Ok here is where I am going to sound desprite, but you all have to realize something for a man like me being single is not fun I wasnt born with all of this love just to sit back and let it go to waste. I went out with the girl I met on this site and spent 250.00 and in the end she told me that while I was on the bus heading home she met someone and is going to england is there anyone on this site that knows or is someone looking for a long lasting relationship that may lead to a long lasting marriage since I'm not the kind of man to do something stupid that I know would make a woman walk away I'm sure someone knows someone in here that is looking for someone like me and I don't care how far it is from california I am willing to travel someone once told me sometimes to find that special someone you have to ask for directions along the way do you know someone who would like a loyal, faithful, trust worthy, kind of guy if so send me a email or leave me a post in here.
LOL HIGH I KNEW YOU WERE GOING TO BE THE FIRST IN HERE lol I sent out tons of emails and are waiting but man I didn't know it takes this long to find someone on here but I am taking it slow or at least trying hahahaha lol
I am 29 I want to find someone before I'm 31 lol so I can know that I'll have the rest of my life to spend with that person but the way I see it for every year that passes thats one year I could have spent with her Bet none of ya ever thought of it that way.
highplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA4,288 posts
C'mon bro...success cannot be measured in the e-mails that you send and the flowers that you send. Be patient. Talk. Work the room bro. It only takes long if you seem desperate...and you do. Cool your engines...make some friends....don't be so in a hurry....and BAM...there'll she'll be....looking you in the face....Cool Out....chill.....
Finding love takes time...you cant just say...Give me what ever and that will be fine.
almost EVERYONE on here is looking for the same thing, love; but that doesnt mean that you just "pick one" and say "I'll take it"......
I suppose if you are just desperate to be with someone then you could get a mailorder bride.....but to find someone that is truly going to love you....you cant do it this way!
its no big deal so what you spent $250.00 its not the end of the world, i remember a thread from you not long ago, where you asked should you tell the woman you have never met but have spoken to on here should you tell her you loved her, would this be the same woman? so this woman has met you and deciced you are not the man for her, at least she told you and is not stringing you along, a bit of advise dont be to clingy, start declaring love before you know the person and you do sound desperate why is this? sit back chill out and let the women come to you
Dont get frustrated , learn from the experience, analyze what went wrong, and dont be desperate to find that special person, things happen for a reason
Hey, I might be a little late but, Glad to see a photo.
Take it slow, think of Dating women as fine wine... You want a slow aging process, The longer it ages, the better the taste, Go fast and you'll have something bitter.
hmmm I don't know why that sounds like something else.....
31? Seriously, I had the best time of my life at in and around age 32 so stop getting all boo-hoo-hoo about what is not happening. It'll happen when it is supposed to happen and when the universe says so. Let it be like that.
The more you force it, the more you pour on desperation, the more people will shy away from you. The woman who is confident, outgoing, dynamic isn't into the "poor me" thing and never will be. That was written in stone or at least painted in the cave a long time ago.....She wants the strong and able man...be that and it will get you everywhere...
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