I'd like to learn from your cs experience (28)
I have seen it work,but you have to put a little effort into it.Stay positive,if the first few don't work keep trying,even in the real world you don't click with every one you meet do you? Love can't be rushed,in my opinion you need to become friends first then it grows into love and gets better over time.I think you can have instant attraction for someone,but that's not love is it?
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demonfairy: I have seen it work,but you have to put a little effort into it.Stay positive,if the first few don't work keep trying,even in the real world you don't click with every one you meet do you? Love can't be rushed,in my opinion you need to become friends first then it grows into love and gets better over time.I think you can have instant attraction for someone,but that's not love is it?
I'll quote this one. I agree with half your post (first one), disagree the other (from the love can't be rushed/friends first etc).
But that don't matter, as it's just different ways that both can lead to the goal (partner). I will try 'my' way first.
If that proves useless in the end i am open to different approaches. So i heard you and will keep it with me. Thank you
Let me just object on ONE point: "that's not love is it", no first you fall in love. Love should develope from there, rapidly. The solid rock takes longer though and that is natural.
I'm a 'hopeless' romantic. If that is a dying breed i'm proud to still be one.
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morgenulv: I'll quote this one. I agree with half your post (first one), disagree the other (from the love can't be rushed/friends first etc).
But that don't matter, as it's just different ways that both can lead to the goal (partner). I will try 'my' way first.
If that proves useless in the end i am open to different approaches. So i heard you and will keep it with me. Thank you
Let me just object on ONE point: "that's not love is it", no first you fall in love. Love should develope from there, rapidly. The solid rock takes longer though and that is natural.
I'm a 'hopeless' romantic. If that is a dying breed i'm proud to still be one.
But that don't matter, as it's just different ways that both can lead to the goal (partner). I will try 'my' way first.
If that proves useless in the end i am open to different approaches. So i heard you and will keep it with me. Thank you
Let me just object on ONE point: "that's not love is it", no first you fall in love. Love should develope from there, rapidly. The solid rock takes longer though and that is natural.
I'm a 'hopeless' romantic. If that is a dying breed i'm proud to still be one.
Morgen, the road to Love can be different for everyone, and what works for one, may not be the way for another.
From seeing you on the forums, your positivity and upbeat attitude shines through. Also, you seem to be levelheaded. What you are putting out, you will attract.
Like you, I'm on the journey and it can seem disheartening at times. But giving up is not an option.
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I second that Kaybee.
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This song is vaguely familiar. Thank you for sharing.
To bed I go. Good night.
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i guess i'm gonna repeat some things folks have already said.
be patient, and enjoy yourself while you're being patient....grin
i was on here long enough to actually stop looking and simply enjoy the friendships that i had made along the way, and enjoy the banter in the forums as well.
and then i met someone who far exceeded any dreams that i had previously had.
and i wouldn't worry about the male to female ratio either...
it doesn't matter how many 'others' there are when you meet the right one for you, coz they'll be looking at you, not the others.
i think folks are attracted to those who are genuine, so just be yourself.
and i gotta add...(and i've said this many times...lol)
one gets what they dwell on
so think about what it is you do want,
not what it is you don't want..
coz where you place your focus is going to effect where you land..
yanno?
be patient, and enjoy yourself while you're being patient....grin
i was on here long enough to actually stop looking and simply enjoy the friendships that i had made along the way, and enjoy the banter in the forums as well.
and then i met someone who far exceeded any dreams that i had previously had.
and i wouldn't worry about the male to female ratio either...
it doesn't matter how many 'others' there are when you meet the right one for you, coz they'll be looking at you, not the others.
i think folks are attracted to those who are genuine, so just be yourself.
and i gotta add...(and i've said this many times...lol)
one gets what they dwell on
so think about what it is you do want,
not what it is you don't want..
coz where you place your focus is going to effect where you land..
yanno?
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