Married Men (17)
I would like to offer a view of the situation from another perspective.
When I was single there was nothing but tumbleweeds blowing through my love life.
After I was married women began to hit on me, often in very unsubtle ways.
After I was divorced, the tumbleweeds returned.
Other men report similar experiences.
There seem to be a lot of women who actually want to jump into bed with married men.
When I was single there was nothing but tumbleweeds blowing through my love life.
After I was married women began to hit on me, often in very unsubtle ways.
After I was divorced, the tumbleweeds returned.
Other men report similar experiences.
There seem to be a lot of women who actually want to jump into bed with married men.
ChinaAngel: Women out there..do you get hit on more by married men than single men..I do, even in 'real life'
Im not interested in married men, but single men seem to be so shy?
whats your thoughts/experiences?
Yep i agree with you.I cant tell you the amount of men just from this site that have tried to hit on me after they state their either married or in a relationship.Im not interested in married men, but single men seem to be so shy?
whats your thoughts/experiences?
ChinaAngel: Women out there..do you get hit on more by married men than single men..I do, even in 'real life'
Im not interested in married men, but single men seem to be so shy?
whats your thoughts/experiences?
I get married men and single men 20 years younger. Im not interested in either.Im not interested in married men, but single men seem to be so shy?
whats your thoughts/experiences?
The single guys around my age often scared of women because they have lost the wife, kids, house, car, dog and half their super in a messy divorce (cant blame them sometimes) but whats with the youngsters (toyboys)
Some men (and women) will always stray and some women "shut up shop" after kids come along.........no excuse for deceipt though.
ChinaAngel: Women out there..do you get hit on more by married men than single men..I do, even in 'real life'
Im not interested in married men, but single men seem to be so shy?
whats your thoughts/experiences?
Im not interested in married men, but single men seem to be so shy?
whats your thoughts/experiences?
when way younger i had to go on a defence force exercise..and yes it was the married men that played up... mind you some of the single men were rude crude and disgusting.. and there are women out there that are attracted to them
married men off limits and and so are rude crude and disgusting.. i deserve and demand a lot better...jmo
bonsai: I get married men and single men 20 years younger. Im not interested in either.
The single guys around my age often scared of women because they have lost the wife, kids, house, car, dog and half their super in a messy divorce (cant blame them sometimes) but whats with the youngsters (toyboys)
Some men (and women) will always stray and some women "shut up shop" after kids come along.........no excuse for deceipt though.
The single guys around my age often scared of women because they have lost the wife, kids, house, car, dog and half their super in a messy divorce (cant blame them sometimes) but whats with the youngsters (toyboys)
Some men (and women) will always stray and some women "shut up shop" after kids come along.........no excuse for deceipt though.
Of course, never an 'excuse' for infidelity.
Gosh whats a single girl to do..Im not doing the Demi Moore thing (having a 20yo boyfriend)
It aint just the men take it from me married women are huge players!! Was dating one until i realised she wasnt single.
Newlife08: Wow reading the above comments I think I have lived a very sheltered life
I must be old fashioned and figure when I have made a committment to somebody that they have made a committment to me too?
I must be old fashioned and figure when I have made a committment to somebody that they have made a committment to me too?
One would think, but sadly there's a hell of a lot of cheaters out there, married or otherwise
serene56: One would think, but sadly there's a hell of a lot of cheaters out there, married or otherwise
damn right there.
my girlfriend's husband emailed me on a dating site (he didnt know it was me as I didnt have my photo up) he sent a photo to me though and I said to him youre ....husband, I told him I was a friend of your wife...
goodness always suspected something 'off' about him..what a creep
ChinaAngel: damn right there.
my girlfriend's husband emailed me on a dating site (he didnt know it was me as I didnt have my photo up) he sent a photo to me though and I said to him youre ....husband, I told him I was a friend of your wife...
goodness always suspected something 'off' about him..what a creep
my girlfriend's husband emailed me on a dating site (he didnt know it was me as I didnt have my photo up) he sent a photo to me though and I said to him youre ....husband, I told him I was a friend of your wife...
goodness always suspected something 'off' about him..what a creep
Very creepy and as for married people men and women they should get the hell off these sites they are sleezy scum
This site is for singles helloooooo it's called conecting singles There is a site for sleezy married people so go there to get your rocks off where you are all tared with the same brush.
QUOTE: for all those married or peeps in relationships on these forums whom say they are married or likewise are only on here for friendship and chats plus their partner know they are here well you are excused
curly28: Very creepy and as for married people men and women they should get the hell off these sites they are sleezy scum This site is for singles helloooooo it's called conecting singles
There is a site for sleezy married people so go there to get your rocks off where you are all tared with the same brush.
QUOTE: for all those married or peeps in relationships on these forums whom say they are married or likewise are only on here for friendship and chats plus their partner know they are here well you are excused
There is a site for sleezy married people so go there to get your rocks off where you are all tared with the same brush.
