Kristia49: I'm 50 and still lookin, you'll be waiting for awhile.
It's a mystery to me, too. Yet, there are countless stories of people meeting, getting married right away, and it lasts 60 or 70 years. There's just no rhyme or reason to it--and other times a couple can know each other 5 or 6 or more years before marrying, and in less than a year can't stand each other. Love is a crap shoot--no guarantees, no itineraries, no formulas for success. You get lucky or you don't.
Kristia49: I'm 50 and still lookin, you'll be waiting for awhile.
It's a mystery to me, too. Yet, there are countless stories of people meeting, getting married right away, and it lasts 60 or 70 years. There's just no rhyme or reason to it--and other times a couple can know each other 5 or 6 or more years before marrying, and in less than a year can't stand each other. Love is a crap shoot--no guarantees, no itineraries, no formulas for success. You get lucky or you don't.
Boban1: I guess it comes with ages of disappointments and frustrations
Hi Boban--you are on to something here. I like to believe that I haven't thrown in the towel on seeing the good in people, but it does become a challenge after dealing with legions of dickheads.
jenhs: Tony...True love does exist very much so, and when you find it,you will know!! Lot of people today does not know it and/or the meaning of the word. Hope you find it!!!
looks like most men do not believe in love their mind is set
galrads: Yeah, well, In my opinion, I think True Love has to be Free Energy........
I think unconditional love is probably it.
Trouble is most of us attach conditions to our loving a partner: he/she must do or not do this or that or I´ll take my love elsewhere. End of "true" love!!
Not many of us are capable of loving "just because" and not attaching ANY conditions to it when it comes to couple relationships.
EagleWoman: I think unconditional love is probably it.
Trouble is most of us attach conditions to our loving a partner: he/she must do or not do this or that or I´ll take my love elsewhere. End of "true" love!!
Not many of us are capable of loving "just because" and not attaching ANY conditions to it when it comes to couple relationships.
That may be because most people have an agenda, what and how a partner should be and act, rather than accepting them for who they are.
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