how to move on? ( Archived) (39)

Sep 9, 2012 3:26 AM CST how to move on?
faith87
faith87faith87hawalli, Hawalli Kuwait2 Threads 4 Posts
its been a week since i didn't spoke to my fling. and i felt like am so sad and stressed. how to recover this kind of situation. i don't know how to move on cos we just agreed at first with no string attached..but it hurts when all end up..! frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Sep 9, 2012 3:30 AM CST how to move on?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
faith87: its been a week since i didn't spoke to my fling. and i felt like am so sad and stressed. how to recover this kind of situation. i don't know how to move on cos we just agreed at first with no string attached..but it hurts when all end up..!



Go on an exotic holiday somewhere. enjoy swimming and the night life.
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Sep 9, 2012 8:25 PM CST how to move on?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
left, right, left, right

just walk away
start with your left foot
and if all goes well...your right foot should be coming along shortly.
repeat as necessary,
and before ya know it, you've moved on.
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Sep 9, 2012 9:02 PM CST how to move on?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Give it more time than a week...and remember FWB's are exactly that wine
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Sep 9, 2012 9:06 PM CST how to move on?
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
This I have learn: give time a chance and try to stay as busy as possible so you wont have spare time to think about him, yeah its hard but its do able wave
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Sep 9, 2012 9:16 PM CST how to move on?
faith87: its been a week since i didn't spoke to my fling. and i felt like am so sad and stressed. how to recover this kind of situation. i don't know how to move on cos we just agreed at first with no string attached..but it hurts when all end up..!


"No strings attatched" means don't get involved. It means he had no intention of ever having a real relationship. It's like, "Okay, I'm up for a bit of fun, but then I'm for the next woman I find." Sorry to be so blunt, but you need time to heal and it's time to move on. You deserve a much better guy. And the next time a "no strings attatched" guy comes along, you will be more aware. Good luck in your search, and I hope you find what you're looking for.
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Sep 9, 2012 9:18 PM CST how to move on?
Wow, the wisdom the CS women display is awesome! cheering applause
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Sep 10, 2012 12:59 PM CST how to move on?
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
faith87: its been a week since i didn't spoke to my fling. and i felt like am so sad and stressed. how to recover this kind of situation. i don't know how to move on cos we just agreed at first with no string attached..but it hurts when all end up..!


don't worry..some women from this very forum, have broken my heart,, one of them even called me a liar because I said I was not in canada to call her .she accused me of having a fake profile, whereas I was simply travelling through The country of Georgia near Russia.doh
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Sep 10, 2012 2:48 PM CST how to move on?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
faith87: its been a week since i didn't spoke to my fling. and i felt like am so sad and stressed. how to recover this kind of situation. i don't know how to move on cos we just agreed at first with no string attached..but it hurts when all end up..!




confused call boban ... 1-800-get-pies
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Sep 11, 2012 3:13 PM CST how to move on?
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
cloud747: don't worry..some women from this very forum, have broken my heart,, one of them even called me a liar because I said I was not in canada to call her .she accused me of having a fake profile, whereas I was simply travelling through The country of Georgia near Russia.


hug
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Sep 11, 2012 3:22 PM CST how to move on?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,510 Posts
faith87: its been a week since i didn't spoke to my fling. and i felt like am so sad and stressed. how to recover this kind of situation. i don't know how to move on cos we just agreed at first with no string attached..but it hurts when all end up..!
There is always someone in a relationship who wants it to be different or more than what the other person wants. Now that you know you are not really capable of agreeing to having "no strings attached", don't do it again. (there really is no such thing, if you ask me). JMO
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Sep 11, 2012 3:31 PM CST how to move on?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
rohaan: There is always someone in a relationship who wants it to be different or more than what the other person wants. Now that you know you are not really capable of agreeing to having "no strings attached", don't do it again. (there really is no such thing, if you ask me). JMO


thumbs up totally agree with you on this
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Sep 11, 2012 3:34 PM CST how to move on?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,510 Posts
jono7: totally agree with you on this
jono! How ya doin', Kiddo? hug
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Sep 11, 2012 3:37 PM CST how to move on?
Simply_Pippa
Simply_PippaSimply_PippaDoha, Qatar11 Threads 1 Polls 49 Posts
My quote for the month - "don't stress yourself with someone who does not deserve to be an issue in your life"
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Sep 11, 2012 3:38 PM CST how to move on?
how to move on.....

step one - grab a cup of favorite ice cream....

step two - put on saddest music...

step three - cry for as long as you can however, no longer than one evening....

step four - suck it up, know it hurts, know time will mellow feelings, and get on with living.....

My favorite ice cream has bourbon and chocolate in it....grin

All the best to you
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Sep 11, 2012 3:43 PM CST how to move on?
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,510 Posts
Simply_Pippa: My quote for the month - "don't stress yourself with someone who does not deserve to be an issue in your life"
thumbs up thumbs up Right on!
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Sep 13, 2012 3:35 AM CST how to move on?
faith87
faith87faith87hawalli, Hawalli Kuwait2 Threads 4 Posts
thanks...it should take time..but its ok..gotta be strong..
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Sep 14, 2012 12:48 AM CST how to move on?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Never make someone your priority if you are only an obtion, he is obviously just playing the field at the moment, hes not worth your tears hun...you deserve better
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Sep 14, 2012 12:52 AM CST how to move on?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
serena123: Never make someone your priority if you are only an obtion, he is obviously just playing the field at the moment, hes not worth your tears hun...you deserve better



Ummm, she agreed to it, maybe she was the one that wanted it to start this way in the forst place.dunno

Why is it that so many always want to blame the man, make him out to be the heartless one, when so many times it's actually the woman that initiates the FWB relationship.

Dessreve better...you get what you get when you get involved, and that's that. roll eyes
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Sep 14, 2012 1:08 AM CST how to move on?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
kidatheart: Ummm, she agreed to it, maybe she was the one that wanted it to start this way in the forst place.

Why is it that so many always want to blame the man, make him out to be the heartless one, when so many times it's actually the woman that initiates the FWB relationship.

Dessreve better...you get what you get when you get involved, and that's that.
true, but I think most woman get emotionaly involved far quicker then men, so even if they both agree to a relationsip with no strings attached, the woman will always hope it ill become deeper sad flower
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