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May 14, 2012 1:10 PM CST I love a married man
ladyvmp
ladyvmpladyvmpRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 11 Posts
i am 27years old and the married man i love is 35years old.
they've been married since 2008 and my relation with him is now 2years already.

i always fight with him and get mad on him without any reasons because i just felt insecure about his wife.

i quit, i broke up with him but still my heart tells me that i cant live without him. Many times i asked him to leave me alone and sit me free but his not responding on me.

i know he loves me, i meet his family and they accept me. i can see that his family is not in good terms with his wife, i did not ask any reasons on that cause that is personal and i respect that.

but the feelings of hurt and jealous i have because of this issue that he is married.

i want to be with him forever but in every i open that topic he just keep saying we are going on that but not know. I ask what is his reason and its only simple that he wants to transfer his company and got the best salary and we can be together as what he said.
i dont get what he is trying to say. What is my connection on his company and his salary.

This day, i broke up with him, and i called him but he is not answering my calls even my texts.
and there is a big fight we had before we broke up, 25May is his upcoming birthday so i prepare the ingredients to cook cause he said he wants to get party with his friends. and i said ok i will cook for you and to your friends but after tomorrow i want to see you and spend one whole day with you. we already agree on that.
suddenly he change his mind and said we cannot see each other because maybe he will not woke up cause for sure he will be drunk.

Please, give me some advice what to do.
Is it ok to continue my relation with him?
Or do i have to stop it?
But i dont know how to give up...
i need help...
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May 14, 2012 1:14 PM CST I love a married man
billyj1
billyj1billyj1Sydney, New South Wales Australia12 Threads 2 Polls 801 Posts
ladyvmp: i am 27years old and the married man i love is 35years old.
they've been married since 2008 and my relation with him is now 2years already.

i always fight with him and get mad on him without any reasons because i just felt insecure about his wife.

i quit, i broke up with him but still my heart tells me that i cant live without him. Many times i asked him to leave me alone and sit me free but his not responding on me.

i know he loves me, i meet his family and they accept me. i can see that his family is not in good terms with his wife, i did not ask any reasons on that cause that is personal and i respect that.

but the feelings of hurt and jealous i have because of this issue that he is married.

i want to be with him forever but in every i open that topic he just keep saying we are going on that but not know. I ask what is his reason and its only simple that he wants to transfer his company and got the best salary and we can be together as what he said.
i dont get what he is trying to say. What is my connection on his company and his salary.

This day, i broke up with him, and i called him but he is not answering my calls even my texts.
and there is a big fight we had before we broke up, 25May is his upcoming birthday so i prepare the ingredients to cook cause he said he wants to get party with his friends. and i said ok i will cook for you and to your friends but after tomorrow i want to see you and spend one whole day with you. we already agree on that.
suddenly he change his mind and said we cannot see each other because maybe he will not woke up cause for sure he will be drunk.

Please, give me some advice what to do.
Is it ok to continue my relation with him?
Or do i have to stop it?
But i dont know how to give up...
i need help...


You should stop as this man is already taken. So get yourself a single man. (I'm free if you like :) )
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May 14, 2012 1:17 PM CST I love a married man
ladyvmp
ladyvmpladyvmpRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 11 Posts
its hard to get into long distance relationship. So thank you...
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May 14, 2012 1:21 PM CST I love a married man
billyj1
billyj1billyj1Sydney, New South Wales Australia12 Threads 2 Polls 801 Posts
ladyvmp: its hard to get into long distance relationship. So thank you...


Yeah ok.... I'll take it as a complement
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May 14, 2012 1:27 PM CST I love a married man
ladyvmp
ladyvmpladyvmpRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 11 Posts
thank you... i just love him and i dont know what to do now. i know he loves me too, more than his wife. i can feel that but the problem is i am insecure.
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May 14, 2012 1:29 PM CST I love a married man
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
ladyvmp: i am 27years old and the married man i love is 35years old.
they've been married since 2008 and my relation with him is now 2years already.

i always fight with him and get mad on him without any reasons because i just felt insecure about his wife.

i quit, i broke up with him but still my heart tells me that i cant live without him. Many times i asked him to leave me alone and sit me free but his not responding on me.

i know he loves me, i meet his family and they accept me. i can see that his family is not in good terms with his wife, i did not ask any reasons on that cause that is personal and i respect that.

but the feelings of hurt and jealous i have because of this issue that he is married.

i want to be with him forever but in every i open that topic he just keep saying we are going on that but not know. I ask what is his reason and its only simple that he wants to transfer his company and got the best salary and we can be together as what he said.
i dont get what he is trying to say. What is my connection on his company and his salary.

This day, i broke up with him, and i called him but he is not answering my calls even my texts.
and there is a big fight we had before we broke up, 25May is his upcoming birthday so i prepare the ingredients to cook cause he said he wants to get party with his friends. and i said ok i will cook for you and to your friends but after tomorrow i want to see you and spend one whole day with you. we already agree on that.
suddenly he change his mind and said we cannot see each other because maybe he will not woke up cause for sure he will be drunk.

Please, give me some advice what to do.
Is it ok to continue my relation with him?
Or do i have to stop it?
But i dont know how to give up...
i need help...
there are at least 3 people in your relaionship, not two, who knows there could be more that you don't know about.
Do you think he loves you?
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May 14, 2012 1:32 PM CST I love a married man
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland131 Threads 7 Polls 11,475 Posts
ladyvmp: thank you... i just love him and i dont know what to do now. i know he loves me too, more than his wife. i can feel that but the problem is i am insecure.


