be accepted
The Thai people I have met have been kind, friendly and hard working
If you really want to have serious relationship with asian woman, so only listen your heart and your mind. If she is really right woman for you, you will know what will you do.
robplum: oh not really, if your a god fairing lad, go for the Philippians ladies, but watch your pocket. They probably want you to build there parents a house... Thai's are pretty upfront people, movers and shakers probably covers Thai ladies.
Your white and live in a rich part of the world, that's probably what's really behind I LOVE YOU marry meee.....
scon1916: I've lived in 5 Asian countries over the last 21 years. I don't know and haven't come across a happy marriage yet.Their expectations and ours are totally different. You'll have to support and educate her bothers and sisters. You'll be a villain if you don't. You'll have to buy the family a house and it will be in her name. She will take it after she has taken everything from your bank account. DON'T MARRY OUT HERE! Trust me! I know this will upset the Asian ladies on this site but this has been my experience. I have never been married by the way.I've seen too many failures and broken western men.
If you go on holidays and you fall in love with a person - fair enough and best of luck! If you get on with someone, nationality shouldn't be an issue.
But going deliberately to a far away country looking for a partner, or men/women from other cultures trying to attract someone to marry them from another region - I think first of all everyone involved should question why the other person is doing that.
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
venusenvy: Wow! Soooo it has nothing to do with yaknow LOVE then huh? Its like buying a commodity like what brand of cereal do you wish to eat? Next this dolt will be on here whining about being taken for a ride...Personally, I hope he does, its exactly what he deserves for treating human beings as less than human. I hope some smart Asian chick takes him for everything!!
oh E. i would really glad to but the mister won't agree
Cyn_RealHappily Taken,, New Territories Hong Kong515 posts
Asian women need fully commitment... In my country, Indonesia, people still have full of honour to love and marriage... Think twice before you take action !!!
Are you ready to share your life 'till death do us part ???
NatashaKinksiecity of angels, California USA131 posts
You will be needing a dictionary, a thesaurus, a crash course in cultural differences, and so much more. Women are women everywhere. Last but certainly not least, quiet waters run deep. Go well prepared with a lifesaver, mosquito antirepellant, and harpoon if necessary. Good luck to you sailor.
rippleinapondcentral highlands victoria, Victoria Australia7 Threads378 Posts
rippleinapondcentral highlands victoria, Victoria Australia378 posts
fafafafa: agreeeeeee...dont think bad about woman from asian cos not all asian woman like that. trust me. just need to choose a good one. see and know that girls first. dont think bad cos they will feel what you think and it make woman dont feel comfortable.
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