detraOP100 mile house, British Columbia Canada58 posts
Hello,
I'm kind of new to this, I was just wondering does anyone else feel silly or bummed when you do not get (ANY) responses to flowers? So, to make a long story short a few weeks ago I sent about 10 to 15 flowers to men around me age who seem to have simular interests and values ! Anyways none of them have been opened, YIKES!!( been two weeks) It is sooooooooooo......hard to put yourself out there!, does it get better?
Anybody have any simular expereinces? come on.......... do share Thanks Detraxo
well all I have to say is that anybody not answering your flower is crazy and with that said you might want to check and see how long it has been since they have been on line. A lot of people come in and set up a profile and nevr come back.
But I like the thay their crazy for not responding to your flowers
EnigmaticExistncSouthCoast, British Columbia Canada802 posts
Yes, that happens....
I recommend checking their profile to see when they were last online before sending a flower. It will indicate on the top right hand corner how long. If says says "Over 1 Month", don't send one. Usually indicates someone who's not an active member and just hasn't deleted their profile.
If the man you sent a flower has been online since you sent it, then delete the flower from your outbox and move on.
There are many wonderful men on this site; don't give up.
PanthersKissMiddlesex County, Massachusetts USA967 posts
Never search the profiles, just look back at those that are looking at you, sometimes they will be shy to say hello, but if you see their continous interst, then send the flowers out.
Get to know the people here in the forums, show your personality, the flowers will then be comming to you.
Hi. Dont lose heart. Im new to but have sent and recieved flowers,mainly with people who are active in the forums.Also the flowers were sent on a frienship level.Hope the florist gets more work.Also a flower to every one that posts,you certainly make my days brighter
Well, if the flowers are unopened, then the people either didn't know how to open, how to see if they have them, or just haven't been online! I wouldn't worry too much about it! It's their loss!
Pleasure to meet you! I agree with all of what has been said above, not much more to say other than keep your chin up and be positive. You'll know when you've found the one.
Dont give up, like some said, go to the forums and let people to know you The ones that you sent the flowers and didnt open, maybe they are stupid or are not in the site anymore.
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I'm kind of new to this, I was just wondering does anyone else feel silly or bummed when you do not get (ANY) responses to flowers? So, to make a long story short a few weeks ago I sent about 10 to 15 flowers to men around me age who seem to have simular interests and values !
Anyways none of them have been opened, YIKES!!( been two weeks)
It is sooooooooooo......hard to put yourself out there!, does it get better?
Anybody have any simular expereinces?
come on.......... do share
Thanks Detraxo