PanthersKissMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA967 posts
Well I am sure many of the ladies have their heart melting away....you know a guy with long hair is very attractive...but it's your personality that shines.
I put a note with my name and phone number on it into spmeones pocket without him knowing. When he found it he called. Ended up married to him for 25 yrs.
EnigmaticExistncSouthCoast, British Columbia Canada802 posts
If its a man I'm just flirting with then it might be perceived as "friendly"...that's ok.
If its someone I'm interested in then there is eye contact, touching him on the arm or shoulder, and willingness to move/lean into his "personal" space.
And if after all of that he still seems perplexed I'll outright suggest/recommend we go somewhere to be alone.... if he STILL doesn't get it ..... I know he's GAY
Seriously, though, if I like someone I think its pretty clear.
In the 12th grade of High School a girl told me she tried to get my attention through out the year. She had like 2 diff b/f's too. She said she "walked in front of me" and I should of noticed. Pssh. But yeah we dated for 2 weeks and she broke up with me b/c I wouldn't quit smoking.
Umm...I've never had to really "do" anything to get a man's attention. But, if I want a particular man's attention at a particular time, I've found that "Hi" usually works.
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So ladies if you don't mind sharing...
AB