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THINK YU HAVE TOO CONCIOUSLY DECIDE AS WHETHER YU DO OR DONT WANT THE RESPONSABILITY OF RAISING THEM YURSELF,MY SITUATION WAS HARDER AS BOTH CHILDREN WERE ADOPTED PLUS I HAD A BUSINESS AND A HOUSE,IF I HAD DECIDED NO THE CHILDREN WOULD HAVE BECOME WARDS OF THE STATE AND I HAD NO INTENTION OF ALLOWING THAT TO HAPPEN
I ADMIT PLENTY OF TIMES I WONDERED IF I HAD MADE A BAD CASE OF JUDGEMENT BUT WHEN AT END OF DAY AND YU SEE THE SMILES YU KNOW IT WAS ALL WORTH IT
WOMEN DO NOT WANT CHILDREN THAT AGE IF NOT THEIR OWN AND SO I STOPPED WORRYING ABOUT LOOKING FOR A PARTNER EARLY ON,THOUGH LATER I DID MEET AN ASIAN LADY WHO ALSO SINGLE PARENT AND ALL CHILDREN GOT ALONG WELL FOR 8 YRS UNTIL SHE WENT TO HER PARENTS IN CANADA
I wont jusge your ex wife because we don;t know her side of it and my ex husband was the custodial parent for my boys. I am very much involved with them also however.
But congratulations to you. I do not think you will ever regret what was a case of excellent judgement! If the world had more people like u...we'd truly have heaven on earth!