Why are we all here????? (47)
josingleinspain: Why did we not keep the love we had alive. Why do we give up on the love that we had. How do we allow it that love we once had run through our fingers like sand. Why do we say I love you when it is too late. Did you argue with your ex and now you do not even know why?????
Now we are on dating site's like this hoping to find love again when we did not care enough to hold on to the last love we had???????? Why do we want to find love again if the next time round we will have a fight again about who's the one that feeds the cats or take out the trash????? If we find love again will we give more, try harder, love harder, share more, listen more, understand more??????????????? Will we say I love you more and most of all will we show how much we love??????
who cares....whats with all the silly crap poles...
Do you ever wonder if the next time you will make it last forever. Will you still be that selfish person that just has to have it your way????? How many chances do we get to make it work?????
Now we are on dating site's like this hoping to find love again when we did not care enough to hold on to the last love we had???????? Why do we want to find love again if the next time round we will have a fight again about who's the one that feeds the cats or take out the trash????? If we find love again will we give more, try harder, love harder, share more, listen more, understand more??????????????? Will we say I love you more and most of all will we show how much we love??????
who cares....whats with all the silly crap poles...
Do you ever wonder if the next time you will make it last forever. Will you still be that selfish person that just has to have it your way????? How many chances do we get to make it work?????
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lots of question i don't have an answer to. I could try on the last one... Mom always told me, life gives us trials and challenges to learn from them. If you don't learn anything, it will happen over and over until you do.
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Love is something that is not thought about.
If there is thought, there are questions.
When there are no questions of thought, there is love.
jmho
peace on our Earth
If there is thought, there are questions.
When there are no questions of thought, there is love.
jmho
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lOVE isnot a cure...but the best medicine for everything!
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Random thoughts:
Them questions seems to imply that you feel it was your fault that the love ended. It is two sides to the love story and your partner might have been the cause to its end. How much are you willing to compromise to keep the love? Some people love a person and some people are in love with being in love.
It is never to late to say i love you.....the trick is to be able to forgive the person for doing you wrong, being unfaithful, not living up to your expectations or not understanding your issues.
we always tend to feel that our partner dont understand our needs but fail to recognice that we dont understand our partners needs.
Do people always look for the bigger better deal regardless of what they have? If they do then thats not good for long lasting love.
communication communication communication
Them questions seems to imply that you feel it was your fault that the love ended. It is two sides to the love story and your partner might have been the cause to its end. How much are you willing to compromise to keep the love? Some people love a person and some people are in love with being in love.
It is never to late to say i love you.....the trick is to be able to forgive the person for doing you wrong, being unfaithful, not living up to your expectations or not understanding your issues.
we always tend to feel that our partner dont understand our needs but fail to recognice that we dont understand our partners needs.
Do people always look for the bigger better deal regardless of what they have? If they do then thats not good for long lasting love.
communication communication communication
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No one want to lose the love. We meet each other and we love each other, after we find out something not match. But if we need each other and we try to keep each other, it will be ok. But if one of us think that they can find another best partner so the trouble will appear.
And after broke up, we are always have a scar in our mind. That's a reason why we are become a little selfish, we don't like to make hurt ourselves.
I thought a good way is we try to forget the past, and accept experience we have just get from the ex. No one perfect. If we are accept everything of them and try to resolve problem in relationship, I thought we can keep our love.
But in fact, nothing be easy to do. We are human, and we have feeling. Sometime feeling control ourselves and we will get mistake.
And after broke up, we are always have a scar in our mind. That's a reason why we are become a little selfish, we don't like to make hurt ourselves.
I thought a good way is we try to forget the past, and accept experience we have just get from the ex. No one perfect. If we are accept everything of them and try to resolve problem in relationship, I thought we can keep our love.
But in fact, nothing be easy to do. We are human, and we have feeling. Sometime feeling control ourselves and we will get mistake.
