People could assume you only know by being here yourself, though it is possible that a friend of yours is a member and has told you your guy is here...
so open an account and pretend to be someone else, see what he is upto.
almera03: People could assume you only know by being here yourself, though it is possible that a friend of yours is a member and has told you your guy is here...
so open an account and pretend to be someone else, see what he is upto.
That is terrible advice! Are there not enough fakers on this site already?
jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK12,293 posts
almera03: People could assume you only know by being here yourself, though it is possible that a friend of yours is a member and has told you your guy is here...
so open an account and pretend to be someone else, see what he is upto.
Oh no, Al, not more game playing...that never solves anything.
OP, if you don't have trust in your relationship, what do you have?
almera03: so you think one more will make any difference
Okay, after thinking about it I found that was not actually my main reason to object. I just would not advise anyone, who is in a relationship, to do such a sneaky thing. How would you feel if your better half tested you in such a way? If anyone tried that on me, they would automatically be history.
plainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines8,175 posts
almera03: If all the false accounts left in the next hour, the site and the forums would be greatly reduced, there'd hardly be anyone left to post or mail.
aw don't lose heart... the real ones who are lurking might start showing up, you'll never know
jac379: Oh no, Al, not more game playing...that never solves anything.
OP, if you don't have trust in your relationship, what do you have?
The profile pic of her guy could be stolen and being used, she wont find out unless she does something and if he's here being bad he's hardly likely to own up to it if she just asks him.
Wouldn't be the first profile using a "borrowed" photo.
Susanne1: Okay, after thinking about it I found that was not actually my main reason to object. I just would not advise anyone, who is in a relationship, to do such a sneaky thing. How would you feel if your better half tested you in such a way? If anyone tried that on me, they would automatically be history.
Very true, if someone done that to me they would be history.
Much better to hire a PI, they get paid to do such work!
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