I’m currently pregnant ( Archived) (23)

May 29, 2012 7:51 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
I will be twenty one in June and I’m currently four months pregnant. The physical effect that pregnancy had me the first few months were awful. Not only was I vomiting, I was vomiting continuously. I took many trips to my local hospital because I was dehydrated; I could not keep anything down. IV’s were given often and I was also proscribed zofran.

Physically I’m doing better. Now I face the obstacle of making sure my mental health is in tack and analyzing my priorities, which will be taking care of my child. It will be my responsibility to nourish and provide everything for my newborn . The baby will need me for everything.

I also want to set a good example and all this plastic surgery business could effect the way my child grows up. I’m wondering if I should call it quits and just try to be content with myself. I don’t want my child to grow up with a mother who hates herself, or who just isn’t satisfied with life.
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May 29, 2012 7:53 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
I want my child to bring me Joy, and I know he or she will. I also want to bring the baby joy too.
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May 29, 2012 7:53 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
I want my child to bring me Joy, and I know he or she will. I also want to bring the baby joy too.
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May 30, 2012 1:51 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
ForestofArden: I will be twenty one in June and I’m currently four months pregnant. The physical effect that pregnancy had me the first few months were awful. Not only was I vomiting, I was vomiting continuously. I took many trips to my local hospital because I was dehydrated; I could not keep anything down. IV’s were given often and I was also proscribed zofran.

Physically I’m doing better. Now I face the obstacle of making sure my mental health is in tack and analyzing my priorities, which will be taking care of my child. It will be my responsibility to nourish and provide everything for my newborn . The baby will need me for everything.



I also want to set a good example and all this plastic surgery business could effect the way my child grows up. I’m wondering if I should call it quits and just try to be content with myself. I don’t want my child to grow up with a mother who hates herself, or who just isn’t satisfied with life.


What plastic surgery business -

A baby needs a mum that is there emotionally, physically and physically - your child does not care what you look like, sound like -
your child depends on you to be the best person you are

forget the blasted surgery etc., have your children, if you want exercise take your child out in the pram, or join a gym later, watch what you eat, everything in moderation... My gawd girl, your 21 wait until you are in your 40's etc., post having children to worry about regaining your youth... Heaven forbid, I would throttle my 21 daughter if she thought like you... Have you no woman in your life that you can talk too??? bouquet
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May 30, 2012 6:13 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
bubbles2012: What plastic surgery business -

A baby needs a mum that is there emotionally, physically and physically - your child does not care what you look like, sound like -
your child depends on you to be the best person you are

forget the blasted surgery etc., have your children, if you want exercise take your child out in the pram, or join a gym later, watch what you eat, everything in moderation... My gawd girl, your 21 wait until you are in your 40's etc., post having children to worry about regaining your youth... Heaven forbid, I would throttle my 21 daughter if she thought like you... Have you no woman in your life that you can talk too???

Oi!!!scold laugh

<----- 40+ with 5 kids! snooty

Gotta agree though, forget the surgery, it leaves scars... just move a bit more if it's weight you're worried about. If it's facial, you'll grow into it and before you know it you'll have completely accepted yourself.
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May 30, 2012 6:36 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
Oi!!!

<----- 40+ with 5 kids!

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hmmm Likes a bit of lovin..makes a note of thatwriting


only joking Lib laugh

wine
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May 30, 2012 6:39 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
uptall: Oi!!!

<----- 40+ with 5 kids!

quote] Likes a bit of lovin..makes a note of thatonly joking Lib
laugh
Indeed I do.

Tis a bit on the scarce side at the mo.... and this 'mo' is starting to stretch into an era sigh
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May 30, 2012 6:48 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
70Libra: Indeed I do.

Tis a bit on the scarce side at the mo.... and this 'mo' is starting to stretch into an era



Awhug

I can only think you must be very picky..can't see another reason for itangel

dunno
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May 30, 2012 6:52 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
uptall: Aw

I can only think you must be very picky..can't see another reason for it

Geography.

Or at least that's what I tell myself.
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May 30, 2012 6:53 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
ForestofArden: I want my child to bring me Joy, and I know he or she will. I also want to bring the baby joy too.

What plastic surgery had you in mind?
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May 30, 2012 6:55 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
70Libra: Geography.

Or at least that's what I tell myself.


Well maybe you should get one of thesetransport pointing.....
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May 30, 2012 12:09 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
70Libra: Oi!!!

<----- 40+ with 5 kids!

Gotta agree though, forget the surgery, it leaves scars... just move a bit more if it's weight you're worried about. If it's facial, you'll grow into it and before you know it you'll have completely accepted yourself.


Late 40's with 4 children -

But seriously, your hormones are whacked out - what you really need to do is to sit down with a woman who you trust and talk this through - because making decisions while pregnant, is not the wisest of moves...
Trust me - I do know what I am talking about -

I wish you all the very best.... and good luck....teddybear bouquet
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May 30, 2012 6:30 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Kaaaaayyyy uh oh
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May 31, 2012 5:38 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
I already had some done a while ago. I think I should stop though, I dont want it to get out of hand.
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May 31, 2012 5:39 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
ForestofArden
ForestofArdenForestofArdenShakopee, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
That was before I was pregnant.
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May 31, 2012 5:50 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
It's no longer all about you, you will have a child that should come first.
Hateing yourself will only offer the child the same hate for you, so be careful what you think of yourself.
Be selfless to the child and the child will return in kind.
jmho
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Jun 1, 2012 11:37 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: It's no longer all about you, you will have a child that should come first.
Hateing yourself will only offer the child the same hate for you, so be careful what you think of yourself.
Be selfless to the child and the child will return in kind.
jmho


Good advice Nakedmudd handshake thumbs up wine
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Jun 9, 2012 5:55 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
Iseek
IseekIseekWaterford, Ireland2 Threads 455 Posts
70Libra: Oi!!!

<----- 40+ with 5 kids!

Gotta agree though, forget the surgery, it leaves scars... just move a bit more if it's weight you're worried about. If it's facial, you'll grow into it and before you know it you'll have completely accepted yourself.


My mum used to say things like that,

Mum my ears are big, Reply:: Shut up, be grateful you have ears??laugh

2nd reply, Anyway you will grow into them.. dunno
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Jun 9, 2012 8:08 AM CST I’m currently pregnant
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
ForestofArden: I want my child to bring me Joy, and I know he or she will. I also want to bring the baby joy too.




thumbs down Are you serious? It's not a child's responsibility to make you happy. I'm reading between the lines of your posts and it sounds to me that you have some psychological issues which IMO should have been taken care of before you got pregnant.

However, you are pregnant and I wish you and your baby a happy and fulfilling life..bouquet
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Jun 10, 2012 8:18 PM CST I’m currently pregnant
Chatonlyman
ChatonlymanChatonlymanNorth bay, Ontario Canada2 Threads 461 Posts
Maybe your just worried about bringing up a happy baby :)Nice
first of all babies are no trouble.They eat and sleep and need clean bums and like alot of good attention. You give your baby good attention and youll be rewarded with a happy kid.
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