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minnie50: lOVE isnot a cure...but the best medicine for everything!
so true so true
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Have you ever tried, you and your past love,to give it,a resuscitaion kiss ???Meanig getting together again???
josingleinspain: Thanx for that yes I agree with all you said. Thank you for taking the time. I tend to think and rethink everything. I was wondering if others sometimes wonder about things like this.
It also has to be said that I know that each time we go into a relationship we do learn and as in life we should get better at it. I will not give up on finding the love again.
It also has to be said that I know that each time we go into a relationship we do learn and as in life we should get better at it. I will not give up on finding the love again.
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chris27292729: Have you ever tried, you and your past love,to give it,a resuscitaion kiss ???Meanig getting together again???
No he is with the woman he was cheating with and even it that ws not the case, I could not go there again. No could never trust him again. My questions was not just about me wondering why we get it wrong. A friend of mine just split from his wife. The were together for 4 years, got married now after 8 months of marriage they ended it. I was just wondering in general about how and why love goes so wrong so often.------ This thread is Archived ------
Red flags??? one of the many things is ,they don't know how too give in.???
josingleinspain: No he is with the woman he was cheating with and even it that ws not the case, I could not go there again. No could never trust him again. My questions was not just about me wondering why we get it wrong. A friend of mine just split from his wife. The were together for 4 years, got married now after 8 months of marriage they ended it. I was just wondering in general about how and why love goes so wrong so often.
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we are here, because we are not there...
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josingleinspain: No he is with the woman he was cheating with and even it that ws not the case, I could not go there again. No could never trust him again. My questions was not just about me wondering why we get it wrong. A friend of mine just split from his wife. The were together for 4 years, got married now after 8 months of marriage they ended it. I was just wondering in general about how and why love goes so wrong so often.
because it was not love in the 1st place, false type of love, thats why things go wrong,,jmo
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WhistlingDixie: Why are we all here ?
I was told you were having a Party , now all your doing is asking me questions i dont even understand .
O, was that a joke???????????I was told you were having a Party , now all your doing is asking me questions i dont even understand .
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josingleinspain: Why did we not keep the love we had alive. Why do we give up on the love that we had. How do we allow it that love we once had run through our fingers like sand. Why do we say I love you when it is too late. Did you argue with your ex and now you do not even know why?????
Now we are on dating site's like this hoping to find love again when we did not care enough to hold on to the last love we had???????? Why do we want to find love again if the next time round we will have a fight again about who's the one that feeds the cats or take out the trash????? If we find love again will we give more, try harder, love harder, share more, listen more, understand more??????????????? Will we say I love you more and most of all will we show how much we love??????
Do you ever wonder if the next time you will make it last forever. Will you still be that selfish person that just has to have it your way????? How many chances do we get to make it work?????
Now we are on dating site's like this hoping to find love again when we did not care enough to hold on to the last love we had???????? Why do we want to find love again if the next time round we will have a fight again about who's the one that feeds the cats or take out the trash????? If we find love again will we give more, try harder, love harder, share more, listen more, understand more??????????????? Will we say I love you more and most of all will we show how much we love??????
Do you ever wonder if the next time you will make it last forever. Will you still be that selfish person that just has to have it your way????? How many chances do we get to make it work?????
This is a dating site????
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?Whom of the men posted in your thread you going to date????
josingleinspain: O, was that a joke???????????
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josingleinspain: O, was that a joke???????????
Ok sorry , i know it wasnt that funny ,
But iff i promise to feed the Cats and take out the Trash everyday without question , can you laugh at maybe some of my jokes ,, not all , but maybe a couple now and again ..
And i promise to give up the drink
P.S ,
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Now we are on dating site's like this hoping to find love again when we did not care enough to hold on to the last love we had???????? Why do we want to find love again if the next time round we will have a fight again about who's the one that feeds the cats or take out the trash????? If we find love again will we give more, try harder, love harder, share more, listen more, understand more??????????????? Will we say I love you more and most of all will we show how much we love??????
Do you ever wonder if the next time you will make it last forever. Will you still be that selfish person that just has to have it your way????? How many chances do we get to make it work?????