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May 28, 2012 10:15 AM CST i wish he talks with me
Zebaztian
ZebaztianZebaztianOslo, Norway9 Threads 1 Polls 278 Posts
EagleWoman: The angel was meant for you both not necesseraly as a couple to be, but as a watcher for everything to be as it should, whatever that may be


Ok, thanks for that EagleWoman. You have a good spirit.
snowglobe
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Jun 21, 2012 5:25 AM CST i wish he talks with me
camxucdirong
camxucdirongcamxucdirongNha Trang, Southcentral Coast Vietnam5 Threads 218 Posts
Zebaztian: For me the dialogue and a communicational sense of ethics is the most important in a relation. Both with a partner and with a friend.

There are a lot of women that contacts me, ordinary to very pretty. But for me it's important with intellect and spirituality.
I don't want to break anyones heart, but for me there is reason within the phrames of love.
Love is not only blind...or?


love is blind when you let your feeling control your mind. Put it in balance, it will be betterpurple heart
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Jun 21, 2012 8:08 AM CST i wish he talks with me
almera03: at 06.20 (which it is now) and having been awake all night......

I don't even know my own name!


You have a few choices

a) you mail him

b) you don't

We are on a dating site, we all face rejection (obviously it doesn't happen to me often) life does go on afterwards the sky will not come crashing down.



thumbs up good sensible post! I have been sky watching since many of our members have been in diapers, been rejected and accepted - whatevah peeps! life goes on and I've never seen the sky so much as hint at crashing down in all these years!

To the OP a lot of it comes down to how important it is to you...we go through different things in life - not at all times has having a partner been my priority - like now - I have some other concerns- so if it happens fine - if it doesn't'? also fine

but at that time that I feel a little more settled I would pay more attention to mails etc....SOOOOOOOOoooooooooooo if it's important to you go for it - actions speak loudest
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Jun 21, 2012 8:17 AM CST i wish he talks with me
Zebaztian: I hope you understand that I just replied to her interest, which doesn't mean that I'm interested. I think that politeness to reply to someone should be a standard. Not always, because then I would be busy replying to all people that contacted me.
And that's a part of being on internet and especially on website that offer the possibility for people to establish a contact.


hmmmm I find this interesting coming from you. people can be so hypocritical sometimes. We have no personal interest in each other, however, you asked me for information on something in another thread. I replied to your mail because the question you asked had a lengthy answer and it was way off topic. I did not expect a personal reply, but a thank you - either on the thread or in mail would have been a nice gesture.

I spent far more time than I usually do on here to answer the question you asked in the spirit of sharing something about my country with someone who may never have the chance to visit it. It would have taken 10 seconds to say thank you. Please don't bother now. I only mention it because of the above you posted.
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Jun 21, 2012 9:42 AM CST i wish he talks with me
Zebaztian
ZebaztianZebaztianOslo, Norway9 Threads 1 Polls 278 Posts
felixis99: hmmmm I find this interesting coming from you. people can be so hypocritical sometimes. We have no personal interest in each other, however, you asked me for information on something in another thread. I replied to your mail because the question you asked had a lengthy answer and it was way off topic. I did not expect a personal reply, but a thank you - either on the thread or in mail would have been a nice gesture.

I spent far more time than I usually do on here to answer the question you asked in the spirit of sharing something about my country with someone who may never have the chance to visit it. It would have taken 10 seconds to say thank you. Please don't bother now. I only mention it because of the above you posted.


Hi, if I would answer every mail I would be busy replying to all people all the time that contacted me. And I never asked you to send me an email and because that information you did send me you could have posted here. It's not that I'm interested in what you wrote, but if you get a lot of mails in your inbox every day, you maybe don't have the time to answer them all, and you think...ok I will come back to that and answer it, then the mail goes further down in the inbox and you forget about it. I also have mails to answer in Gmail, Faebook, Skype...SMS and so on....
Then I have a lot of contact with my dear in Vietnam, so if I don't answer every message it's nothing wrong these days. I don't even have the time to do it if a friend send me a message on Facebook.
I have no idea og how your life is, when it comes to communication via mail and social media, but you have to consider that time isn't always enough...

Take care!
purple heart
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Jun 21, 2012 9:23 PM CST i wish he talks with me
Zebaztian: Hi, if I would answer every mail I would be busy replying to all people all the time that contacted me. And I never asked you to send me an email and because that information you did send me you could have posted here. It's not that I'm interested in what you wrote, but if you get a lot of mails in your inbox every day, you maybe don't have the time to answer them all, and you think...ok I will come back to that and answer it, then the mail goes further down in the inbox and you forget about it. I also have mails to answer in Gmail, Faebook, Skype...SMS and so on....
Then I have a lot of contact with my dear in Vietnam, so if I don't answer every message it's nothing wrong these days. I don't even have the time to do it if a friend send me a message on Facebook.
I have no idea og how your life is, when it comes to communication via mail and social media, but you have to consider that time isn't always enough...

Take care!


I still think it was rude - water under the dam now - I do not agree with anything you have said tho I respect your right to your opinion. I am fine to just let it go. Good luck with your relationship
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