No need to say, all women are intelligent and calculative,.. but why almost all of them are heart broken.. why do they get into relationships that are so oviously wrong for them and when the relationship fails, they cry out loud in saying that men are bad, they were cheated, he left me for another woman..etc.. why do they start such a relationship to begin with? some say, thet need drama anyway... and some say, they don't have the ability to see the man through.. they fall for the looks and the sweet talking... in that case...who's to blame? women ? or the men they have chosen?
Cause some men are players, they do and tell us all the sweet things we like just to get us, then you show your true colours and hurt us. It's not all about us choosing the wrong man, sometimes it's the man skilled in deceiving us. They take advantage of our good heart and loving nature and stomp on it to get what they want and don't give 2 chits they hurt us.
And don't men ever choose the wrong woman? Why is it the woman always chooses the wrong men? It's a stupid statement anyway. No one wants to chose the wrong person.
cloud747: No need to say, all women are intelligent and calculative,.. but why almost all of them are heart broken.. why do they get into relationships that are so oviously wrong for them and when the relationship fails, they cry out loud in saying that men are bad, they were cheated, he left me for another woman..etc.. why do they start such a relationship to begin with? some say, thet need drama anyway... and some say, they don't have the ability to see the man through.. they fall for the looks and the sweet talking... in that case...who's to blame? women ? or the men they have chosen?
What is wrong with developing relationships? Unfortunately, they don ´t always work out the way one or other of the parties would wish. If either one is not honest, then creeps in the mistrust and the consequent anguish. But that should not deter anyone from reaching out. Communication and awareness are vital.
cloud747: No need to say, all women are intelligent and calculative,.. but why almost all of them are heart broken.. why do they get into relationships that are so oviously wrong for them and when the relationship fails, they cry out loud in saying that men are bad, they were cheated, he left me for another woman..etc.. why do they start such a relationship to begin with? some say, thet need drama anyway... and some say, they don't have the ability to see the man through.. they fall for the looks and the sweet talking... in that case...who's to blame? women ? or the men they have chosen?
cloud747: No need to say, all women are intelligent and calculative,.. but why almost all of them are heart broken.. why do they get into relationships that are so oviously wrong for them and when the relationship fails, they cry out loud in saying that men are bad, they were cheated, he left me for another woman..etc.. why do they start such a relationship to begin with? some say, thet need drama anyway... and some say, they don't have the ability to see the man through.. they fall for the looks and the sweet talking... in that case...who's to blame? women ? or the men they have chosen?
musicfreak: Cause some men are players, they do and tell us all the sweet things we like just to get us, then you show your true colours and hurt us. It's not all about us choosing the wrong man, sometimes it's the man skilled in deceiving us. They take advantage of our good heart and loving nature and stomp on it to get what they want and don't give 2 chits they hurt us.
And don't men ever choose the wrong woman? Why is it the woman always chooses the wrong men? It's a stupid statement anyway. No one wants to chose the wrong person.
Well Said.....they try their hardest to make you fall for them....and when you eventually open your heart to them, its not what they wanted...??? Men just dont know what they want or dont want. :-)
musicfreak: Cause some men are players, they do and tell us all the sweet things we like just to get us, then you show your true colours and hurt us. It's not all about us choosing the wrong man, sometimes it's the man skilled in deceiving us. They take advantage of our good heart and loving nature and stomp on it to get what they want and don't give 2 chits they hurt us.
And don't men ever choose the wrong woman? Why is it the woman always chooses the wrong men? It's a stupid statement anyway. No one wants to chose the wrong person.
dee048: Well Said.....they try their hardest to make you fall for them....and when you eventually open your heart to them, its not what they wanted...??? Men just dont know what they want or dont want. :-)
excuse me but you are the one who believe them,u r not a kid..u can use ur logic..
I am not heartbroken ... I am happy I dont hate men, I love them I dont give any credence to 'Blame' because there are two sides to every story and if you take the word Blame out of a discussion and replace it with Reason then you can generally understand people better. There are many people out there who have been hurt or betrayed but I do not believe their partners purposefully set out to damage them; those partners had issues or were unhappy themselves and the relationship failed. We are all responsible for our own happiness and as life is pretty short, we should be concentrating on our next steps towards fulfilment and not brooding on a sad and sorry event in our past
cloud747: No need to say, all women are intelligent and calculative,.. but why almost all of them are heart broken.. why do they get into relationships that are so oviously wrong for them and when the relationship fails, they cry out loud in saying that men are bad, they were cheated, he left me for another woman..etc.. why do they start such a relationship to begin with? some say, thet need drama anyway... and some say, they don't have the ability to see the man through.. they fall for the looks and the sweet talking... in that case...who's to blame? women ? or the men they have chosen?
Wow!! going by your comment... It appears that I am to blame for not seeing through a man... most I have dated are tossers and I saw through those, but the one that I was married too... never saw it coming .. 20 years to bloody late but I guess I married him knowing his warts and all, what I didn't expect was to find out he was cheating in the later part of marriage .. something about this particular culture being more accepting and accomadating... yeah lap top dancing in the pubs/clubs etc... very accomadating I would say...lol but generally speaking... who knows... you accept people at face value until proven otherwise...
Undcvr_RebelKingswood, New South Wales Australia31 Posts
Undcvr_RebelKingswood, New South Wales Australia31 posts
Jantie: I am not heartbroken ... I am happy I dont hate men, I love them I dont give any credence to 'Blame' because there are two sides to every story and if you take the word Blame out of a discussion and replace it with Reason then you can generally understand people better. There are many people out there who have been hurt or betrayed but I do not believe their partners purposefully set out to damage them; those partners had issues or were unhappy themselves and the relationship failed. We are all responsible for our own happiness and as life is pretty short, we should be concentrating on our next steps towards fulfilment and not brooding on a sad and sorry event in our past
cloud747: No need to say, all women are intelligent and calculative,.. but why almost all of them are heart broken.. why do they get into relationships that are so oviously wrong for them and when the relationship fails, they cry out loud in saying that men are bad, they were cheated, he left me for another woman..etc.. why do they start such a relationship to begin with? some say, thet need drama anyway... and some say, they don't have the ability to see the man through.. they fall for the looks and the sweet talking... in that case...who's to blame? women ? or the men they have chosen?
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but why almost all of them are heart broken.. why do they get into relationships that are so oviously wrong for them and when the relationship fails, they cry out loud in saying that men are bad, they were cheated, he left me for another woman..etc..
why do they start such a relationship to begin with?
some say, thet need drama anyway...
and some say, they don't have the ability to see the man through.. they fall for the looks and the sweet talking...
in that case...who's to blame? women ? or the men they have chosen?