olaix: She had something wrong with her ears and her brain. I am thinking that one of the most satisfactory thing I've done in my life was to kick her out.
He was a coward. After a year with him he just stopped calling. When I finally caught up with him he said he knew I wanted a committment and therefore "I ran, cause that's what I do". And that's after I gave him a huge amount of money. A gentleman would have said.....Thank you for everything. I know you want a committment but I'm not ready, etc. I'm sorry to hurt you but I'd rather tell you then just disappear......which is what he did.
So now there's a sign in hell that says....Reserved For ??????
After 2 years of relationship and being in love with each other,she and her mother started pushing me into marriege,and i had to leave her.Marriege is important for people in my country but i wasnt ready for that yet.
Leo_7: After 2 years of relationship and being in love with each other,she and her mother started pushing me into marriege,and i had to leave her.Marriege is important for people in my country but i wasnt ready for that yet.
It's sad but I agree with her mother maybe because women have a shelve life - if you are not going to marry her then she needs to find a husband and would be wasting her time being in love with you.... is that possible the thought here?
JeanKimberley: It's sad but I agree with her mother maybe because women have a shelve life - if you are not going to marry her then she needs to find a husband and would be wasting her time being in love with you.... is that possible the thought here?
yes,Jean.Its traditional here for young people to get married.if u see a man over 35 or 40 being single ,then people will see u not normal person. and every girl wants to get married,otherwise they'll not date if they'll think that their dates dont want marry her.And she was blaming that i dont love her,if i dont wanna get married with her. she wouldnt undrstand that i love her,just a not ready for marriege.
Leo_7: yes,Jean.Its traditional here for young people to get married.if u see a man over 35 or 40 being single ,then people will see u not normal person. and every girl wants to get married,otherwise they'll not date if they'll think that their dates dont want marry her.And she was blaming that i dont love her,if i dont wanna get married with her. she wouldnt undrstand that i love her,just a not ready for marriege.
It's a dilemma for men isn't it? Dating with the idea marriage in mind or just dating someone you love with no marriage in mind - one is good for the man, one is good for the women in a society that wants everyone married and part of a family.
JeanKimberley: It's a dilemma for men isn't it? Dating with the idea marriage in mind or just dating someone you love with no marriage in mind - one is good for the man, one is good for the women in a society that wants everyone married and part of a family.
yes,Jean,and having children after getting married is important too.i really dont want it yet
Leo_7: Desi,u done a right thing by leaving him.only stupid women would stay with alcohol or drug abuser.
That's not true. My husband was an alcoholic and I stayed with him for seven years. And after our divorce we were best friends. He wasn't a bad man, just a man that had alcohol dependency. We had a daughter and it was important to me to keep him as sober as possible so that he could see her. I pulled him out of many bars and took care of him when he got sick. And when he died, I felt the loss very deeply. That was 37 years ago and I still put flowers on his grave.
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