Of course you are insecure. He is married to another woman which also makes demands on his time and his emotions.

Hard to see any good coming of you staying together.

bouquet
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May 14, 2012 1:35 PM CST I love a married man
ladyvmp
ladyvmpladyvmpRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 11 Posts
almera03- yes i know he always says he loves me and even his friends says he really loves me. If he dont have the wife maybe the two of us is now married. He always says that he wishes that his wife should be me but i am so late coming in his life. I do not regret having relation with him and loving him, cause i know one day God will find a way for it. But i dont know when and how.
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May 14, 2012 1:39 PM CST I love a married man
ladyvmp
ladyvmpladyvmpRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 11 Posts
ZAKER - i want to do that not to call or text him, but do you think he will miss me? as what i miss him? Im hoping he can feel my absence if i will be gone.
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May 14, 2012 1:40 PM CST I love a married man
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
It seems you aren't concern at all that he is cheating on his wife, and you been his mistress.confused
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May 14, 2012 1:44 PM CST I love a married man
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
ladyvmp: almera03- yes i know he always says he loves me and even his friends says he really loves me. If he dont have the wife maybe the two of us is now married. He always says that he wishes that his wife should be me but i am so late coming in his life. I do not regret having relation with him and loving him, cause i know one day God will find a way for it. But i dont know when and how.
saying you love someone is easy, people say it every day and not mean it. He'll say it to his wife too. Isn't a part of love, respect, is he showing to be a respectfull man, an honest man, one to be trusted? Can you really trust in the words he speaks, lies are what he is living by now, to you, to his wife and who knows who else too. What will happen when you are sick, will he come and nurse you, I doubt it, will he even visit, again I doubt it, someone on the side who is ill is no fun. Are the highs you get worth more than the lows? How much are you hurting yourself knopwing the type of relationship you are in....

I'm not expecting answers, they are questions for you to honestly answer yourself, and not in a fairy tale, happy ever after kind of way.
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May 14, 2012 1:51 PM CST I love a married man
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
ladyvmp: almera03- yes i know he always says he loves me and even his friends says he really loves me. If he dont have the wife maybe the two of us is now married. He always says that he wishes that his wife should be me but i am so late coming in his life. I do not regret having relation with him and loving him, cause i know one day God will find a way for it. But i dont know when and how.


And what if his wife is also busy praying to her God for her marriage to survive ? Who wins ? or do the two prayers cancel each other out perhaps.

Regarding your question on the money. He may be in the process of transferring the ownership of his company so that he has no assets for his wife to claim half of. That should cheer you up a bit.
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May 14, 2012 1:54 PM CST I love a married man
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
ladyvmp: i am 27years old and the married man i love is 35years old.
they've been married since 2008 and my relation with him is now 2years already.

i always fight with him and get mad on him without any reasons because i just felt insecure about his wife.

i quit, i broke up with him but still my heart tells me that i cant live without him. Many times i asked him to leave me alone and sit me free but his not responding on me.

i know he loves me, i meet his family and they accept me. i can see that his family is not in good terms with his wife, i did not ask any reasons on that cause that is personal and i respect that.

but the feelings of hurt and jealous i have because of this issue that he is married.

i want to be with him forever but in every i open that topic he just keep saying we are going on that but not know. I ask what is his reason and its only simple that he wants to transfer his company and got the best salary and we can be together as what he said.
i dont get what he is trying to say. What is my connection on his company and his salary.

This day, i broke up with him, and i called him but he is not answering my calls even my texts.
and there is a big fight we had before we broke up, 25May is his upcoming birthday so i prepare the ingredients to cook cause he said he wants to get party with his friends. and i said ok i will cook for you and to your friends but after tomorrow i want to see you and spend one whole day with you. we already agree on that.
suddenly he change his mind and said we cannot see each other because maybe he will not woke up cause for sure he will be drunk.

Please, give me some advice what to do.
Is it ok to continue my relation with him?
Or do i have to stop it?
But i dont know how to give up...
i need help...

You should make him a sacher cake for his birthday and don`t worry, this world ain`t perfect...laugh

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May 14, 2012 1:55 PM CST I love a married man
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
RDM59: And what if his wife is also busy praying to her God for her marriage to survive ? Who wins ? or do the two prayers cancel each other out perhaps.

Regarding your question on the money. He may be in the process of transferring the ownership of his company so that he has no assets for his wife to claim half of. That should cheer you up a bit.
I know someone, lets say a family friend, who done something similar, then he dumped his wife, his lover and fled to Italy with someone else.
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May 14, 2012 2:00 PM CST I love a married man
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Any news of your friend been a member of the Kazanova club in Italy????
almera03: I know someone, lets say a family friend, who done something similar, then he dumped his wife, his lover and fled to Italy with someone else.
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May 14, 2012 2:02 PM CST I love a married man
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
professor

He is cheating on his wife. He will also cheat on you.
Anyone want to make some bets here ? handshake
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May 14, 2012 2:06 PM CST I love a married man
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Jeeepers: He is cheating on his wife. He will also cheat on you.
Anyone want to make some bets here ?

20 bucks...uh oh
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May 14, 2012 2:08 PM CST I love a married man
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
chris27292729: Any news of your friend been a member of the Kazanova club in Italy????
Nope, and the wierd thing is, he eventually dumped the third one and is back with the wife......
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May 14, 2012 2:09 PM CST I love a married man
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
On unfaithfulnesslaugh
Boban1: 20 bucks...
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May 14, 2012 2:09 PM CST I love a married man
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
Boban1: 20 bucks...
cheers Nah....I don't want to take your money. Nice offer though.
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