QUOTE: for all those married or peeps in relationships on these forums whom say they are married or likewise are only on here for friendship and chats plus their partner know they are here well you are excused
I totally dont agree with your quote...if you are married/or in relationship why would you need to be on a dating site to find 'friendship' isnt being married or being in a relationship having someone for companionship??? Just a thought
ChinaAngel: I totally dont agree with your quote...if you are married/or in relationship why would you need to be on a dating site to find 'friendship' isnt being married or being in a relationship having someone for companionship??? Just a thought
Reason I said that is there are a few of our regulars on here that are in relationships and just come on here for the forums and chats ( not on the dating side of CS) some have been on here for a few years and never try to be anything but friends. It's a matter of fact some even bring their other half to the meets I don't see anything wrong with that it's the ones who are on here married and looking for a bit on the side going behind their partners back I don't like.
curly28: Reason I said that is there are a few of our regulars on here that are in relationships and just come on here for the forums and chats ( not on the dating side of CS) some have been on here for a few years and never try to be anything but friends. It's a matter of fact some even bring their other half to the meets I don't see anything wrong with that it's the ones who are on here married and looking for a bit on the side going behind their partners back I don't like.
Yes you are right, I was mainly directing to the dodgy ones
ChinaAngel: Yes you are right, I was mainly directing to the dodgy ones
no probs , it's unfortunate that there are dodgy married peeps on here and on lots of other sites as well, between married and scammers not a lot of area's open to us single peeps it sucks starting to think maybe if wanting relationship do it the old fashion way at a party though friends or like outdoor activates JMOJust stick to forums for friendships I do suits me
ChinaAngel: Im not good with large crowds of people I dont know which is why I prefer just one on one dates but know what you're saying. This site suggested getting on the forums which I have done, just to get to know all the nice people on here...like you
That is where the Meets are good, nobody really knows anybody. And you can hide a bit in the crowd for a while. And the funny thing is that everyone at the Meets seems to be a lot nicer in person.
I left Sydney 10 ago and it had a big singles scene for those over 40, 2 things on each Friday and Saturday nights. Crowds would range from 200-600, depending on the venue. Always helped if you went with a friend so you didn't look like a wallflower. But even without a 'date' there usually were groups there to link up with and just have a good night out.
Here in Melb, the Over 50s usually means "over 65" but some good nights around. And the groups I met with are usually smaller (20-30) but also meant everyone was in each others pocket. And the other ones I have heard about cater for the 30-40 age group.
I also tried a couple of Parents Without Partners dances but seems that nearly everyone is hooked up and don't like strangers showing up. You are welcomed at the door, they take your money with a smile, and if you are a guy, that is about it. The girls on the otherhand get mobbed by the blokes. "Come and join our table, they are great people to know."
wash2u: I have been through the "5-days out" scenario twice. And a big "NO" for batting for the other side by them. I do understand where you are coming from of wanting to just be able to spend time at home and with the family and not "have to go out."
Bloody hard when you have to take the garbage out to the bins, let alone to the kerb, mow the lawns, redo the gardens because "I think it would look better if...." clean the gutters, repaint the house, hang the washing, do the washing up, vacuum the floors and the other million jobs to do on your days off working.
I do see the wisdom in her comments. I now have someone to clean my house so I can spend some time enjoying the things I want to do. Must look at getting someone to do the yard work....clean the gutters, mow the lawns (okay, long grass), weed the gardens, paint the house, do my washing. All those chores I have done for the last 40 years that I felt were part of my duties as being part of a family.
Micky, some things we do because we feel that it is part of being a family. Sometimes we get a slight bit bored with life and what we have. But having been on the other side of someone "playing up because they are bored" is not my scene.
Simply put, "I'm free" should mean that and nothing else.
Bloody hard when you have to take the garbage out to the bins, let alone to the kerb, mow the lawns, redo the gardens because "I think it would look better if...." clean the gutters, repaint the house, hang the washing, do the washing up, vacuum the floors and the other million jobs to do on your days off working.
I do see the wisdom in her comments. I now have someone to clean my house so I can spend some time enjoying the things I want to do. Must look at getting someone to do the yard work....clean the gutters, mow the lawns (okay, long grass), weed the gardens, paint the house, do my washing. All those chores I have done for the last 40 years that I felt were part of my duties as being part of a family.
Micky, some things we do because we feel that it is part of being a family. Sometimes we get a slight bit bored with life and what we have. But having been on the other side of someone "playing up because they are bored" is not my scene.
Simply put, "I'm free" should mean that and nothing else.
Thanks mate
I've moved into a townhouse tiny lawn i pay a guy 10 bucks to mow it .Must get into the weeding lol.
Yes I understand its not all my wifes fault .I did what I thought was best for my family .If I had seen it coming I could have talked to her .
And moved on with my life !!
ChinaAngel: I totally dont agree with your quote...if you are married/or in relationship why would you need to be on a dating site to find 'friendship' isnt being married or being in a relationship having someone for companionship??? Just a thought
that was for people like me who have been here a long time and made a lot of good friends..we dont come here looking for friendship but to maintain friendships we already formed over the years
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Im not interested in married men, but single men seem to be so shy?
whats your thoughts/experiences?