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Merriweather: AA, its Ok , you chose Australia... and then you chose your suburb..
So its not hard... choose a suburb that is toffee enough to not have a lower socio economic people living in it...
You are just being stubborn to look further than what the media is pumping into your brain everyday. Decision you make today shape your future. How different is it to relationships we choose?So its not hard... choose a suburb that is toffee enough to not have a lower socio economic people living in it...
robplum: You could write a thank you for the book, i very much enjoyed reading it, would you like me to return it. AND i thought a relation girl/boy between us didn't feel right for me and i know that is not they way you felt but i have to listen to me feeling to.
Trusting you can understand
very best wishes
Merri
Trusting you can understand
very best wishes
Merri
I think what robplum said is sound advice Merri
Sometimes some common sense comes out of him.I'm just jokin robplum
was good advice 
My immediate reaction to this was 'if in doubt, don't' 
I feel that any response from you will be taken as a sign of interest merri, but I hope it all goes fine for you anyway
I feel that any response from you will be taken as a sign of interest merri, but I hope it all goes fine for you anyway
serene56: My immediate reaction to this was 'if in doubt, don't'
I feel that any response from you will be taken as a sign of interest merri, but I hope it all goes fine for you anyway
I feel that any response from you will be taken as a sign of interest merri, but I hope it all goes fine for you anyway
I'll second that - I always say 'go with your initial gut reaction'??
And you sound like you are not attracted to him in that way? He is looing for a lover, not a friend, so any communication might confuse him?
Your call Merri
serene56: My immediate reaction to this was 'if in doubt, don't'
I feel that any response from you will be taken as a sign of interest merri, but I hope it all goes fine for you anyway
I feel that any response from you will be taken as a sign of interest merri, but I hope it all goes fine for you anyway
Hooray Serene... you understand me perfectly...
I asked the audience because I dont want to be rude... but I dont want his interest either...
Thank you chick...
Merriweather: I want some opinions here please..
I talked about my recent venture into the dating world on another site.. anyway, as I posted, I just could not do it, so I pulled out, lost my dough, none of that matters... What is bothering me is this.
Out of my two coffee dates, one of them was a bloke who wrote a book about his life adventures, and he very kindly sent me a copy.. I received this copy before I turned him down... Anyway, I have finished reading this book today... I must admit... I really enjoyed the stories... very much... so
Do I ring and thank him for a good read, or not...?? He was a bit squashed that I accepted a date, and then legged out of it just before the time...
I talked about my recent venture into the dating world on another site.. anyway, as I posted, I just could not do it, so I pulled out, lost my dough, none of that matters... What is bothering me is this.
Out of my two coffee dates, one of them was a bloke who wrote a book about his life adventures, and he very kindly sent me a copy.. I received this copy before I turned him down... Anyway, I have finished reading this book today... I must admit... I really enjoyed the stories... very much... so
Do I ring and thank him for a good read, or not...?? He was a bit squashed that I accepted a date, and then legged out of it just before the time...
I think there is nothing wrong with ringing him to tell him you enjoyed the read as I'm sure he would appreciate any feedback on his book since that is what he was asking for. If the conversation turns in a different direction, you can always say that you still can't meet for coffee but you thought it would still be good to give your opinion on his book. Wish him well with his search. JMO
Larf75: I think there is nothing wrong with ringing him to tell him you enjoyed the read as I'm sure he would appreciate any feedback on his book since that is what he was asking for. If the conversation turns in a different direction, you can always say that you still can't meet for coffee but you thought it would still be good to give your opinion on his book. Wish him well with his search. JMO
Hello Loverly,
Thanks for your input...
Howz you? ... hope you n Jodie are well... and that all in good in the life of Larf...
Merriweather: Hooray Serene... you understand me perfectly...
I asked the audience because I dont want to be rude... but I dont want his interest either...
Thank you chick...
I asked the audience because I dont want to be rude... but I dont want his interest either...
Thank you chick...
You're welcome merri
AgentAjax: You are just being stubborn to look further than what the media is pumping into your brain everyday. Decision you make today shape your future. How different is it to relationships we choose?
Look here AA... first you swear at me...
Then you attempt to tell me I am being stubborn...
Go figure...
Merriweather: Look here AA... first you swear at me...
Then you attempt to tell me I am being stubborn...
Go figure...
All in the good days work.Then you attempt to tell me I am being stubborn...
Go figure...
You don’t think you deserved it? Over the last few months all you’ve been doing is throwing snipie remarks without any substance. “Women” the older they get the wiser they get but less bright. You are as pretensions as they get.
online today!online today!pisceslady7Kincumber nr. Gosford, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 4 Polls 1,910 PostsHi Merri,
Good manners dictates at least a thank you note for the book and leting him know how much you enjoyed reading it. You MAY also wish to apologise for not attending the date that was scheduled and just reassure him that you appreciated his company but did not wish to mislead him as you felt the chemistry was not there for taking things further.
A phone call can become awkward as you seem to get cold feet and a card lets you have time to really think what you wish to say.
I would not return the book as I would see that as offensive if I were in his shoes.
I wish you well Merri
Good manners dictates at least a thank you note for the book and leting him know how much you enjoyed reading it. You MAY also wish to apologise for not attending the date that was scheduled and just reassure him that you appreciated his company but did not wish to mislead him as you felt the chemistry was not there for taking things further.
A phone call can become awkward as you seem to get cold feet and a card lets you have time to really think what you wish to say.
I would not return the book as I would see that as offensive if I were in his shoes.
I wish you well Merri
helo merriweather...........yes i agree with most people here.........thank him for the book....offer to give it back..........remember that relationships do grow and it isnt always fireworks at the beginning..dont have expectations at the beginning ....then you wont be disappointed or disappoint the other person.........live life and perhaps make a new friend......wishing you good fortune
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AA, its Ok , you chose Australia... and then you chose your suburb..
So its not hard... choose a suburb that is toffee enough to not have a lower socio economic people living in it...