A question for everyone in connecting singles ( Archived) (66)

Nov 7, 2006 12:04 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
aman4trulove
aman4truloveaman4truloveEureka, California USA19 Threads 224 Posts
Ok here is where I am going to sound desprite, but you all have to realize something for a man like me being single is not fun I wasnt born with all of this love just to sit back and let it go to waste. I went out with the girl I met on this site and spent 250.00 and in the end she told me that while I was on the bus heading home she met someone and is going to england is there anyone on this site that knows or is someone looking for a long lasting relationship that may lead to a long lasting marriage since I'm not the kind of man to do something stupid that I know would make a woman walk away I'm sure someone knows someone in here that is looking for someone like me and I don't care how far it is from california I am willing to travel someone once told me sometimes to find that special someone you have to ask for directions along the way do you know someone who would like a loyal, faithful, trust worthy, kind of guy if so send me a email or leave me a post in here.blues
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Nov 7, 2006 12:07 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
aman4trulove
aman4truloveaman4truloveEureka, California USA19 Threads 224 Posts
LOL HIGH I KNEW YOU WERE GOING TO BE THE FIRST IN HERE lol I sent out tons of emails and are waiting but man I didn't know it takes this long to find someone on here but I am taking it slow or at least trying hahahaha lol
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Nov 7, 2006 12:07 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
mixxy
mixxymixxyrockdale, Texas USA3 Threads 229 Posts
just be yourself cali someone will come along don't be in such a rush or you'll get hurt againhug hug hug
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Nov 7, 2006 12:09 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
aman4trulove
aman4truloveaman4truloveEureka, California USA19 Threads 224 Posts
I am 29 I want to find someone before I'm 31 lol so I can know that I'll have the rest of my life to spend with that person but the way I see it for every year that passes thats one year I could have spent with her Bet none of ya ever thought of it that way.
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Nov 7, 2006 12:10 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
highplains
highplainshighplainsHighland Springs, Virginia USA127 Threads 4,288 Posts
C'mon bro...success cannot be measured in the e-mails that you send and the flowers that you send. Be patient. Talk. Work the room bro. It only takes long if you seem desperate...and you do. Cool your engines...make some friends....don't be so in a hurry....and BAM...there'll she'll be....looking you in the face....Cool Out....chill.....conversing
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Nov 7, 2006 12:10 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
LonelyInBC31
LonelyInBC31LonelyInBC31Battle Creek, Michigan USA199 Threads 1 Polls 2,760 Posts
I have to agree with Highplains here...

Finding love takes time...you cant just say...Give me what ever and that will be fine.

almost EVERYONE on here is looking for the same thing, love; but that doesnt mean that you just "pick one" and say "I'll take it"......

I suppose if you are just desperate to be with someone then you could get a mailorder bride.....but to find someone that is truly going to love you....you cant do it this way!

Good luck to ya!

hug
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Nov 7, 2006 12:11 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
ramone
ramoneramoneEDINBURGH, UK38 Threads 3,826 Posts
slow down... get to know people drinking
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Nov 7, 2006 12:13 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
EnigmaticExistnc
EnigmaticExistncEnigmaticExistncSouthCoast, British Columbia Canada8 Threads 802 Posts
Awww sweetie

comfort comfort hug


(ps -- desperation is not a "come n' get'em" signal --- just some friendly advice)
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Nov 7, 2006 12:13 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
aman4trulove
aman4truloveaman4truloveEureka, California USA19 Threads 224 Posts
Either way I have to wait anyway so I am going to and the reason I made this forum is to see what people say and think so who knows what will happen.
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Nov 7, 2006 12:13 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
scouser
scouserscouserlondon, UK17 Threads 1,346 Posts
its no big deal so what you spent $250.00 its not the end of the world, i remember a thread from you not long ago, where you asked should you tell the woman you have never met but have spoken to on here should you tell her you loved her, would this be the same woman? so this woman has met you and deciced you are not the man for her, at least she told you and is not stringing you along, a bit of advise dont be to clingy, start declaring love before you know the person and you do sound desperate why is this? sit back chill out and let the women come to youwine
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Nov 7, 2006 12:14 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
aman4trulove
aman4truloveaman4truloveEureka, California USA19 Threads 224 Posts
hey EnigmaticExistnc are you a enigma fan since its in your name because I'm hooked on their music JW
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Nov 7, 2006 1:19 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
Xstacy
XstacyXstacyva, Virginia USA15 Threads 661 Posts
The desperation is a complete turn-off and just a little scary for me.
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Nov 7, 2006 1:36 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
I'm not desparate at all.

I'm just totally in LOVE with Xstacy! kiss smitten hug

I'm willing to wait for her, even if it means I'll have to meet her in another life.

How's that for patience? wave
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Nov 7, 2006 2:03 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
Xstacy
XstacyXstacyva, Virginia USA15 Threads 661 Posts
sigh

blushing silly man
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Nov 7, 2006 3:56 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
Tell me you love me or I'll jump out my window. I live on the ground floor but I could scrape my knee. Paws
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Nov 7, 2006 4:13 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
Caribbeanstyle
CaribbeanstyleCaribbeanstyleSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 379 Posts
Dont get frustrated , learn from the experience, analyze what went wrong, and dont be desperate to find that special person, things happen for a reason
comfort
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Nov 7, 2006 4:35 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
Leatherman66
Leatherman66Leatherman66Lima, Ohio USA32 Threads 615 Posts
Hey, I might be a little late but, Glad to see a photo.

Take it slow, think of Dating women as fine wine... You want a slow aging process, The longer it ages, the better the taste, Go fast and you'll have something bitter.

hmmm confused I don't know why that sounds like something else.....
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Nov 7, 2006 4:39 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
If someone is interested. Than
she will most likely let you
know. Just relax and have fun.
The rest will happen when it
happens.wink
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Nov 7, 2006 4:41 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
Tumpa
TumpaTumpaottawa, Ontario Canada88 Threads 7,091 Posts
Give yourself a limit, count yourself as limited.

31? Seriously, I had the best time of my life at in and around age 32 so stop getting all boo-hoo-hoo about what is not happening. It'll happen when it is supposed to happen and when the universe says so. Let it be like that.

The more you force it, the more you pour on desperation, the more people will shy away from you. The woman who is confident, outgoing, dynamic isn't into the "poor me" thing and never will be. That was written in stone or at least painted in the cave a long time ago.....She wants the strong and able man...be that and it will get you everywhere...
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Nov 7, 2006 4:43 PM CST A question for everyone in connecting singles
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
thumbs up banana
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