A CS Member Is Hurting ( Archived) (33)

Jun 16, 2012 1:12 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
If you don't want to read the whole thread, please read the last comment I posted. Then you'll know why I did the second thread.

Thank you...

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Jun 16, 2012 1:21 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
sad flower sad flower sad flower
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Jun 16, 2012 1:25 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Ur_Knight
Ur_KnightUr_KnightWindsor, Ontario Canada10 Threads 2,176 Posts
sad flower
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Jun 16, 2012 1:30 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
lachicabonita
lachicabonitalachicabonitacounting days to DE, Jakarta Indonesia204 Posts
sad flower
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Jun 16, 2012 1:32 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
group hug for you and yours.
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Jun 16, 2012 1:40 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Nessa7
Nessa7Nessa7Vulpine's Heart, Cork Ireland8 Threads 1 Polls 1,934 Posts
That is very sad ... My love and sympathy to Cruiser sad flower group hug
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Jun 16, 2012 2:01 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Zebaztian
ZebaztianZebaztianOslo, Norway9 Threads 1 Polls 278 Posts
sad flower
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Jun 16, 2012 2:05 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
someonesvoicejee
someonesvoicejeesomeonesvoicejeemumbai, Maharashtra India78 Threads 665 Posts
If you don't want to read the whole thread, please read the last comment I posted. Then you'll know why I did the second thread.

Thank you...

sad flower
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Jun 16, 2012 2:05 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
someonesvoicejee
someonesvoicejeesomeonesvoicejeemumbai, Maharashtra India78 Threads 665 Posts
If you don't want to read the whole thread, please read the last comment I posted. Then you'll know why I did the second thread.

Thank you...

sad flower
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Jun 16, 2012 3:01 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Cruiser blues

teddybear
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Jun 16, 2012 3:08 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Iseek
IseekIseekWaterford, Ireland2 Threads 455 Posts
Terrible..sad flower sad flower
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Jun 16, 2012 3:18 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Iseek: Terrible..


Each time I read a condolence for Crusier, it brings tears to my eyes.

I'm not sure how long Cruiser has been a CS member but I think it's sad that none of us knew the pain he is going through. It's nobody's fault. It just goes to show that sometimes we hide the things that are most painful.

Cruiser is sleeping now....he's from Australia...I'm sure he will get back to you with his appreciation.angel
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Jun 16, 2012 3:25 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
I dont think i knew....this member........but i support his actions.never the less.............may the law show kindness....towards this man......handshake handshake handshake
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Jun 16, 2012 3:42 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Susanne1
Susanne1Susanne1Kreuzberg, Berlin Germany7 Threads 2 Polls 437 Posts
montemonte: If you don't want to read the whole thread, please read the last comment I posted. Then you'll know why I did the second thread.

Thank you...



No offence, but I always worry that these threads, that draw attention to someone else's hurt, may cause more damage to the person whose personal life is dragged out in the open, than they do good.

I am very sorry about what happened, but to be honest, I am sure my words will make no difference to the person in question. Neither will anyone else's.
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Jun 16, 2012 3:51 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
sad flower Bless you Cruiser
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Jun 16, 2012 4:54 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Susanne1: No offence, but I always worry that these threads, that draw attention to someone else's hurt, may cause more damage to the person whose personal life is dragged out in the open, than they do good.

I am very sorry about what happened, but to be honest, I am sure my words will make no difference to the person in question. Neither will anyone else's.




Let's get something clear:

1. The thread wasn't written to draw attention to someone's hurt. In fact, I didn't know what happened to his daughter when I wrote the thread.

2. Cruiser made a comment in the thread about "losing" his daughter so I contacted him in private email

3. He told me the story. I asked him if he wanted me to tell the CS community and HE SAID YES HE DID. So you see, he does need comforting.

4. If you want to know if he appreciates the kindness that was shown to him, maybe you should send him an email and tell him what's on your mind.
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Jun 16, 2012 5:25 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Susanne1: No offence, but I always worry that these threads, that draw attention to someone else's hurt, may cause more damage to the person whose personal life is dragged out in the open, than they do good.

I am very sorry about what happened, but to be honest, I am sure my words will make no difference to the person in question. Neither will anyone else's.


Who are you and how dare you think that anybody's else's words are not important?
I love and understand this man and pray to God you will never be able to relate to our understanding.
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Jun 16, 2012 5:28 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Who are you and how dare you think that anybody's else's words are not important?
I love and understand this man and pray to God you will never be able to relate to our understanding.


thumbs up I was quite shocked by what she said.
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Jun 16, 2012 5:51 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
It was a man I dated that abused my daughter.
I've been alone ever sinse.
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Jun 16, 2012 5:58 PM CST A CS Member Is Hurting
Susanne1
Susanne1Susanne1Kreuzberg, Berlin Germany7 Threads 2 Polls 437 Posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: Who are you and how dare you think that anybody's else's words are not important?
I love and understand this man and pray to God you will never be able to relate to our understanding.


Well, there's the trouble - I can relate.

I simply stated my opinion from my very personal point of view, based on my own experience. I'm sorry, if it offended you, but that's how I think.
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